Are there actually good YouTube channels or articles on how to cold approach women that isnt PUA cringe?

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Idek how id start talking to a girl, unless ofc shes wearing something or has a tatto of a common interest. Even then im too pussy to do it, even drunk. If i took xans i probably couod tho
 
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Austen Summers is good, but when I tried it I got rejected and laughed at.
 
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Miamithekid, Dukedennis, Tykwondoe
 
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James tusk
 
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If you are low-inhib like me, check out Juan's channel:
youtube.com @ThatWasEpic

Again only for low-inhib folks as his approach is not really 'follow these steps' kind which may be more beneficial for you in the beginning.
 
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cold. approach. does. not. work.

the moment you do it you will creep out every single woman and any chances you might've had with her are completely blown. do _literally anything else_
 
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Use instagram wtf
 
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cold. approach. does. not. work.

the moment you do it you will creep out every single woman and any chances you might've had with her are completely blown. do _literally anything else_
Even if they are goth or emo or daddy issues my type? And im drippin?
 
Jfl, he is a chad he can say anything.
true but he is quite smooth. least autistic guy ive seen do it. he keeps it simple, engaging and doesnt say anything weird
 
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When you are attractive and NT enough, you will never need to approach a women cold.
 
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Even if they are goth or emo or daddy issues my type? And im drippin?
it only works on sluts IF you mog them and can larp FULL confidence. otherwise you're trolling yourself doing this shit
 
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Cold approach can literally can get you behind the bars in 2022 no joke

Not worth it imo
 
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xbwavy he got the best game on youtube
 
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Cold approaching is stupid. Don't go bother women in the street. Instead, this is what you must do:

1 - Looksmax to the best of your ability

2 - Go out to bars and clubs and use dating apps to meet women
 
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Cold approaching is stupid. Don't go bother women in the street. Instead, this is what you must do:

1 - Looksmax to the best of your ability

2 - Go out to bars and clubs and use dating apps to meet women
Bars count as cold approach no?
 
true but he is quite smooth. least autistic guy ive seen do it. he keeps it simple, engaging and doesnt say anything weird
He is smooth because the girls are receptive because of his looks. This is the same reason why I don’t take dating advice from good looking people, of course the bitch is gonna be into it. Show me a sub5 picking someone up.
 
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Bars count as cold approach no?
No, because if you're good looking, women will approach you in bars or at least signal you to approach them.

But if you're ugly or just average and you start cold approaching women, they will notice what you are doing and they will reject you every single time because it shows that you are desperate and that you are getting rejected a lot because nobody wants you.

Incels think they are entitled to sex.

Looksmaxxers realize that they must improve their looks to get sex.

That is the difference. What are you? A looksmaxxer or an incel? That is the real question you must ask yourself.
And what are you willing to do to improve your looks? Because that is the main point of this website.
 
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No, because if you're good looking, women will approach you in bars or at least signal you to approach them.

But if you're ugly or just average and you start cold approaching women, they will notice what you are doing and they will reject you every single time because it shows that you are desperate and that you are getting rejected a lot because nobody wants you.

Incels think they are entitled to sex.

Looksmaxxers realize that they must improve their looks to get sex.

That is the difference. What are you? A looksmaxxer or an incel? That is the real question you must ask yourself.
And what are you willing to do to improve your looks? Because that is the main point of this website.
How do i know if i get invintation or ioi?
 
How do i know if i get invintation or ioi?
It's usually pretty obvious, they make prolonged eye contact (looking into your eyes constantly) and do things to try to make you notice them.

If it has never happened to you, then you have some work to do.

Most normies will benefit greatly from leanmaxxing and gymmaxxing.
 
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It's usually pretty obvious, they make prolonged eye contact (looking into your eyes constantly) and do things to try to make you notice them.

If it has never happened to you, then you have some work to do.

Most normies will benefit greatly from leanmaxxing and gymmaxxing.
Sometimes i think they arent checking me out, but friends say they are, but i talk myself out of them
 
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cold. approach. does. not. work.

the moment you do it you will creep out every single woman and any chances you might've had with her are completely blown. do _literally anything else_
THIS!! Because no fucking women would give her number to a stranger!
And when you cold approach, you ARE the Stranger.

you can try it in bar/clubs
or in activities (hobby?)
or at your work
or in a social circle (friends of your friends?)
 
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new poster on youtube

paul janka, was good imo. but chadlite
 
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Sometimes i think they arent checking me out, but friends say they are, but i talk myself out of them

Don't trust your friends as many find it funny seeing you shot down. Just watch some videos on signals the girl is interested in you and you should have a good idea when at the bar etc.
 
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Tbh if you have to approach - it's over :feelswah:
 
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Just approach if you get rejected more then 3 times, then you know it’s over buddy boyo :feelsrope:
 
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cold. approach. does. not. work.

the moment you do it you will creep out every single woman and any chances you might've had with her are completely blown. do _literally anything else_
Elaborate. Cold approach at night works. At day you need an open minded woman.
 
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Honest Signalz on YT has good suggestions on how to improve social skills and flirting in bars and clubs, but ignore the street cold approaching material because it's cringe. He is a balding guy that would be considered subpar by this forum, but he is confident, very social, friendly, and in part style-maxxed and he can make some gl women attracted.

