Anyone else never tried?

[Gargantuan]

Honestly, I've never tried to:

• Have sex
• Date or hook up with a girl
• Pursue a girl
• Be in a relationship (both STR and LTR)
• Use tinder or any dating app for that matter
• Hit on/approached girls at parties, festivals etc.
• I have kissed a girl before in all honesty, I did kinda try here tbh but I kinda regret it since I was drunk at the time and once my drunkness was starting to go away, I found out she was a quite a low-tier Becky

It feels weird when I think about it at times. I mean I don't give a shit about what other people do, but when I look around almost everyone experiences these things and just as importantly, they try to pursue them actively. In fact, almost all ranges of normies do and succeed in a lot of cases, at least from my observations.
I'm not a truecel btw, volcel normie if anything although I've been balding for the last couple of years to the point of NW2 so that has probably killed a lot my remaining SMV.
I've had an oneitis twice, didn't do anything since they both had boyfriends at the time and I'm longer interested in either of them anyway tbh.
I get along fine with most girls IRL, I basically talk to them on a daily basis, (obviously not right now with the corona BS going on), they don't ignore me and don't act in a cold manner either.

As for IOIs concerned, none since almost everyone here considers P in V to be the only legitimate IOI and I probably agree with that as well. I've only had low-tier IOIs (wouldn't call them IOIs but I'm gonna label them by giving it a name anyway): Girls have met my eyes multiple times in several settings (was always too high inhib to approach), been complimented on the way that I dress, been told that I'm funny, that I have an infectious laugh, I've been told I was 'cute' at times, that I'm smart/intelligent etc. So, I might have missed out on some opportunities or maybe I haven't and I'm just coping and none of them ever meant anything. I don't know.

Anyone else with a similar story?

 

[Deleted member 5683]

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[Gargantuan]

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I wrote an essay only to get 0 replies. It's beyond over for me, probably never began either.

 

[Hector]

I am gigamentalcel

 

[Gargantuan]

I am gigamentalcel

Same honestly

 

[Deleted member 4464]

same
I've kissed a girl but never tried to approach

 

[Deleted member 4209]

approached 2 girls in my life, realised it is not worth the humiliation and never tried again

 

[Gargantuan]

same
I've kissed a girl but never tried to approach

Good to know I'm not the only one.
I'm 22 right now though, should be entering my peak soon so I feel like it's kinda weird I'm not even trying if you know what I mean.

 

[godirl]

Yes

 

[Gargantuan]

approached 2 girls in my life, realised it is not worth the humiliation and never tried again

Same might happen to me honestly. Despite never approaching thus far, I don't know if I'll even succeed if I do try it.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

Same might happen to me honestly. Despite never approaching thus far, I don't know if I'll even succeed if I do try it.

dont approach until ur 5 psl or more

 

[Beetlejuice]

I tried tinder just for fun with a selfie in the basement,few matches with decent looking girls.
Same as you in the rest basically,i have never been complimented in person,only online;i recived some IOIS with people that i don't even know in random places.

 

[ElliotRodgerJr]

I don’t understand. Just get on tinder, go on a date then go back to her or your place, then have sex. If you’re normie you can do it.

 

[Gargantuan]

I don’t understand. Just get on tinder, go on a date then go back to her or your place, then have sex. If you’re normie you can do it.

Maybe you're right and I should just try and actually put some effort into it. However, I can't use tinder rn since I recently used my phone number on a catfish account so I might have to buy a new sim card if I want to make a new account.

 

[Deleted member 6217]

I also have never approached a girl because i know i have 85% chance rejection.
I wanted to do it today but im mentalcel tbh

 

[Gargantuan]

I also have never approached a girl because i know i have 85% chance rejection.
I wanted to do it today but im mentalcel tbh

I feel your struggle, mentalceldom is an issue for me as well. I just hope I'll find someone suitable who I can approach in real life through work/college or so in the near future.