Any Hinge/Tinder tips ?

[shandingo]

Even though I think dating apps are the single biggest reason for modern hypergamy and the terrible state of the dating market right now , it is a necessary evil that every young man must go through. Most Gen Z couples meet through either Hinge or Tinder and if you are not on them you are at a massive disadvantage.

Matches are not a problem , the issue is actually getting these attention grabbing foids on a date. I feel like after the first messages as soon as logistics come up I just get ghosted. I feel like most foids are on here for attention and unless chad shows up they won't be arsed to go on a date with you.

I usually 1. open with a flirty line 2. they flirt back 3. then I ask what area they are in 4. then I try for the number . It usually fails around stage 3-4 always.

Any tips on converting matches into dates ?

Love

 

[bleedinginfras]

you know exactly what is missing, looks

 

[shandingo]

you know exactly what is missing, looks

Yes I agree of course it is rough for sub-7s. You can still get dates as a MTN + though just takes a bit more effort perhaps. I was just wondering if people had any wisdom on shit that does/doesn't work to get dates.

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

Be 6’5

 

[bleedinginfras]

Yes I agree of course it is rough for sub-7s. You can still get dates as a MTN + though just takes a bit more effort perhaps. I was just wondering if people had any wisdom on shit that does/doesn't work to get dates.

unfortunately your way of expressing yourself, your humor and your flirting skills arent very useful on dating apps

and as you yourself said, they have access to men a thousand times more attractive so they are using you for attention

they will never chose you when they have multiple htn-cl options

the best is probably to talk to them irl

 

[shandingo]

unfortunately your way of expressing yourself, your humor and your flirting skills arent very useful on dating apps

and as you yourself said, they have access to men a thousand times more attractive so they are using you for attention

they will never chose you when they have multiple htn-cl options

the best is probably to talk to them irl

Yeh but IRL is unfortunately the same. Most couples meet through dating apps as of now. Even if a foid is not on the apps , she knows she has the possibility to load up and get flooded with 100s of matches. I know its anecdotal but I know plenty of MTNs with MTB/LTB foids sourced from Tinder/Hinge. I fraud being a 6ft HTN with gymmaxxing and moneymaxxing btw , not too far off these stats IRL but I am ethnic .