Anyone ever had a clingy gf?

[Deleted member 275]

Wondering how that is tbh. Felt like both my girlfriends were always uninvested from the start. Kinda like a fwb that ends with the first conflict

 

[Deleted member 11758]

my first gf was latina and she was clingy, i heard latina girls are very clingy

 

[Reckless Turtle]

The more physically attractive you are, the clingier they get.

 

[Yliaster]

Great question to ask on a predominantly Incel forum

 

[Deleted member 15129]

Never had one, but my friends sister was very clingy to me in middle school and repeatedly tried to kiss me. We would play Minecraft together alone for hours late at night too.

 

[Deleted member 9670]

Great question to ask on a predominantly Incel forum

chads.org

 

[Deleted member 275]

Never had one, but my friends sister was very clingy to me in middle school and repeatedly tried to kiss me. We would play Minecraft together alone for hours late at night too.

Why did nothing happen broo

 

[Deleted member 15129]

Why did nothing happen broo

Our families were friends, but as they discovered that their values weren't really aligned with my parents, we spent less and less time together. Eventually leading to me not talking to that friend much anymore, or his sister tbh.

It's okay now in hindsight, I talked to the friend recently and apparently she has some mental disorder and had to be homeschooled during highschool jfl

 

[Deleted member 275]

Great question to ask on a predominantly Incel forum

This isnt .is

 

[Ryan]

Never had one, but my friends sister was very clingy to me in middle school and repeatedly tried to kiss me. We would play Minecraft together alone for hours late at night too.

Same but the second part didnt happened to me

 

[Pythagoras]

Your avi is too good op.

 

[CtrlAltDelete]

Never had one, but my friends sister was very clingy to me in middle school and repeatedly tried to kiss me. We would play Minecraft together alone for hours late at night too.

did you put your bed next to her bro

 

[Deleted member 14303]

I’ve had a clingy gf and that shit is annoying as fuck you can’t do anything without her bitch ass being all up in your shit, usually happens when the woman has nothing to do all day, doesn’t go to school or work so she just clings on to your life.

 

[metagross]

Wondering how that is tbh. Felt like both my girlfriends were always uninvested from the start. Kinda like a fwb that ends with the first conflict

You have to be atleast somewhat attractive for her to be clingy.

Otherwise hypergamy sets in easily

 

[Callooh_Calais]

I never had a clingy girlfriend per se (I've had girls who preferred doing everything with me, but it wasn't clingy in the way it was done), but I've had interest in girls who'd send major red flags by trying to come to my house or fuck me at my workplace after a good conversation or two on facebook, sometimes I'd have girls tell me they'd cry because I didn't respond to their messages for +3 days, so those sort of girls are hit-or-miss with me since they're either really sweet (if insecure) or terrifying and make me think I have a potential stalker on my hands.

Once, I met a girl at mattress store, and she ended up trying to fight my ex when she saw me with her. It was some crazy shit.

 

[Callooh_Calais]

Great question to ask on a predominantly Incel forum

Is this really a predominately incel forum? I feel like a good chunk of users here are incels, but then a large number are just normal guys who care about maxing out their aesthetics to the pinnacle

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Is this really a predominately incel forum? I feel like a good chunk of users here are incels, but then a large number are just normal guys who care about maxing out their aesthetics to the pinnacle

Most men are incel, so do the math.

 

[TITUS]

If it's her 20th dick she's unlikely to be very clingy.

 

[Deleted member 1476]

I could only dream of having a clingy girlfriend

 

[Deleted member 14543]

i had a girl that was so scared of me cheating on her. she would make me stay at her house every night. have a bath ready for when i got back from work, with the dinner on. then wake up with me at 5am the next day to make me a packed lunch before work. and if i wanted to have a night alone she would kick up a tantrum like a child. think i stayed with her every night for like 1.5 years. still went and fucked other girls at any chance i got lol

 

[Deleted member 275]

i had a girl that was so scared of me cheating on her. she would make me stay at her house every night. have a bath ready for when i got back from work, with the dinner on. then wake up with me at 5am the next day to make me a packed lunch before work. and if i wanted to have a night alone she would kick up a tantrum like a child. think i stayed with her every night for like 1.5 years. still went and fucked other girls at any chance i got lol

Woahh sounds like ideal relationship if she's also attractive.

 

[Deleted member 14543]

Woahh sounds like ideal relationship if she's also attractive.

yeah she was hot but mentally abusive x100

 

[Deleted member 275]

yeah she was hot but mentally abusive x100

I need this

 

[Deleted member 14543]

I need this

you need to be mentally abused?

 

[Deleted member 275]

you need to be mentally abused?

Most girls are mentally abusive anyways. You said she was hot

 

[Deleted member 14543]

Most girls are mentally abusive anyways. You said she was hot

true tbh. ive had a gf that wasnt mentally abusive. really nice girl but she had literally 0 conversation in her. negl i preferred the mentally abusive one

 

[SeiGun]

if your girlfriend is not clingy, she is not attracted to you

 

[Deleted member 275]

if your girlfriend is not clingy, she is not attracted to you

I had a date with a girl last weekend and the moment we met and started the date, she was already low energy and seemed uninterested/bored.
In hindsight, I should've ended the date right there in the first 5 minutes since it was clear she wasn't attracted to me.

