AlexAP
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1. Do not treat women nicer than men.
In everyday life, don't do things for women you wouldn't do for men. If you hold doors for women, do it for men too. If you help female students or coworkers when they have a problem, do it for male students or coworkers too. Treat both genders equally, don't make women's lifes easier by helping them more as if their problems would be more important than men's problems.
2. Do not comment on any woman's appearance if you're not dating or having a relationship with her.
Don't tell female friends, students or coworkers they look good, don't catcall women on the streets, don't swipe right on all girls you see on dating apps, don't give women any positive reaction after they show slutty pics on social media. It only inflates their egos and of course they know the compliments mean you want to have sex with them, meaning you are already at disadvantage as they have something you already confessed you want to have from them.
3. Do not spend money on women you're not dating or having a relationship with.
Don't pay for a woman's drinks on a bar, don't pay for anything they need, don't give them any presents and of course don't pay for any spicy online content you can get for free on other sites (and even if you can't get it for free on other sites). If you are dating a woman, split the bill. Women can earn their own money and you should be very selective on what you spend your money on.
4. Do not ask women out if you not already know her.
If you want to date a woman, wait until you had at least three conversations with her. If you ask out a stranger woman, you give them the impression that her mere existence is already enough for you to be so impressed that you want to spend your time and energy to convince her to have sex with you. At least pretend to care a little bit about her personality. The only difference would be if you only want short-term flings, than just be direct very fast, but never commit later on.
5. Do not build your career, lifestyle and relationship towards women on the goal of impressing women.
Don't measure any big life decision on the question "Will it help me to get hot women?" Your career should reflect your own life goals, your lifestly should reflect your personality and hobbies and your relationship towards women shouldn't be only related to dating, you can have female friends without having any romantic or sexual interest in them.
6. Do not grow resentment towards women.
You can only grow resentment towards women if you put women on a pedestal and think your worth as a man is measured solely on your dating success. Just as women can be happy single, you can be happy single if you have friends, hobbies and money. Of course it's good to want to have success with dating women and it's okay to feel bad if you struggle with it, but never let it be the only thing you live for and the thing that controls your emotional well-being.
7. Do not marry or have a relationship with a gold-digger.
If you ever managed to get rich, you have likely worked very hard to achieve that, you sacrificed a lot for many years, so you should never spend a lot of your money just for getting access to a pussy. Spend it for great experiences, goods or helping people you care about. You can still have relationships, but not based on you giving them money, so vet the women good, or you're a man who thinks being an attractive woman justifies getting millions from your bank account.
8. Do not marry without a pre-nup or have kids without a DNA test.
Marriage and kids are risky for men, but that doesn't mean you should avoid it altogether. If you want to have a family, just be prepared. Sign a prenup to protect you from losing any assets should you get divorced, and if you have kids, get a DNA test before you recognize paternity, even if it's your wife of 15 years. If she loves you, she should have no problem with it. And if it's not possible to sign a prenup or get a DNA test in your country, move to a country where it is.
9. Never show emotional weakness to a woman.
It's okay to show vulnerability. This can be done with saying "I sometimes feel a lot of pressure at work, it's a very competitive field" or "Sometimes I think I'm not good enough", etc., but never be a self-loathing, depressed, anxiuos loser who always needs validation and confirmation from his wife. This is neither attractive nor is it good for your own mental health.
10. Never let you get hit by a woman.
Never under any circumstances allow a woman to hit you. If a woman gets emotional for no reason and raises her hand, stop her before she reaches you. And even if you really fucked up, there's no justification for using violence. Man or woman, initiating violence is never justified. If she does manage to hit you, don't hit back - gather evidence, call the police and never talk to her again.
In everyday life, don't do things for women you wouldn't do for men. If you hold doors for women, do it for men too. If you help female students or coworkers when they have a problem, do it for male students or coworkers too. Treat both genders equally, don't make women's lifes easier by helping them more as if their problems would be more important than men's problems.
2. Do not comment on any woman's appearance if you're not dating or having a relationship with her.
Don't tell female friends, students or coworkers they look good, don't catcall women on the streets, don't swipe right on all girls you see on dating apps, don't give women any positive reaction after they show slutty pics on social media. It only inflates their egos and of course they know the compliments mean you want to have sex with them, meaning you are already at disadvantage as they have something you already confessed you want to have from them.
3. Do not spend money on women you're not dating or having a relationship with.
Don't pay for a woman's drinks on a bar, don't pay for anything they need, don't give them any presents and of course don't pay for any spicy online content you can get for free on other sites (and even if you can't get it for free on other sites). If you are dating a woman, split the bill. Women can earn their own money and you should be very selective on what you spend your money on.
4. Do not ask women out if you not already know her.
If you want to date a woman, wait until you had at least three conversations with her. If you ask out a stranger woman, you give them the impression that her mere existence is already enough for you to be so impressed that you want to spend your time and energy to convince her to have sex with you. At least pretend to care a little bit about her personality. The only difference would be if you only want short-term flings, than just be direct very fast, but never commit later on.
5. Do not build your career, lifestyle and relationship towards women on the goal of impressing women.
Don't measure any big life decision on the question "Will it help me to get hot women?" Your career should reflect your own life goals, your lifestly should reflect your personality and hobbies and your relationship towards women shouldn't be only related to dating, you can have female friends without having any romantic or sexual interest in them.
6. Do not grow resentment towards women.
You can only grow resentment towards women if you put women on a pedestal and think your worth as a man is measured solely on your dating success. Just as women can be happy single, you can be happy single if you have friends, hobbies and money. Of course it's good to want to have success with dating women and it's okay to feel bad if you struggle with it, but never let it be the only thing you live for and the thing that controls your emotional well-being.
7. Do not marry or have a relationship with a gold-digger.
If you ever managed to get rich, you have likely worked very hard to achieve that, you sacrificed a lot for many years, so you should never spend a lot of your money just for getting access to a pussy. Spend it for great experiences, goods or helping people you care about. You can still have relationships, but not based on you giving them money, so vet the women good, or you're a man who thinks being an attractive woman justifies getting millions from your bank account.
8. Do not marry without a pre-nup or have kids without a DNA test.
Marriage and kids are risky for men, but that doesn't mean you should avoid it altogether. If you want to have a family, just be prepared. Sign a prenup to protect you from losing any assets should you get divorced, and if you have kids, get a DNA test before you recognize paternity, even if it's your wife of 15 years. If she loves you, she should have no problem with it. And if it's not possible to sign a prenup or get a DNA test in your country, move to a country where it is.
9. Never show emotional weakness to a woman.
It's okay to show vulnerability. This can be done with saying "I sometimes feel a lot of pressure at work, it's a very competitive field" or "Sometimes I think I'm not good enough", etc., but never be a self-loathing, depressed, anxiuos loser who always needs validation and confirmation from his wife. This is neither attractive nor is it good for your own mental health.
10. Never let you get hit by a woman.
Never under any circumstances allow a woman to hit you. If a woman gets emotional for no reason and raises her hand, stop her before she reaches you. And even if you really fucked up, there's no justification for using violence. Man or woman, initiating violence is never justified. If she does manage to hit you, don't hit back - gather evidence, call the police and never talk to her again.
