Are these realistic standards for my future wife?

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minimum 5'7
earns ~120k+ annually (preferably a software engineer)
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How crazy are these standards?
 
depends on who u re

so yeah its unrealistic asfok
 
Post your pic
Whats your income
height
 
depends on who u re

so yeah its unrealistic asfok
Post your pic
Whats your income
height
I already made a rate me thread, I'm 5'11 and Somali but I'm fat so I can't really see my bones. Studying CS so my income will likely be $200k+ by the time I marry.
I'll make another rate me thread when I'm at a decent weight but currently I can't get bitches lmao, I'm talking about future standards since I'm a decade away from marriage.

 
Since you are not smart enough to recognize that no on can opine on how realistic the expectations are without knowing your particulars, I conclude the expectations are unrealistic.
 
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I already made a rate me thread, I'm 5'11 and Somali but I'm fat so I can't really see my bones. Studying CS so my income will likely be $200k+ by the time I marry.
I'll make another rate me thread when I'm at a decent weight but currently I can't get bitches lmao, I'm talking about future standards since I'm a decade away from marriage.

Not possible. 200k is not the amount of money that can give you status in the west if you make 7 figures then we can talk again for psl 5.
 
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minimum 5'7
earns ~120k+ annually (preferably a software engineer)
intelligent
PSL 6

How crazy are these standards?
You didn't mention her body count
 
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It's unrealistic, especially if you yourself aren't a 7 figure chad
 
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You didn't mention her body count
Yeah IDK how I can cope with marrying a woman with a high body count. I mean, even over 5 bodies makes me uncomfortable...
 
Yeah IDK how I can cope with marrying a woman with a high body count. I mean, even over 5 bodies makes me uncomfortable...
A 6 PSL foid will realistically have 10+
 
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I already made a rate me thread, I'm 5'11 and Somali but I'm fat so I can't really see my bones. Studying CS so my income will likely be $200k+ by the time I marry.
salary doesn't attract women

nowadays more women have university degrees then men, and this means they have just as much access to money as men do

as long as youre making a decent salary (80k+ USD) salary doesn't do much for long term relationships, unless youre super rich. Then you can get married to some gold digger if thats what you want

I suggest you just looksmax and get connections and create a positive image for yourself if you want a decent wife considering you would be average at best facially after softmaxxing (no surgerys or hormones) and you're only 5'11
 
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Yeah IDK how I can cope with marrying a woman with a high body count. I mean, even over 5 bodies makes me uncomfortable...
just go to somalia and bring back an 18 year old bride tbh

body count of zero and since she doesn't know english shes forced to depend on you, if thats what you really want of course.
 
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salary doesn't attract women

nowadays more women have university degrees then men, and this means they have just as much access to money as men do

as long as youre making a decent salary (80k+ USD) salary doesn't do much for long term relationships, unless youre super rich. Then you can get married to some gold digger if thats what you want

I suggest you just looksmax and get connections and create a positive image for yourself if you want a decent wife considering you would be average at best facially after softmaxxing (no surgerys or hormones) and you're only 5'11
Yeah I don't think money actually makes people attractive I realize that's cope and gold diggers will only see you as a resource to be exploited. How do you know I'd be average at best after softmaxxing? I think I look relatively decent for being 60lbs overweight in those pics. I'm probably a HTN once fully maxxed out and gymcelled.

just go to somalia and bring back an 18 year old bride tbh

body count of zero and since she doesn't know english shes forced to depend on you, if thats what you really want of course.
Ehhh I'm not at all interested in this kind of woman, I definitely prefer more independent career women. Going to 3rd world countries to grab a woman to marry is legit as low as it gets, really only truecels should resort to that. I'de rather marry an intelligent woman with a body count of 0 than a random Somali girl with a body count of 0. Also FGM is extremely common in Somalia and I don't want a wife with that barbaric shit.
who the fuck you think you are?
Are those standards really that unreasonable for someone who isn't Chad?
 
salary doesn't attract women

nowadays more women have university degrees then men, and this means they have just as much access to money as men do

as long as youre making a decent salary (80k+ USD) salary doesn't do much for long term relationships, unless youre super rich. Then you can get married to some gold digger if thats what you want

I suggest you just looksmax and get connections and create a positive image for yourself if you want a decent wife considering you would be average at best facially after softmaxxing (no surgerys or hormones) and you're only 5'11
Money attracts women but it's like looks you need to be chad to attract good-looking women. Yeah, you should be normie by look wise it's obvious. Earning 200k won't make up for a normie look but earning 7 figures will.

