anyone else only lack courage socially?

[Hurricane1]

i have no problem taking risks that are do not have a social aspect and i put myself through pretty torturous training as a swimmer and in the gym but i sometimes have issues taking risks in social situations

like for example it’s hard for me to initiate something like a kiss even if i know the girl likes me unless i’ve had a few drinks. And another thing is i have more courage texting than in person

i think i used to be less attractive and charismatic which has left me with some self image issues

 

[NorwoodAscender]

yeah but it goes away with exposure