are bars and clubs worth it? Have you tried going? Does it lead to anything

[nobodyspecial369]

i had a question just wanted to confirm something- are bars and clubs a waste of time in your experience

like does it ever lead to anything like kissing or hooking up? I was thinking about going to try it out but it just seems like a waste of time. i went to a club/bar one time and most girl was so hostile and unfriendly or didn’t wanna be approached. my experience that one time was like lord_khadgar05 @iownvetements @Deusmaximus

 

[Whatsamaxilla__]

i had a question just wanted to confirm something- are bars and clubs a waste of time in your experience

like does it ever lead to anything like kissing or hooking up? I was thinking about going to try it out but it just seems like a waste of time. i went to a club/bar one time and most girl was so hostile and unfriendly or didn’t wanna be approached. my experience that one time was like lord_khadgar05 @iownvetements @Deusmaximus

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[Ch1gga]

i had a question just wanted to confirm something- are bars and clubs a waste of time in your experience

like does it ever lead to anything like kissing or hooking up? I was thinking about going to try it out but it just seems like a waste of time. i went to a club/bar one time and most girl was so hostile and unfriendly or didn’t wanna be approached. my experience that one time was like lord_khadgar05 @iownvetements @Deusmaximus

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If you're HTN & above.

 

[sebalur]

You just have to be hmtn to get approached. Otherwise it isnt worth it

 

[Ch1gga]

i had a question just wanted to confirm something- are bars and clubs a waste of time in your experience

like does it ever lead to anything like kissing or hooking up? I was thinking about going to try it out but it just seems like a waste of time. i went to a club/bar one time and most girl was so hostile and unfriendly or didn’t wanna be approached. my experience that one time was like lord_khadgar05 @iownvetements @Deusmaximus

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How autistic do you have to be to ask this.

 

[Striated]

Obviously it differs person to person, you fucking moron.

Some enjoy it, some don't. Find out for yourself and what you enjoy.

What makes you think you have to be babied about your own life decisions.

 

[nobodyspecial369]

If you're HTN & above.

i am and so are my friends that went- but we all had crap experiences, here’s one of my HTN/chadlite friends 6 ft tall experience

 

[Ch1gga]

i am and so are my friends that went- but we all had crap experiences, here’s one of my HTN/chadlite friends 6 ft tall experience

It obviously depends on the location & who is present.

 

[nobodyspecial369]

w

How autistic do you have to be to ask this.

wdym? i’m just wondering what other people’s experiences are so i don’t waste time trying to do something that won’t lead to anything

 

[nobodyspecial369]

Obviously it differs person to person, you fucking moron.

yea that’s why i’m asking for other people’s experiences brodie

 

[primalmaxer]

i am and so are my friends that went- but we all had crap experiences, here’s one of my HTN/chadlite friends 6 ft tall experience

that winky face was the most unnescessary shit ive ever seen, gay ass niggha

 

[iownvetements]

in my opinion, bars/clubs can definitely be worth it.

if you're MTN or below obviously you're going to find difficulty with women, however one tip I can give you is going with a friend or two, because it'll increase your confidence and may actually lead to you getting laid or getting a phone number

additionally, since women often do enter clubs in groups, just wait for one of them to be alone, then try to converse

don't be a fucking creep about it though -- since the stigma of serial killers who prey within bars is still prominent within our society

wear something decent, and if you get rejected just be cool about it, practice makes perfect

- sincerely vetements

 

[Striated]

yea that’s why i’m asking for other people’s experiences brodie

did you ask your mother what it was like to put panties on for the first time before you started wearing them yourself

 

[stancecamilo]

i had a question just wanted to confirm something- are bars and clubs a waste of time in your experience

like does it ever lead to anything like kissing or hooking up? I was thinking about going to try it out but it just seems like a waste of time. i went to a club/bar one time and most girl was so hostile and unfriendly or didn’t wanna be approached. my experience that one time was like lord_khadgar05 @iownvetements @Deusmaximus

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nothing will happen if you don't try, the best thing you could do is go with NT friends and have them help you be with a girl, or join a group that has girls and try something with them

 

[nobodyspecial369]

found some good responses here