Anybody else who doesn’t naturally rlly want friends?

[MlkJr.]

The pandemic was probably the best time of my time. I was like 15 and just chilling all day by myself. I’d play basketball outside alone, come in and play video games alone (ig some were technically multiplayer tho). I never really left my house or talked to people other than my parents or brother, but I was so content with my life. I prolly went multiple months without seeing a girl my age, but I could see hot girls on the internet, so even that didn’t feel like a problem.

It’s only been ever since I had to go back to school after about a year and a half that I have started feeling lonely. It’s hard not to feel excluded when you see everybody else with friends and girlfriends. Just made me feel bad about myself and jealous. I honestly believe if we had another pandemic, I would revert back to my old happy life.

I guess it’s just ignorance. But I am wondering if anybody else feels this way, I mean feeling lonely because you see other people with friends and girls, or if you guys just feel lonely naturally. I’m pretty sure I’m autistic or sum so maybe my brain is just different than your.

Sorry if this is hard to read I’m tired af rn

 

[fjor2096]

Yeah, I wrote some threads about this. Similar age to you but I only like having friends when it is used as a statusmaxx (e.g. at school or outside in general) during my free time I'd rather chill by myself.

 

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incel trait

 

[MlkJr.]

If you are saying that it is easier to have friends in social situation then I agree w you, but my point is honestly I wouldn’t mind just not engaging in social situations

 

[MlkJr.]

incel trait

Fr, I want pussy but I don’t want to hear the girl talk lol

 

[Deleted member 23115]

Yeah, I wrote some threads about this. Similar age to you but I only like having friends when it is used as a statusmaxx (e.g. at school or outside in general) during my free time I'd rather chill by myself.

real friends dont exist its based to act like that

i also had friends for status and also i wanted to learn their ways esp if they were more nt than me

 

[RidgewayLasher]

The pandemic was probably the best time of my time. I was like 15 and just chilling all day by myself. I’d play basketball outside alone, come in and play video games alone (ig some were technically multiplayer tho). I never really left my house or talked to people other than my parents or brother, but I was so content with my life. I prolly went multiple months without seeing a girl my age, but I could see hot girls on the internet, so even that didn’t feel like a problem.

It’s only been ever since I had to go back to school after about a year and a half that I have started feeling lonely. It’s hard not to feel excluded when you see everybody else with friends and girlfriends. Just made me feel bad about myself and jealous. I honestly believe if we had another pandemic, I would revert back to my old happy life.

I guess it’s just ignorance. But I am wondering if anybody else feels this way, I mean feeling lonely because you see other people with friends and girls, or if you guys just feel lonely naturally. I’m pretty sure I’m autistic or sum so maybe my brain is just different than your.

Sorry if this is hard to read I’m tired af rn

I would put it like this: its not that you don't trust other people its just that you trust yourself the most.

Just don't become a complete loner have some company at least

 

[Deleted member 20652]

Yeah I'm a natural loner because of high testosterone. I don't crave a social life

Lonely men have higher testosterone levels

Men who socialise more produce less testosterone than men who live an isolated existence. It's possible to deduce this from an animal study that researchers at the University of Padova in Italy published recently in Steroids.

www.ergo-log.com

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//Thomas DOM