Anyway to stop obsessing over my looks?

[Quik]

thread title. I feel like I have been lurking forums like this too much and it's changed me...not really in a good way. I nit-pick my flaws and I don't think it's all that great for my mental health. Any tips on stopping this? thanks

 

[SeiGun]

accept that you have flaw and fix the one you can

 

[RedPilledStemcel]

it will lead to greater results in the future, instead of being depressed about being an incel by mid 20s you may ascend.

 

[Final82]

thread title. I feel like I have been lurking forums like this too much and it's changed me...not really in a good way. I nit-pick my flaws and I don't think it's all that great for my mental health. Any tips on stopping this? thanks

It’s a black pill phase of pain and mental crash . You are lucky to have this knowledge at a younger age. It sure sucks but it will give you real perspective on society in general ( not just dating )- you will be miserable now but once you accept it and start the process of fixing your flaws - you will feel detached and anxiety will go away . I wish I knew this at age 15 rather than at 35. Welcome to the club bro .

 

[SeiGun]

It’s a black pill phase of pain and mental crash . You are lucky to have this knowledge at a younger age. It sure sucks but it will give you real perspective on society in general ( not just dating )- you will be miserable now but once you accept it and start the process of fixing your flaws - you will feel detached and anxiety will go away . I wish I knew this at age 15 rather than at 35. Welcome to the club bro .

im super agree that having blackpilled knowledge at young age is lucky af

 

[Coping]

it will lead to greater results in the future, instead of being depressed about being an incel by mid 20s you may ascend.

 

[RichardSpencel]

It’s a black pill phase of pain and mental crash . You are lucky to have this knowledge at a younger age. It sure sucks but it will give you real perspective on society in general ( not just dating )- you will be miserable now but once you accept it and start the process of fixing your flaws - you will feel detached and anxiety will go away . I wish I knew this at age 15 rather than at 35. Welcome to the club bro .

If most of the incels knew about looksmaxxing we wouldn't be incels.

When I was 15 I thought like most faggots that "cool clothes" etc was how to become gl.

 

[chadisnow]

Only thing you can do is bust your ass to improve. Save up if need surgery, clothes, etc. Its hard we know, but just don't be like people virgin messiah or other guys who literally do nothing but complain without working towards something tangible.

 

[Coping]

If most of the incels knew about looksmaxxing we wouldn't be incels.

When I was 15 I thought like most faggots that "cool clothes" etc was how to become gl.

At 14 first year of hs I don’t even remember looking at myself in the mirror I prob didn’t know looks existed lmao

 

[CupOfCoffee]

If most of the incels knew about looksmaxxing we wouldn't be incels.

When I was 15 I thought like most faggots that "cool clothes" etc was how to become gl.

Dude first month of college was me spending over $1000 on expensive clothes cuz I thought I'd get girls' attention that way

 

[SeiGun]

Dude first month of college was me spending over $1000 on expensive clothes cuz I thought I'd get girls' attention that way

same, not $1000 dou, thats too much for a poorfag like me

 

[CupOfCoffee]

same, not $1000 dou, thats too much for a poorfag like me

Literally $300 on one jacket which I grew out of and sold for $50 on eBay.

 

[SeiGun]

Literally $300 on one jacket which I grew out of and sold for $50 on eBay.

$300 jacket

 

[chadisnow]

Dude first month of college was me spending over $1000 on expensive clothes cuz I thought I'd get girls' attention that way

Damn you could've gotten a procedure done or roids if you're into that.

 

[CupOfCoffee]

$300 jacket

"Maybe if I buy this I'll look rich and desirable" Nope, just wasted money and ends up getting mogged by chads wearing hoodies and Walmart shorts.

Damn you could've gotten a procedure done or roids if you're into that.

I fucken hate that gullible 18 year old.

 

[Quik]

im super agree that having blackpilled knowledge at young age is lucky af

Since a kid I always noticed black-pilled ideologies in life and I can say learning about looks has helped me understand the world better. My main problem is that I think I may be developing BDD :/

 

[Final82]

im super agree that having blackpilled knowledge at young age is lucky af

Yessir . It helps in understanding society as a whole . Looks are so important - dating and sex is just one aspect . Looks play key role in career , social acceptance , self esteem and overall happiness - getting jobs / cracking interviews / promotions etc etc . Also most good looking people by default have a large friend and social circle and a very active / fulfilling social life. As an ugly man , it’s an uphill battle to even make social networks . Ngl .

 

[Wincel]

"Any way to stop obsessing over my looks?"

