anyones parents ever say they want other kids to beat them up? (abused-dogs-cels gtfih)

[ForSKJ]

growing up my mom would always compare me to my friends and say things like it would be good if all your friends gathered and beat you up to teach you a lesson or she would say things like i'm gonna take a picture of your dirty room and send it to you friends so they can see how you live. deadass this might be a curry thing idk. but it made me not want to have friends but thats cuz i still live with my parents. when i move out in the future im gonna make a bunch of friends and not tell my parents about them. like im deadass gonna get a gf and commit zina and still not tell my parents

 

[ForSKJ]

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[ForSKJ]

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[CD34]

I think every mother made threats like that to her children without taking herself too seriously, you were too sensitive

 

[ForSKJ]

I think every mother made threats like that to her children without taking herself too seriously, you were too sensitive

yea maybe its because of my low self esteem but i've always been thin skinned and emotional. is that genetically predisposed or can i change that?

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

yea maybe its because of my low self esteem but i've always been thin skinned and emotional. is that genetically predisposed or can i change that?

It also depends on life experiences

 

[rick grimes]

No but my mom tells me to go to hell

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

yea maybe its because of my low self esteem but i've always been thin skinned and emotional. is that genetically predisposed or can i change that?

If you dont go through anything ofc you're gonna be thin skinned and emotional

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

No but my mom tells me to go to hell

Ahh a classic right there

 

[Dorsal_]

growing up my mom would always compare me to my friends and say things like it would be good if all your friends gathered and beat you up to teach you a lesson or she would say things like i'm gonna take a picture of your dirty room and send it to you friends so they can see how you live. deadass this might be a curry thing idk. but it made me not want to have friends but thats cuz i still live with my parents. when i move out in the future im gonna make a bunch of friends and not tell my parents about them. like im deadass gonna get a gf and commit zina and still not tell my parents

Jesus bro this might just be a curry thing lmao I thought my stepdad beating me down the stairs was bad

 

[ForSKJ]

If you dont go through anything ofc you're gonna be thin skinned and emotional

wdym

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

wdym

Any negative experiences

 

[ForSKJ]

Any negative experiences

in life? yea pretty much the regular stuff getting bullied at school for being fat and my parents fighting a lot in my childhood.

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

in life? yea pretty much the regular stuff getting bullied at school for being fat and my parents fighting a lot in my childhood.

Did you get beat up etc

 

[GhostBoySwag]

growing up my mom would always compare me to my friends and say things like it would be good if all your friends gathered and beat you up to teach you a lesson or she would say things like i'm gonna take a picture of your dirty room and send it to you friends so they can see how you live. deadass this might be a curry thing idk. but it made me not want to have friends but thats cuz i still live with my parents. when i move out in the future im gonna make a bunch of friends and not tell my parents about them. like im deadass gonna get a gf and commit zina and still not tell my parents

dont coomit zina first of all
and what a horrible parent

hope she is just kidding with you
no child should live like that growing up

remember to akhi
dunya is temporary
afterlife is permament

 

[GhostBoySwag]

Jesus bro this might just be a curry thing lmao I thought my stepdad beating me down the stairs was bad

??? i think that is still bad

 

[superpsycho]

my parents did not do this

 

[ForSKJ]

dont coomit zina first of all
and what a horrible parent

hope she is just kidding with you
no child should live like that growing up

remember to akhi
dunya is temporary
afterlife is permament

nigga chill im still muslim . im not leaving my religion for a little bit of child abuse. im probably gonna marry the girl i commit zina with and then divorce her after 15 years when our relationship eventually fizzles out and becomes bitter like most muslim couples in the west.

 

[ForSKJ]

Did you get beat up etc

not much. when i got older but when i was 4-12 i did get hit maybe once a month for misbehaving

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

not much. when i got older but when i was 4-12 i did get hit maybe once a month for misbehaving

Bro thats like what most parents do

 

[ForSKJ]

Bro thats like what most parents do

maybe im just bitchmade pretentious and uptight

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

maybe im just bitchmade pretentious and uptight

I mean drug abuse makes you less emotional and lots of trauma

 

[ForSKJ]

I mean drug abuse makes you less emotional and lots of trauma

i never abused drugs but i smoke carts for 2 months every year and thats it. honestly the weed helped me understand my emotions more and grow up a little bit. i think i need to move out of my hometown and live alone for a couple years tbh. also i was uber autistic when i was younger i would always hide behind my parents when meeting people and i never grew out of it as an adult. i think i need meds

 

[alriodai]

ethnic parents either first gen immigrants or in homecounty immigrants
yes op everything u mentionned happen to me
my parents raped my self esteem and childhood young asf
they started chilling till i was 17 but the damage done was too much and late

 

[alriodai]

yea maybe its because of my low self esteem but i've always been thin skinned and emotional. is that genetically predisposed or can i change that?

dont listen to that fag lol
our parents emotionally abused us and they're one of the main reasons we ended up on this website
ik what u kinda been thru cus most ethnic parents are a monolith that care more about how others percieve them than their child wellbeing

 

[ForSKJ]

ethnic parents either first gen immigrants or in homecounty immigrants
yes op everything u mentionned happen to me
my parents raped my self esteem and childhood young asf
they started chilling till i was 17 but the damage done was too much and late

how did you fix it? i am 22 now and i literally sit in my room all day. i only leave for uni and i only talk to people online. i think if i leave my hometown and try to live in a new place with no trauma or bad memories i can re invent myself but i too high inhib to leave or do anything outside my comfort zone.