Normie= 100-200k
HTN=200k-1m
Chadlite= 7 figures
Chad= Multi 7 figures
 
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How do you know I'd be average at best after softmaxxing?
soft maxxing includes normal things like weightloss, skin care, beard, eyebrows, hair care, etc

just taking a quick look i can see you have an upturned nose, noticeable upper eyelid exposure, odd lips, slightly narrow jaw, and small chin

if you were to softmaxx your face to the fullest you would look average, which isn't too bad

When i said you would be normie at best I was talking about face alone, if you include gym maxxing + fashionmaxxing + more you could reach above average SMV
 
Money attracts women but it's like looks you need to be chad to attract good-looking women. Yeah, you should be normie by look wise it's obvious. Earning 200k won't make up for a normie look but earning 7 figures will.
yeah and have fun having your gold digger wife cheat on you every opportunity she has because "money attracts women"

look at how many rich celebrities get cucked by their wives lmao, no amount of money will make a women attracted to you, she will only be attracted to your money
 
yeah and have fun having your gold digger wife cheat on you every opportunity she has because "money attracts women"

look at how many rich celebrities get cucked by their wives lmao, no amount of money will make a women attracted to you, she will only be attracted to your money
There is no black and white. It's been always LMS since puahate. The look is important but until a certain threshold.
 
soft maxxing includes normal things like weightloss, skin care, beard, eyebrows, hair care, etc

just taking a quick look i can see you have an upturned nose, noticeable upper eyelid exposure, odd lips, slightly narrow jaw, and small chin

if you were to softmaxx your face to the fullest you would look average, which isn't too bad

When i said you would be normie at best I was talking about face alone, if you include gym maxxing + fashionmaxxing + more you could reach above average SMV
I appreciate the analysis, I thought my nose was my best feature apart from my harmony. What would you say my best feature is?
I didn't think upturned nose was a failo, thought it was neutral. I agree I have too much upper eyelid exporsure.
I'm interested in why you think my jaw is narrow since you're the second person to say that, I thought it was average.

Also do you recommend any surgeries? I'm fine with anything even if invasive.
 
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Are those standards really that unreasonable for someone who isn't Chad?
even for a chad, those standards are unrealistic.

these women are extremely rare and even if you manage to hit the jackpot and date one of these women, you're still not guaranteed that she will treat you right and you two will get along well together.
 
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earns ~120k+ annually (preferably a software engineer)
intelligent
Why would you want a smart foid for an LTR anyway? It's a stupid choice.

Foids with intellect and skills are the least submissive and they have a higher chance of being able to live alone as they can look after themselves and provide for themselves. They're argumentative and hard to maintain.

They are likely to dump you in the future. Intellect is a masculine trait, foids are associated with irrationality. Your wife is meant to be your housekeeper and sex toy... not some abnormal nerdy female friend who you would want to have high IQ discussions with.

Reserve all the smart talk for your bros and male friends.

minimum 5'7
This is reasonable to ask provided that you're at least 3-6 inches taller than her.

You can score a PSL 6 female if you're status maxed and if you try hard like a jester by impressing her with what you have and what you have achieved in life as a sub-chad. But in bed, she will always want a male who is at least 5.5 PSL (chadlite) if not her looksmatch (chad). So she will for sure eventually cheat on you and divorce if you don't mog her. You should ideally be 6.5 PSL if you want a 6 PSL foid to commit to you for the rest of your life.
 
Why would you want a smart foid for an LTR anyway? It's a stupid choice.

Foids with intellect and skills are the least submissive and they have a higher chance of being able to live alone as they can look after themselves and provide for themselves. They're argumentative and hard to maintain.

They are likely to dump you in the future. Intellect is a masculine trait, foids are associated with irrationality. Your wife is meant to be your housekeeper and sex toy... not some abnormal nerdy female friend who you would want to have high IQ discussions with.

Reserve all the smart talk for your bros and male friends.


This is reasonable to ask provided that you're at least 3-6 inches taller than her.


You can score a PSL 6 female if you're status maxed and if you try hard like a jester by impressing her with what you have and what you have achieved in life as a sub-chad. But in bed, she will always want a male who is at least 5.5 PSL (chadlite) if not her looksmatch (chad). So she will for sure eventually cheat on you and divorce if you don't mog her. You should ideally be 6.5 PSL if you want a 6 PSL foid to commit to you for the rest of your life.
Intelligence is genetic. If I breed with some dumb women my children will be average or dumb, which I don't want.
Besides I don't want to spent 40-50 years of my life onwards with a fucking idiot. If anything I prefer my future wife isn't submissive. I don't want a yesman who has no mind of their own, I want someone on my side who can rationally think through things and give me advice from their perspective. I could kinda get that from male friends too but there's things you can't really share with friends. In my parents relationship my mom is strong willed and not afraid to be contrary to my dad, which seems helpful.
 
I didn't think upturned nose was a failo, thought it was neutral.
its a feminine trait but it can be positive if your other features match well with it. usually for males its a negative though

I'm interested in why you think my jaw is narrow since you're the second person to say that, I thought it was average.
its average but compared to the ideal its narrow. most men have mediocre lower thirds
 

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