I am glad I am getting some dating and relationship experiences atleast. Because otherwise you don't know what you are missing out on and how women actually interested in you are supposed to act around you. I can't settle down yet untill I get some more experience though. I don't want to get settled for.

Being NT also seems to be complete cope on dates. If a girl thinks you are hot, conversation flows naturally and is always interesting. Every joke is funny, etc.

 

[SeiGun]

I had a date with a girl last weekend and the moment we met and started the date, she was already low energy and seemed uninterested/bored.
In hindsight, I should've ended the date right there in the first 5 minutes since it was clear she wasn't attracted to me.

I am glad I am getting some dating and relationship experiences atleast. Because otherwise you don't know what you are missing out on and how women actually interested in you are supposed to act around you. I can't settle down yet untill I get some more experience though. I don't want to get settled for.

Being NT also seems to be complete cope on dates. If a girl thinks you are hot, conversation flows naturally and is always interesting. Every joke is funny, etc.

i hooked up with some low psl girls on tinder that i would not proud of,
they all trying to hold my hand in public and i just jokingly swing my hand wide and hard to avoid the hand holding lmao
so i think girl will do this kind of similar thing to man if she is not really attracted

 

[AlexAP]

Most girls are mentally abusive anyways. You said she was hot

true tbh. ive had a gf that wasnt mentally abusive. really nice girl but she had literally 0 conversation in her. negl i preferred the mentally abusive one

But women are evil because they prefer bad boys over nice guys.

 

[Deleted member 14543]

But women are evil because they prefer bad boys over nice guys.

i would prefer the nice girl if she could hold a conversation any day of the week.

 

[Deleted member 275]

But women are evil because they prefer bad boys over nice guys.

Idk, I don't relate to what @Digital Hitler says that much.

Women have preferences and options. They choose the bad boys.

Most men just take what they can get. Atleast I do, D Hitler is probably chad so he has options too.

 

[APJ]

If it's her 20th dick she's unlikely to be very clingy.

“You don’t fall in love as hard in your mid-20s as you do when you’re 19... now it’s more like a deep contentment” heard this multiple times from women.

They also seem to be ok with life being like this, what the fuck?

 

[TsarTsar444]

My gf is, but only when i buy her donuts, fucking fatties tbh!

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Wondering how that is tbh. Felt like both my girlfriends were always uninvested from the start. Kinda like a fwb that ends with the first conflict

Some can get dangerous. I've had my fair share of stalkers. This one would throw rocks at my window and scream, "YOU SAID YOU LOVED ME!"

So I would open that window and reply loudly, "I have amnesia! I don't remember you!"

 

[Deleted member 14543]

Idk, I don't relate to what @Digital Hitler says that much.

Women have preferences and options. They choose the bad boys.

Most men just take what they can get. Atleast I do, D Hitler is probably chad so he has options too.

im not chad im 5'4

 

[Deleted member 275]

“You don’t fall in love as hard in your mid-20s as you do when you’re 19... now it’s more like a deep contentment” heard this multiple times from women.

They also seem to be ok with life being like this, what the fuck?

It's true. I felt much better when I had crushes in high school, than when I was actually with my first love at 23yo. You brain simply deteriorates, its the brutal agepill.

 

[Deleted member 275]

im not chad im 5'4

How have you had so many relationships at 5'4 lol.

 

[Deleted member 14543]

How have you had so many relationships at 5'4 lol.

i dont know

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Wondering how that is tbh. Felt like both my girlfriends were always uninvested from the start. Kinda like a fwb that ends with the first conflict

Yeah, my boss's secretary. A week after working at our company she was a virgin no more, and pretty soon she was spending about three nights a week at my apartment. The irritating behavior started right off the bat. She'd show up at places unannounced (my work) with food or to say hi. I made the mistake of giving her a key. Many days on the way home from work I'd find myself hoping she wouldn't be there that night. She'd often clean sh*t without asking and move my things around, making them hard to find. After about a month she started talking about meeting her parents and having babies. It was getting to be too much. Sometimes when getting home from work I'd just tell her to leave if she was there. I was pretty mean and made her cry real bad a few times. Once my rental contract was up I moved to a new apartment and didn't give her a key. I still let her come over for sex though sometimes until I finally left the country. After I left she quit her job and moved back to her home town in with her parents. Eight months later I returned to that country, but to a different city. A new city. She hadn't left her hometown but I told her I'd come back and where I was. A couple weeks later she called me out of the blue and told me that she'd just spent 16 hours on the train (standing) and was there to see me. She wanted me to come to the station to pick her up. I did, then took her back to my place to spend the night. She had a girlfriend from college who had an apartment in that city, so after the first night I made her go stay with her. A week later I moved to a different city on the other side of the country. I told her to go find somebody else.