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I need to come clean I can't hide my autism it's too obvious. But once I tell girls I have autism they will probably bail.
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They all have nt boyfriends and the autist groups are sausage fests, did barely see any girls there and they were all in relationshipsautistic women, very rare.
U need to do non-NT social hobbies/activities and find them there.They all have nt boyfriends and the autist groups are sausage fests, did barely see any girls there and they were all in relationships
But I'm not a nerd bro.. What kinds of activities?U need to do non-NT social hobbies/activities and find them there.
I used to do first-aid volunteerwork at events. There were some autistic girls there.But I'm not a nerd bro.. What kinds of activities?
Doesn't work when they hate you from the get go for you lack of social skills and childish demeanor, it's always the same storyJust don't tell them, or simply say that you are "special"...
High tier normie at best, maybe I can ascend to PSL 6 with enough surgery and then I can get away with itThe better looking you are, the more non-nt you can be. Whats your psl op?
Yeah bro I know. Do you even try anymore? I see so many normies that I mog even in relationships but all it takes is this shitty disorder to decimate our dating lives.No, autists are freaks in women’s eyes. Every time I see women talking about men with autism it’s like they’re talking about him as if he’s some kind of freak. It’s best to just try to not tell them. Hell, even autistic women don’t date autistic men and most autistic men will rarely to never experience dating in their lives.
It really depends. I'm autistic and I have had a small social circle once in my life, and they definitely gave me shit about not making eye contact and other stuff. You just have to try to get used to socializing and being lower Inhib. This was in HS btw, even had multiple girls interested in me then. One thing I work on is work on what you are saying. You can't go on 5 minute monologues about random shit that they don't care about. It's gonna be hard to blend in body language wise, but it is fairly easy to learn how to SAY NT things.Doesn't work when they hate you from the get go for you lack of social skills and childish demeanor, it's always the same story
There is levels to autism, people like Amnesia might just be NT enough or can rely on their looks, but I can't fake convincingly
Not true because the guys who actually get diagnosed with autism tend to be basement dwellers. Literally some 80% of diagnosed autistic men are unemployed. A lot of them are fat. But a guy who is looksmaxxed and tries to blend in probably will blend in, and a lot of the time these guys are undiagnosed. Definitely don't say you have autism I agree. But a 7/10 guy who struggles a bit with eye contact but doesn't say outright creepy or weird things is never going to be seen as a freak.No, autists are freaks in women’s eyes. Every time I see women talking about men with autism it’s like they’re talking about him as if he’s some kind of freak. It’s best to just try to not tell them. Hell, even autistic women don’t date autistic men and most autistic men will rarely to never experience dating in their lives.
I have one IRL friend right now so technically I have a small social circle. But I can't really build on that since all of his other close friends that I knew in highschool I no longer hangout with, we had beef many years ago and they hated me for my autism so I started hating them.It really depends. I'm autistic and I have had a small social circle once in my life, and they definitely gave me shit about not making eye contact and other stuff. You just have to try to get used to socializing and being lower Inhib. This was in HS btw, even had multiple girls interested in me then. One thing I work on is work on what you are saying. You can't go on 5 minute monologues about random shit that they don't care about. It's gonna be hard to blend in body language wise, but it is fairly easy to learn how to SAY NT things.
Not true because the guys who actually get diagnosed with autism tend to be basement dwellers. Literally some 80% of diagnosed autistic men are unemployed. A lot of them are fat. But a guy who is looksmaxxed and tries to blend in probably will blend in, and a lot of the time these guys are undiagnosed. Definitely don't say you have autism I agree. But a 7/10 guy who struggles a bit with eye contact but doesn't say outright creepy or weird things is never going to be seen as a freak.
