
AspiringMogger
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I watched this video and it reminded me of when I was first on dating apps (post fat loss). I would write enthusiastic paragraphs, make puns and jokes, really look at their profile and come off with jokes to seem witty.
I would either get a one liner in response or just flat out ghosted.
I have always been very problem-solving orientated in my life. I could clearly see these messages didn’t work so I had to adapt my approach. This was originally when I fell into the red pill cope.
After seeing that being an asshole, got me better results than being interested I got very jaded. Incredibly jaded even.