No sorry thst is a genetticallypre detirmine d trait

 

[Coping]

The only real way to not obsess about your looks after becoming fully blackpilled is to ascend or atleast become good looking enough, there is no other solution, everything you do and the reactions you get will just remind you of your looks and make you angry/sad. Make it or die trying tbh that’s my mentality I will not live my whole life being a cuck

 

[SeiGun]

Since a kid I always noticed black-pilled ideologies in life and I can say learning about looks has helped me understand the world better. My main problem is that I think I may be developing BDD :/

Yessir . It helps in understanding society as a whole . Looks are so important - dating and sex is just one aspect . Looks play key role in career , social acceptance , self esteem and overall happiness - getting jobs / cracking interviews / promotions etc etc . Also most good looking people by default have a large friend and social circle and a very active / fulfilling social life. As an ugly man , it’s an uphill battle to even make social networks . Ngl .

i noticed the blackpilled shit at young but im not taking it seriously, in my high school when friends cant get the girl he want, i would joke around say its Face Problem
now blackpilled af, looksmaxing is a must

 

[Final82]

i noticed the blackpilled shit at young but im not taking it seriously, in my high school when friends cant get the girl he want, i would joke around say its Face Problem
now blackpilled af, looksmaxing is a must

It’s almost always about the looks when a woman rejects you .

 

[Phad]

Just be

 

[justanothergymcell]

Only browse this forum and others like it once a week or so. Or just forget it all.

 

[Autist]

Leave

 

[Insomniac]

Everyone here is in the same boat man. We’re all obsessed with looks because looks mean everything to a lot of people. Your life is impacted by how you look.

That’s what fucked me up the most about the blackpill tbh.

 

[sorrowfulsad]

"Maybe if I buy this I'll look rich and desirable" Nope, just wasted money and ends up getting mogged by chads wearing hoodies and Walmart shorts.

I fucken hate that gullible 18 year old.

Wasting most of my money on clothes or other shit instead of surgeries was the stupiest thing Ive probably done by now. I couldve gotten a chin implant already, fuck my life

 

[fobos]

There ain't no going back kiddo

 

[Ritalincel]

try cilatopram

 

[RationalBrody]

You can't. Once the BlackPill has you, you're sucked into it.
The last few months since becoming redpilled about lookism have been the darkest of my life. It destroyed me. Used to go out to the clubs, go on dates and do daygame before. Now I just pretty much stay in my room.

If I hadn't found out about Lookism, I would probably slept with 1-2 girls in these few months.

I knew about Game, RedPill before, but coming to the realization that looks are everything was the harshest to swallow.

 

[Final82]

You can't. Once the BlackPill has you, you're sucked into it.
The last few months since becoming redpilled about lookism have been the darkest of my life. It destroyed me. Used to go out to the clubs, go on dates and do daygame before. Now I just pretty much stay in my room.

If I hadn't found out about Lookism, I would probably slept with 1-2 girls in these few months.

I knew about Game, RedPill before, but coming to the realization that looks are everything was the harshest to swallow.

That sucks bro . But blackpill Is the ultimate truth in modern society

 

[GenericChad1444]

That sucks bro . But blackpill Is the ultimate truth in modern society

Exactly. It is brutal, life changing almost, but necessary.

 

[Final82]

Exactly. It is brutal, life changing almost, but necessary.

It will literally change the way you look at world and make life choices here on ( not just dating and sex but overall - career, friends , societal BS). You will see through and through the blue pilled facade and mirage and that’s what hurts the most .

 

[chadisnow]

You can't. Once the BlackPill has you, you're sucked into it.
The last few months since becoming redpilled about lookism have been the darkest of my life. It destroyed me. Used to go out to the clubs, go on dates and do daygame before. Now I just pretty much stay in my room.

If I hadn't found out about Lookism, I would probably slept with 1-2 girls in these few months.

I knew about Game, RedPill before, but coming to the realization that looks are everything was the harshest to swallow.

Did PUA actually work for you or are you coping? 1-2 girls in a few months sure but think of how much more you can get if you looksmax with less effort. One step back and two steps forward.

 

[VST]

No.

 

[Ritalincel]

No.

 

[androidcel]

Become GL enough.

 

[Coping]

Become GL enough.

 

[HighIQcel]

Dude first month of college was me spending over $1000 on expensive clothes cuz I thought I'd get girls' attention that way

How old were you back then?

 

[Deleted member 616]

This forum just solidified my conviction: be chad or death

 

[CupOfCoffee]

How old were you back then?

18

 

[HighIQcel]

18

Same. I used to buy fake edgy clothes such as suprem, trasher, anti social club etc for 1000 also...but hryvnas which is around 42 dollars jfl and hang out with my posse drinking booze. Can you imagine that degree of subhumanity?
I remember puking into the toilet while wearing trasher. I was so low IQ at 18, even lower than before. I thought I need to have fun as much as I can because I didn't do funny shit before 18 and just waste my youth JFL! The tiny piece of blackpill that I knew back then is that girls dig bad guys, but I didn't take into consideration that I'm fucken scrawny sub5 and that rule doesn't apply to me.

Tho I managed to make out with some foids and even a few were approaching me, idk how maybe it's my 187cm of personality.