All of my friends I have had I made at jobs. In HS I have very few friends and all of them were also Aspies. You are in a sense forced to interact with coworkers. Only works if you are somewhat socially aware though. How old are you BTW?I have one IRL friend right now so technically I have a small social circle. But I can't really build on that since all of his other close friends that I knew in highschool I no longer hangout with, we had beef many years ago and they hated me for my autism so I started hating them.
ikr. also none of em has it
Women can have autism but it’s rare that they SUFFER from it, huge difference. The severely autistic women that are unable to defend themselves that get killed do by their parents can suffer for example but most autistic women live on easy mode.ikr. also none of em has it
That went nowhere, they probably classified me as weird or stupid in their head on the first day, and I didn't like that atmosphere so I quit working at these places where you interact. Probably not socially aware enough, I'm 23 soon so time is running out, that's why I'm getting fillers and surgery now in the hopes of ascending to chad and go down as one of the few autistic chads that beat the odds.All of my friends I have had I made at jobs. In HS I have very few friends and all of them were also Aspies. You are in a sense forced to interact with coworkers. Only works if you are somewhat socially aware though. How old are you BTW?
personally, from experience bro anyone i meet are baffled at the fact that i don't have a gf , they also find it bizzare when I ramble abt random shit , and usually say i have bad social cuesI need to come clean I can't hide my autism it's too obvious. But once I tell girls I have autism they will probably bail.
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Raise your status, become popular, get out there on Facebook/Instagram/Youtube/etc. go to TV stations and newspapers to raise awareness about autism and your struggles, film yourself secretly when interacting with people, then post the clips online and show the world how you are treated(this worked for other people who even became famous because of this).Doesn't work when they hate you from the get go for you lack of social skills and childish demeanor, it's always the same story
There is levels to autism, people like Amnesia might just be NT enough or can rely on their looks, but I can't fake convincingly
Man I'm sorry bro, I know I gave you advice earlier on socialmaxxing but if your autism is this bad it might not be possible. I don't want you to end up like me, where I'm 22 and still struggling.personally, from experience bro anyone i meet are baffled at the fact that i don't have a gf , they also find it bizzare when I ramble abt random shit , and usually say i have bad social cues
means that you are very gl manpersonally, from experience bro anyone i meet are baffled at the fact that i don't have a gf
thanks man, I'm currently following your advice I'm exposing myself to more people, i started eating out with my family , we ended up having a great convoMan I'm sorry bro, I know I gave you advice earlier on socialmaxxing but if your autism is this bad it might not be possible. I don't want you to end up like me, where I'm 22 and still struggling.
I was surprised because you look really good and you can pull off that prettyboy aesthetic, and you can try to control some shit, talk less about your interests and listen more, learn small talk skills etc..
You still have the chance to visit university and if you find a small social circle that accepts you, you could mazybe get girls from there, they just need to know you have a friend group and are liked so they are not scared of the autistic vibes
thanks igmeans that you are very gl man
Why are you such bluepilled cucks. It's all about looksNo, autists are freaks in women’s eyes. Every time I see women talking about men with autism it’s like they’re talking about him as if he’s some kind of freak. It’s best to just try to not tell them. Hell, even autistic women don’t date autistic men and most autistic men will rarely to never experience dating in their lives.
you'll be fine, if you meet good bros they can help you get laid, make the girls know that you're part of the social circle and just a normal guythanks man, I'm currently following your advice I'm exposing myself to more people, i started eating out with my family , we ended up having a great convo
Then why are like half the users here autisticWhy are you such bluepilled cucks. It's all about looks
Honestly why not at some point I might say fuck it and just go public with it, it's a problem that's not talked about enoughRaise your status, become popular, get out there on Facebook/Instagram/Youtube/etc. go to TV stations and newspapers to raise awareness about autism and your struggles, film yourself secretly when interacting with people, then post the clips online and show the world how you are treated(this worked for other people who even became famous because of this).
Because why not.Then why are like half the users here autistic
I didn’t say that, fuck off. It can be easier if you have good looks, but autism is such a handicap to basic social skills that NT normies have naturally and makes it much harder. Autism is about your brain functioning not your looksWhy are you such bluepilled cucks. It's all about looks
you morin autistic James 6psl looksWhy are you such bluepilled cucks. It's all about looks
Most people with high functioning one are semi normal to normal people.I didn’t say that, fuck off. It can be easier if you have good looks, but autism is such a handicap to basic social skills and makes it much harder. Autism is about your brain functioning not your looks