James Tusk doesn't have the same quality of social skills and he seems a bit more plain, but he makes up for it with his looks. Sometimes has interesting material.



Both are viable strategies. Looskmaxxing is another way to improve, but if you lack social skills it's for nothing. There are good looking guys everywhere.

I have a friend that is not very good looking, fat, aquiline nose, balding, average job. For some reason he was rotating good looking girlfriends like crazy. He even got together with my first oneitis. But he is confident, funny and makes people comfortable, maxed out social skills. Please someone explain to me how that is possible if it's not for his personality.
 
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Elaborate. Cold approach at night works. At day you need an open minded woman.
a lot of guys looking for this advice aren't trying to be giga slayers, they are just trying to get started and get a looksmatched gf that isn't deranged. normal w*men aren't interested in getting bothered by randoms when they are busy walking somewhere. especially in 2022 when they have near endless options online. like the average puacel embarassing himself in front of her doesn't give her anything that she doesn't already have x200. at the very least you need some familiarity beforehand. that's why this shit died btw, it was really hard to larp that it worked after around 2015 or so. it's basically nigerian prince spam tier attitude towards dating. just walk up to 100 w*men bro and maybe you find one retard that will get baited by your shit (numbers game) while completely trashing any reputation you might have left :feelskek: this is literally what pua dogs say is normal. it isn't. you want to 1. looksmax 2. find a hole that you like and are compatible with instead of wasting time refining your 'game' :feelskek: redpill is true cancer and I am a true retard for ever having gotten baited by it. the suffering and dogshit efficiency of cold approach compared to behaving like a normal human male around w*men even in a male environment where they come to you because everybody else is a soy cuck is staggering
it only works on sluts IF you mog them and can larp FULL confidence. otherwise you're trolling yourself doing this shit
open minded = old and slutty. and there are much better ways of building attraction even at night if you just want a quick hole than directly walking up to one with no prior contact. it's just an autistic thing to do even if let's say she'd be interested. even a blown out slut will act high and mighty if you cold approach her coz she will think you're serious about settling with her sorry ass 💀 you want to be the one holding the cards
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a lot of guys looking for this advice aren't trying to be giga slayers, they are just trying to get started and get a looksmatched gf that isn't deranged. normal w*men aren't interested in getting bothered by randoms when they are busy walking somewhere. especially in 2022 when they have near endless options online. like the average puacel embarassing himself in front of her doesn't give her anything that she doesn't already have x200. at the very least you need some familiarity beforehand. that's why this shit died btw, it was really hard to larp that it worked after around 2015 or so. it's basically nigerian prince spam tier attitude towards dating. just walk up to 100 w*men bro and maybe you find one retard that will get baited by your shit (numbers game) while completely trashing any reputation you might have left :feelskek: this is literally what pua dogs say is normal. it isn't. you want to 1. looksmax 2. find a hole that you like and are compatible with instead of wasting time refining your 'game' :feelskek: redpill is true cancer and I am a true retard for ever having gotten baited by it. the suffering and dogshit efficiency of cold approach compared to behaving like a normal human male around w*men even in a male environment where they come to you because everybody else is a soy cuck is staggering

open minded = old and slutty. and there are much better ways of building attraction even at night if you just want a quick hole than directly walking up to one with no prior contact. it's just an autistic thing to do even if let's say she'd be interested. even a blown out slut will act high and mighty if you cold approach her coz she will think you're serious about settling with her sorry ass 💀 you want to be the one holding the cards
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Yeah man, we are in 2022 and online dating (instagram too) dominate the dating game, followed by night life. But fucking women in general it's a numbers game, you need to find the ones DTF. And right now the NT ways to do so are: social circles, night life and OLD. Day game feels weird unless you get CLEAR IOI.
 
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if you know you are atleast htn than sure go for cold approach if not than you wait for some choosing signals before you approach.
Keep in mind how is the person you try to approach, is she in a hurry, is she on the phone speaking with someone, does she have a gtfo face all that matters, even if u are a chad in that scenario most of the time u get rejected
 
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if you know you are atleast htn than sure go for cold approach if not than you wait for some choosing signals before you approach.
Keep in mind how is the person you try to approach, is she in a hurry, is she on the phone speaking with someone, does she have a gtfo face all that matters, even if u are a chad in that scenario most of the time u get rejected
Im 6'1 and typically fashionmaxxed (typically skatery/emo style) do you think if i go for girls that look my type/vibe itd be worth it?
 

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Tbh if you have to approach - it's over :feelswah:
i disagree.
becuase most men I know, that when they got with women. They made the first "move". Maybe, or actually often, they got some signs of interest from her, like eye contact or whatever.
 
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Im 6'1 and typically fashionmaxxed (typically skatery/emo style) do you think if i go for girls that look my type/vibe itd be worth it?
yeah you are above average, maybe HTN at peak. in face
 
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i disagree.
becuase most men I know, that when they got with women. They made the first "move". Maybe, or actually often, they got some signs of interest from her, like eye contact or whatever.

Yeah, I know that. And probably my slay count would be higher if I would approach. I just can't get over feeling like a desperate dog begging for crumb of coochie when approaching.
 
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