Anybody else feel extremely frustrated during their ascension?

[NewRomantic]

I’ve been actively looksmaxxing and ascending for around the last ~7 months and while I like my progress here and there I can’t help but feel so far away from the life that I want and what will come with it when I finally ascend

I’m a 6/10 (normie scale), any way you slice it I’m slightly above average and I honest to God think my ceiling is a 9/10 (normie scale cuz im a bonelet ngl but Chico said that it was okay) anyways it’s just so fucking tiring constantly looking in the mirror for some kind of validation I guess from myself that I’m almost Chad.

I hit the gym 6x a week, play football and on the path to go professional, I make video games and study IT to make money, been growing my hair out, following and researching fashion and fragrances so when I can afford them I’ll look amazing, getting Invisalign for my already almost perfect teeth

I *am* progressing, I know that in my head and I can see it in my body and my habits but I just wish I had some kind of checkpoint or some kind of validation that lets me know it’s *something* actually happening because flipping the selfie camera on and seeing the same face or worse everyday is starting to get to me man. I truly believe I’ll have ascended by next year April (my birthday) but I feel so deflated being stuck in the same elo all this time.

Any advice or stories that will help? Or just venting because I can’t talk to anybody irl about this shit tbh it’s too embarrassing

 

[rubberbands]

low test behaviour by looking at yourself in the mirror too much

 

[lampog]

You've probably reached your natural limit. Look into hardmaxxing or just socialize

 

[Ant.is.ltn]

I’ve been actively looksmaxxing and ascending for around the last ~7 months and while I like my progress here and there I can’t help but feel so far away from the life that I want and what will come with it when I finally ascend

I’m a 6/10 (normie scale), any way you slice it I’m slightly above average and I honest to God think my ceiling is a 9/10 (normie scale cuz im a bonelet ngl but Chico said that it was okay) anyways it’s just so fucking tiring constantly looking in the mirror for some kind of validation I guess from myself that I’m almost Chad.

I hit the gym 6x a week, play football and on the path to go professional, I make video games and study IT to make money, been growing my hair out, following and researching fashion and fragrances so when I can afford them I’ll look amazing, getting Invisalign for my already almost perfect teeth

I *am* progressing, I know that in my head and I can see it in my body and my habits but I just wish I had some kind of checkpoint or some kind of validation that lets me know it’s *something* actually happening because flipping the selfie camera on and seeing the same face or worse everyday is starting to get to me man. I truly believe I’ll have ascended by next year April (my birthday) but I feel so deflated being stuck in the same elo all this time.

Any advice or stories that will help? Or just venting because I can’t talk to anybody irl about this shit tbh it’s too embarrassing

i mean if youre able to go pro in football then being a top athlete already gives you a halo affect to girls who know about that youll money and status max from that and thats important so if youre a decent height(I'm assuming you are cause of pro football) and above average while having money and status youre chilling

 

[NewRomantic]

i mean if youre able to go pro in football then being a top athlete already gives you a halo affect to girls who know about that youll money and status max from that and thats important so if youre a decent height(I'm assuming you are cause of pro football) and above average while having money and status youre chilling

I’m 5’10 I’m just really good at football, but anyways while I love the sport I don’t want the halo of the sport by itself I want to improve in every facet of my life and then I can be satisfied knowing I did and tried my best without relying on natural talent

I like progressing but it’s so frustrating how slow it feels sometimes