Are surgeries even worth it

[Chudda07]

The only time where you can get them is at 18+ depending on the price and amount even higher but atp your life is already mostly over imo and if you never had good experiences as a sub18 surgery wont rlly fix ur mental state

 

[iblamegeneticrecomb]

The only time where you can get them is at 18+ depending on the price and amount even higher but atp your life is already mostly over imo and if you never had good experiences as a sub18 surgery wont rlly fix ur mental state

Bro please just shut the fuck up why don’t you just kill yourself if life is over after 18+ ? And it depends on the surgery lmao you can also just do fucking fillers to get from mtn to htn +

 

[billy17]

The only time where you can get them is at 18+ depending on the price and amount even higher but atp your life is already mostly over imo and if you never had good experiences as a sub18 surgery wont rlly fix ur mental state

Iqlet

 

[Assymetry]

The two replies are retarted, you definitely have a point, not having the looks in your development will have an effect on you. Having that positive reinforcement during puberty is very important, getting to that looks level later through surgery isnt the same at all.

 

[kokoroo]

, getting to that looks level later through surgery isnt the same at all.

it’s not the same but it’s not “mostly over” too lol

 

[t0urist]

Yeah for obvious falios.

 

[midfacedeficient]

isnt the same at all.

and therefore its absolutely worthless?

 

[narceye]

No. Your life isn't mostly over after 18. Plenty of time to have experience stuff and most importantly start a family. I do get what you mean with the mental side of things, but as long as you aren't truly beyond saving mentally (some people in here definitely are), I believe it isn't over. I personally didn't ever recieve alot of positive reinforcement, but I also didn't negative reinforcement either, so I think my chances of adapting mentally are good. I also learned to accept the fact that I was unfortunate looking pretty fast, so I never really sperged out about "ooh the whole world hates me" or shit like that.

Personally I struggle with the fact that Im looking at spending around 25k on a surgery (most of my savings) just because I was born a certain way / didn't have proper development. This is an insane amount of money to spend and it only truly hit me after my first few consultations. I could've invested all this money and set myself up for a pretty good start for the future, but oh well.

Im also not low inhib enough to talk about this to almost anybody IRL. Only my parents and a close friend of mine know about my struggles to some extent. Most likely I will never be brave enough to tell anybody that I spent 25k on surgeries to look better. I will probably larp that I had major functional issues and I opted to fix them with surgery.

But to answer you question after the personal vent: I don't think you will ever forget your struggles and insecurities in the past even if you ascend and your life gets significantly better. They are a part of you. If the surgeries don't work out or you can't find good copes in life, you can still rope as an oldcel afterwards (wouldn't recommend it). Atleast you tried.

 

[kokoroo]

No. Your life isn't mostly over after 18. Plenty of time to have experience stuff and most importantly start a family. I do get what you mean with the mental side of things, but as long as you aren't truly beyond saving mentally (some people in here definitely are), I believe it isn't over. I personally didn't ever recieve alot of positive reinforcement, but I also didn't negative reinforcement either, so I think my chances of adapting mentally are good. I also learned to accept the fact that I was unfortunate looking pretty fast, so I never really sperged out about "ooh the whole world hates me" or shit like that.

Personally I struggle with the fact that Im looking at spending around 25k on a surgery (most of my savings) just because I was born a certain way / didn't have proper development. This is an insane amount of money to spend and it only truly hit me after my first few consultations. I could've invested all this money and set myself up for a pretty good start for the future, but oh well.

Im also not low inhib enough to talk about this to almost anybody IRL. Only my parents and a close friend of mine know about my struggles to some extent. Most likely I will never be brave enough to tell anybody that I spent 25k on surgeries to look better. I will probably larp that I had major functional issues and I opted to fix them with surgery.

But to answer you question after the personal vent: I don't think you will ever forget your struggles and insecurities in the past even if you ascend and your life gets significantly better. They are a part of you. If the surgeries don't work out or you can't find good copes in life, you can still rope as an oldcel afterwards (wouldn't recommend it). Atleast you tried.

there’s no need to be brave lol, no one needs to know the truth. as long as u feel good nothing really matters

 

[Assymetry]

and therefore its absolutely worthless?

No not worthless, ofc surgeries will improve your face and result in improved treatment, but having had that negative reinforcement during puberty is an issue. At least try to make the best of your situation ofc.