Appearing indecisive is probably the worst personality trait

[New Poster]

Indecisive, hesitant people open themselves up to so much judgment and criticism. You can get away with so much more if you do it right away. The second you give people a second to take the initiative away from you, it opens you up to so much shit. You can act like such a dick if you just do it without hesitation, but slight pauses make you have to walk on eggshells. Just another way high inhib aspie lose, I guess.

 

[Ken]

How do you cure this?

 

[Napoleon1800]

Indecisive, hesitant people open themselves up to so much judgment and criticism. You can get away with so much more if you do it right away. The second you give people a second to take the initiative away from you, it opens you up to so much shit. You can act like such a dick if you just do it without hesitation, but slight pauses make you have to walk on eggshells. Just another way high inhib aspie lose, I guess.

Fuck. Unfortunately relate a lot.

 

[New Poster]

How do you cure this?

Neurochemistry or confidence, unironically

 

[Clark69]

yes. if your superiors and co-workers see this in you, congrats, you're now an unreliable fucking sped in their eyes. brutal

 

[New Poster]

yes. if your superiors and co-workers see this in you, congrats, you're now an unreliable fucking sped in their eyes. brutal

What’s brutal is that it happens in a second. On the subconscious level, I immediately see someone as a target if there are even slight delays in their behavior.

 

[Meteor21]

Idk why but seeing it in real time makes me super angry

 

[Monarchy]

Indecisive, hesitant people open themselves up to so much judgment and criticism. You can get away with so much more if you do it right away. The second you give people a second to take the initiative away from you, it opens you up to so much shit. You can act like such a dick if you just do it without hesitation, but slight pauses make you have to walk on eggshells. Just another way high inhib aspie lose, I guess.

Good that I act first then think later tbh

 

[New Poster]

Idk why but seeing it in real time makes me super angry

On a subconscious level, we think the person is being deceptive/manipulative by trying to pause and strategize. We naturally want to be mean to them to show them it’s not working.