Are fetishes inherent or developed?

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Does anyone think weird ass fetishes are natural and just that’s the way they think or do they have to be developed by outside influences
 
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both, just depends on the scenario

some people are born with a more natural draw towards certain things. but porn at a young age, changes the brains neural wiring and plasticity and creates the seeking of novelty which leads people down into some freaky shit
 
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developed.
There are no fetishes in nature.
 
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It's both in a sense. Perverted people are born the way they are, not made. There can be a childhood scenario though that tweaks their brain and makes them develop a niche kink.
 
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both, just depends on the scenario

some people are born with a more natural draw towards certain things. but porn at a young age, changes the brains neural wiring and plasticity and creates the seeking of novelty which leads people down into some freaky shit
I was introduced to porn by my friends when I was about 9 that explains a lot
 
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I was introduced to porn by my friends when I was about 9 that explains a lot
yeah porn is one of the worst things for a developing brain especially at 9 years old, that sucks man i’m sorry about that.

you can only move forward and try and reverse the damage that was caused
 
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You don’t get born with a fetish
 
developed.
There are no fetishes in nature.
There's no way for us to know

I mean there are gay lions so there might be kinky lions aswell
 
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Bro some people put socks to their throats, its wild😓
 
Your mental genetics determine how strong of fetishes you can find attractive (example: the average person doesn't find being choked attractive, but then some do), and your experiences in life determine which specific ones. My theory at least
 
Mental illness.
 
yeah porn is one of the worst things for a developing brain especially at 9 years old, that sucks man i’m sorry about that.

you can only move forward and try and reverse the damage that was caused
Thanks man trying to get rid of the urges and fix my fucked up attention span from TikTok and insta
 
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Your mental genetics determine how strong of fetishes you can find attractive (example: the average person doesn't find being choked attractive, but then some do), and your experiences in life determine which specific ones. My theory at least
Sounds reasonable tbh
 

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