Any other above-average mentalcels? How do you cope?

[JamesHowlett]

I’m a 25 year old North Indian and live in/was born in England.

I was obese and ugly throughout my child/teenhood.

After looksmaxxing, leanmaxxing and puberty I am now above-average but not Chad-tier.

I get female attention now but I’ve been left an absolute mentalcel. BDD, mild social anxiety, perfectionist and validation seeking behaviour, etc

How do you guys cope or how did you get better? I’ve thrown away so many opportunities for sex/dates/relationships because of this.

 

[hebbewem]

I am not above average

 

[JamesHowlett]

I am not above average

Are you mentalcel?

 

[hebbewem]

Are you mentalcel?

I dont think so. But some people say i am not nt

 

[Deleted member 4123]

Therapy,meditating,sleep 7/8 hours a day, tbh for the rest idk. Have exactly the same issues as OP

 

[rockndogs]

North Indian

above-average mentalcel

 

[JamesHowlett]

North Indian

above-average mentalcel


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What’s your point?

 

[SuicideBomber]

I have same problem. Its not really my looks which make me self-conscious its my switching self esteem. I cant control it. I want to control it and i try to fight against it with positive activites like gym, doing something productive etc... but in the end i always get the same thoughts.

I could get enough female attention, but this constant self doubt crushes me down everytime. I just want it to end.