anyone else "match" someone elses tone/energy in conversations?

[sytyl]

I've noticed over time that when speaking to people I've never met before, I'm not able to "be" myself. Instead the way I speak and the way I vocally present myself matches the other person. As an example, if someone I am meeting for the first time is quiet and nervous... I'm going to match it by being quiet as well. Same thing for if somebody is energetic, I'll be energetic.

It takes me at least 2-3 conversations with someone before I can "be" myself, before then I definitely give off the wrong impression.

How do I be myself instead of doing this autist shit?

 

[needsolution]

try vyvanse

 

[Deleted member 7125]

There is a mental condition that causes one to pick up the personality of others and replicate it

 

[sytyl]

try vyvanse

not 6'4.5 and black enough

 

[Deleted member 6723]

yes. Since I dont want them to think im like some kind of weirdo so I copy them until I am more comfortable being my true self.

 

[sytyl]

yes. Since I dont want them to think im like some kind of weirdo so I copy them until I am more comfortable being my true self.

Don't you feel this leaves a bad impression? Especially so if the person you're "matching" is not the most socially inclined person.

 

[Deleted member 6191]

There is a mental condition that causes one to pick up the personality of others and replicate it

Say wallah wtf

 

[Blackout.xl]

try vyvanse

I miss vyvanse

 

[Deleted member 6723]

Don't you feel this leaves a bad impression? Especially so if the person you're "matching" is not the most socially inclined person.

idk. Thats just what I do. Analyze them, copy them especially so I fit in with them.

 

[Mouthbreath]

I'm sometimes subconsciously copying their accents.

 

[needsolution]

I miss vyvanse

Im trying to get it since some time, asked few people who potentially could have it but they didnt

 

[Blackout.xl]

Im trying to get it since some time, asked few people who potentially could have it but they didnt

Brutal. Aren’t u in Poland? They may only have Ritalin tbh

 

[needsolution]

Brutal. Aren’t u in Poland? They may only have Ritalin tbh

No adderall, no ritalin, no vyvanse. Nothing in this shithole.

 

[Blackout.xl]

No adderall, no ritalin, no vyvanse. Nothing in this shithole.

Brutal

 

[Deleted member 6191]

Who is larping as yuyevons morph

 

[AbandonShip]

You have terminal cancer. Rope asap

 

[sytyl]

You have terminal cancer. Rope asap

Thx bro.

 

[AbandonShip]

 

[AbandonShip]

EVERYTHING POSTED BY THIS USERNAME IS SERIOUS AND IS IN EVERY WAY REFLECTIVE OF MY REAL VIEWS

 

[Cali Yuga]

you probably had emotionally unstable parents and had to self erase as a child

 

[Azoriko]

I call that functioning high inhib

How do I be myself instead of doing this autist shit?

force it? only way..

 

[Deleted member 7863]

Your so beta you cant even be yourself lmaoooooo

 

[Ritalincel]

try vyvanse

 

[sytyl]

.

Hi.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

never open up to ppl especially women . they will use it against u. put on a facade of being a tough guy

 

[Jagged0]

I've noticed over time that when speaking to people I've never met before, I'm not able to "be" myself. Instead the way I speak and the way I vocally present myself matches the other person. As an example, if someone I am meeting for the first time is quiet and nervous... I'm going to match it by being quiet as well. Same thing for if somebody is energetic, I'll be energetic.

It takes me at least 2-3 conversations with someone before I can "be" myself, before then I definitely give off the wrong impression.

How do I be myself instead of doing this autist shit?

It’s called being a psychopath

 

[Azoriko]

It’s called being a psychopath

tbh

 

[sytyl]

It’s called being a psychopath

elab

 

[Azoriko]

elab

don't ask me why i'm reading books about this shit, but he's right. psychopaths try to copy (subconscious thing) the body language and vibe of the person they are talking to in order to act normal, imagine them being themselves..not good. it's a defense mechanism. but it can also be true to people who are just uncomfortable so they're trying to do that. 1 way to know if someone is feeling good with someone else is if you see the 2 people imitate the same body language, same sitting or things like that but they don't think about it / aren't psycho

 

[Ocelot]

Inject

Fr tho I do this except it’s some of their vocabulary/mannerisms and not tone. I’ve noticed others do this with mine as well so I never really gave it much thought.

 

[Jagged0]

elab

In the beginning the psychopath will ask a lots of questions? You were flattered that he seemed to know and understand you so well? How he knew you like nobody else, this has to be a soul mate connection – right? He is just like you….. and has same values, same goals, and seems to have similar to offer as you.

The psychopath is a predator and has the ability to read a person better than anyone Despite his warm charismatic extererior, behind this lies a cold calculating mind, not inhibited by emotions. The psychopath will do lots of things to assess you, and to decide what you are worth, and if what you have to offer is what he needs. To the psychopath, a victim/target is no more than a tool to be used.

He is the slick, smooth salesman, and will assess you, for what you want, what you need, will mirror back to you, and then ‘sell’ you exactly what you want. Its the ultimate deception. The psychopath is expert at selling himself, to be exactly what you want and need.

 

[sytyl]

don't ask me why i'm reading books about this shit, but he's right. psychopaths try to copy (subconscious thing) the body language and vibe of the person they are talking to in order to act normal, imagine them being themselves..not good. it's a defense mechanism. but it can also be true to people who are just uncomfortable so they're trying to do that. 1 way to know if someone is feeling good with someone else is if you see the 2 people imitate the same body language, same sitting or things like that.

I feel empathy for my friends and family so I don't think I'm psychopathic. Functioning high inhib probably.

 

[Azoriko]

I feel empathy for my friends and family so I don't think I'm psychopathic. Functioning high inhib probably.

lol i'm sure you're not it's not even a question. psychos do that for other reasons, it was a joke the ''tbh''

 

[Azoriko]

op singing at home rn