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

i never abused drugs but i smoke carts for 2 months every year and thats it. honestly the weed helped me understand my emotions more and grow up a little bit. i think i need to move out of my hometown and live alone for a couple years tbh. also i was uber autistic when i was younger i would always hide behind my parents when meeting people and i never grew out of it as an adult. i think i need meds

I mean you can start small by starting to bully and make fun of people while also carrying a knife to feel emboldened to do so

 

[alriodai]

how did you fix it? i am 22 now and i literally sit in my room all day. i only leave for uni and i only talk to people online. i think if i leave my hometown and try to live in a new place with no trauma or bad memories i can re invent myself but i too high inhib to leave or do anything outside my comfort zone.

i am 20 right now and this is exactly 100% similar to how i'm feeling like and what i thought
i was 19 a few months ago and i was like bro let me go immigrate to canada reinvent myself
but would mean i would have to wageslave like a fag and all that stuff

like you said, the only way is to reinvent yourself thru a whole new city new hometown new stuff
if u have the money to do that, and u can build a future, do that bro

 

[alriodai]

I mean you can start small by starting to bully and make fun of people while also carrying a knife to feel emboldened to do so

op is an emotional empath person, he needs to make connections by people trusting him and understanding him and loving him for who he is, even if he gets big and tuff and carry a knife and bully others it will never fit the hole it made in his childhood due to parental negligence, the people who were meant to love him and protect him since a baby/child abused of him emotionally

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

op is an emotional empath person, he needs to make connections by people trusting him and understanding him and loving him for who he is, even if he gets big and tuff and carry a knife and bully others it will never fit the hole it made in his childhood due to parental negligence, the people who were meant to love him and protect him since a baby/child abused of him emotionally

Yea but you gotta stop trying to sugarcoat because life isnt gonna go how you want it to you gotta be more aggressive and disrespectful

 

[alriodai]

Yea but you gotta stop trying to sugarcoat because life isnt gonna go how you want it to you gotta be more aggressive and disrespectful

u havent went thru what we went u can't get it bro + different brain chemistry
emotional abuse is worse than parents hitting u btw (even study confirmed)

 

[ForSKJ]

Yea but you gotta stop trying to sugarcoat because life isnt gonna go how you want it to you gotta be more aggressive and disrespectful

being aggressive and disrespectful unwarranted is a low iq trait.

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

u havent went thru what we went u can't get it bro + different brain chemistry
emotional abuse is worse than parents hitting u btw (even study confirmed)

Bro thinks i havent went through emotional abuse by my parents

 

[o9AL3x3rZ9qX7]

growing up my mom would always compare me to my friends and say things like it would be good if all your friends gathered and beat you up to teach you a lesson or she would say things like i'm gonna take a picture of your dirty room and send it to you friends so they can see how you live. deadass this might be a curry thing idk. but it made me not want to have friends but thats cuz i still live with my parents. when i move out in the future im gonna make a bunch of friends and not tell my parents about them. like im deadass gonna get a gf and commit zina and still not tell my parents

beat the shit out of your mom, just do it once and she will never pick on you again trust me

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

being aggressive and disrespectful unwarranted is a low iq trait.

I mean chads do what they want without worrying about anyone calling them low iq

 

[alriodai]

being aggressive and disrespectful unwarranted is a low iq trait.

hes still right tho, as a vulnerable emotional person growing up in a world where most kids and niggas want to be tuff, u need to know how at least defend urself (fight) so pick boxing (i advice) just so u feel more self confident and more outgoing, if possible ofc

 

[alriodai]

I mean chads do what they want without worrying about anyone calling them low iq

We're not chads and we don't try to copy other people just because they don't get called out for it

 

[ForSKJ]

beat the shit out of your mom, just do it once and she will never pick on you again trust me

nigga are you fucking stupid theres better ways at showing her the error in her ways such as becoming a terrible son that strays far from the path she wanted me to be like doing drugs and having children out of wedlock . both of which i plan on doing

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

We're not chads and we don't try to copy other people just because they don't get called out for it

Yeah but you gotta have a chad mindset

 

[o9AL3x3rZ9qX7]

nigga are you fucking stupid theres better ways at showing her the error in her ways such as becoming a terrible son that strays far from the path she wanted me to be like doing drugs and having children out of wedlock . both of which i plan on doing

one time she really did it, and i beat her pretty badly and she became an abused foid and never talks to me so thats ideal tbh

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

We're not chads and we don't try to copy other people just because they don't get called out for it

If you already havent been desensitized to these things and you arent willing to become desensitized then you're fucked

 

[alriodai]

nigga are you fucking stupid theres better ways at showing her the error in her ways such as becoming a terrible son that strays far from the path she wanted me to be like doing drugs and having children out of wedlock . both of which i plan on doing

u need to get detached from her trust me
u need to let it go it's the best thing to do
forget about her, build a new life, ur still giving her ur attention, bad or good

Yeah but you gotta have a chad mindset

Aka just cope bro
U need to have an actual low iq to be able to think ur a chad (to be having a chad mindset), any person with an avg iq is self aware to know hes not gigachad, msot people u notice irl act their looks
Unless u want OP to abuse drugs to become low inhib, which just destroys him

 

[mirinturbolowinhib]

u need to get detached from her trust me
u need to let it go it's the best thing to do
forget about her, build a new life, ur still giving her ur attention, bad or good

Aka just cope bro
U need to have an actual low iq to be able to think ur a chad (to be having a chad mindset), any person with an avg iq is self aware to know hes not gigachad, msot people u notice irl act their looks
Unless u want OP to abuse drugs to become low inhib, which just destroys him

Sorry man chill not everyone is a lltn truecel rotter like you and no i dont want him to abuse drugs