Anyone get turned off from over-obsession?

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title. idk the past 2 relationships have ended in a week due to me no longer feeling a connection, or getting weirded out by their over obsession. I ghosted the first one, then learnt from my lesson to not be a dick and ended the other on a good note. Is this just me?
 
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i'm the other way around
 
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i'm the other way around
don't you get tired of the lovebombing and wish for like someone you can talk to without them going "im soooo boorreeddd" with the fuckin letter spam at the end and "wyddd" like i find it so corny
 
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Yeah it's inauthentic + over dependence is dangerous
 
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don't you get tired of the lovebombing and wish for like someone you can talk to without them going "im soooo boorreeddd" with the fuckin letter spam at the end and "wyddd" like i find it so corny
thats not really being obsessed its js forcing something that doesn't exist, you will no longer will bothered by these type of behavior once you find the real woman you love, but i doubt the woman youll love act like this anyways
 
truely hate the whole corny adding extra letters bs. also hate it when girls are overly loving (to a point) what I really want is a real companion
don't you get tired of the lovebombing and wish for like someone you can talk to without them going "im soooo boorreeddd" with the fuckin letter spam at the end and "wyddd" like i find it so corny
 
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truely hate the whole corny adding extra letters bs. also hate it when girls are overly loving (to a point) what I really want is a real companion
ong like I js find it weird, im looking for someone i can genuinely speak to. if my ig dms load ill show ss examples
 
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thats not really being obsessed its js forcing something that doesn't exist, you will no longer will bothered by these type of behavior once you find the real woman you love, but i doubt the woman youll love act like this anyways
nah but like mtb and she genuinely likes me for who I am but the constant "you're perfectttt"'s are such turn offs, like i like her otherwise but the personality is not there
 
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don't you get tired of the lovebombing and wish for like someone you can talk to without them going "im soooo boorreeddd" with the fuckin letter spam at the end and "wyddd" like i find it so corny
the letter spam is very corny. we basically never texted so i avoided that. we spent like 12h a day on average every day that we were both off (we were both unemployed)
 
the letter spam is very corny. we basically never texted so i avoided that. we spent like 12h a day on average every day that we were both off (we were both unemployed)
as someone with a social battery though I genuinely couldn't continue with the constant messages like if it werent for school i'd have to constantly reply back
 
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yeah i just want a mature girl without daddy issues
 
as someone with a social battery though I genuinely couldn't continue with the constant messages like if it werent for school i'd have to constantly reply back
did the calls/hanging out bother you? the texting really wasn't an issue for me even if i had to endure it
 
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did the calls/hanging out bother you? the texting really wasn't an issue for me even if i had to endure it
Occasionally she'd ask to ft which would be pretty awkward because she'd just be doing hw or some shi and id just be staring at her ceiling and itd be so dry. These fuckass ig dms are not loading but our only real convos were just basically "youre perfect" "no you are"
 
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Occasionally she'd ask to ft which would be pretty awkward because she'd just be doing hw or some shi and id just be staring at her ceiling and itd be so dry. These fuckass ig dms are not loading but our only real convos were just basically "youre perfect" "no you are"
idk, our calls were the opposite & we entertained each other for the entire time. dry chats obviously but that's only cause we only ever chatted when i was in class & waiting to get home
 
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idk, our calls were the opposite & we entertained each other for the entire time. dry chats obviously but that's only cause we only ever chatted when i was in class & waiting to get home
Must've been nice being able to genuinely connect with someone:feelswhy:
 

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I think it’s hot

especially when she spams my dms
 
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I think it’s hot

especially when she spams my dms
Can I ask if youre going for short or long term relationships? In essence are you tryna fuck or marry?
 
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Can I ask if youre going for short or long term relationships? In essence are you tryna fuck or marry?

short

if I really like a girl she can be fwb
 
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