Are you guys going to get married?

[Byjomo]

is marriage worth the risk? Also if you are going to get married, what requirements would she need to meet for you to consider her marriage material.

I think having a family is important but I understand why you wouldn’t.

 

[.👽.]

i would when i get older but i cant even find a GF bruh

 

[khvirgin]

my requirements:

1) be attracted to me

end

 

[Byjomo]

i would when i get older but i cant even find a GF bruh

Arrange marriage bro

 

[Deleted member 15778]

If you're going to have kids you should get married.

 

[khvirgin]

Arrange marriage bro

you cant arrange marriage if you're white

 

[randomuser2407]

It's only worth it if you want to have kids and are willing to settle down in a traditional country that has traditional patriarchal laws for marriage and divorce.

Otherwise, you're just taking yourself off the dating market, giving all your power and dedicating your entire life to just one woman, who can cheat on you whenever she wants with no repercussions and take away half of what you have together + alimony + child support.

In the old days, marriage meant that you had a woman that you could have sex with whenever you wanted, and in 99.9% of marriages, she was completely loyal to you. Nowadays, in marriage there is no sex at all, and she isn't even loyal to you.
And like I said, the only places in the world where that isn't the case is where they have kept traditional values, like in Thailand. China may also be like that, although I am not 100% sure.

Personally, I am not interested in having children anytime soon, and if I did, it would have to be in one of those traditional countries, so I would need a job that allows me to make a lot of money remotely so that I could provide not only for myself but for my family.

But that is way too complicated, it's much easier to just gymmax, and then I can have many women on rotation that I have sex with regularly (aka a harem of friends with benefits), that is my main goal right now. In around 3 years, I will reach the point of diminishing returns as a natural lifter, that is when I will maybe consider steroids, depending on how good I look and how much my looks have improved, and from there, that harem will be mine.

 

[Deleted member 15099]

If I find a latin stacy yeah, otherwise prolly not

 

[Matthias8272]

Nah but i never had a choice in the matter anyways

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

I'm too subhuman to even be a beta-buxx.

 

[traveler]

marriage for social acceptance and family to be proud of

 

[oldcelloser]

nah...im not a judeo comuunist equalitarian

 

[Deleted member 18436]

marriage never makes sense for men.

 

[Oberyn]

Marriages are too risky in the 21st-century cuck system. Surrogate makes sense to me but psychologically probably gonna fuck kids' life up. I don't wanna raise the next ER.

 

[Deleted member 18012]

maybe when I'm 40

 

[Byjomo]

Marriages are too risky in the 21st-century cuck system. Surrogate makes sense to me but psychologically probably gonna fuck kids' life up. I don't wanna raise the next ER.

I agree. the majority of men will get cucked getting married in the 21st century. I wouldn’t get married unless you live in a culture where marriage is still valued

 

[Chinacurry]

It's actually a good question, and I think it's a function of whatever your life experiences are tbh.

5 years ago I moved to Hong Kong because everyone told me it would be great, I'd meet loads of decent foids who would be into me, great nightlife etc, so my view was I'd do all that then after a couple of years get married and just do the whole family thing, which is what a lot of people here also aim for.

Then it all changed when I realised that to have a SUCCESFUL relationship in modern times you need to be 99.99% perfect, which sadly I'm not, I have too many flaws to ever find a girl I'm into, namely my dick isn't big enough, my bf% is too high, and I'm too dark skin, so I gave up on that totally, and made peace with that fact, as someone who's a very bottom(ish) tier guy, it's the sensible thing.

The only time it gets daunting thinking about it is when I think how will life be when I'm giga old and alone, and I can see that is a benefit of marriage, so u don't die alone, but even then I'm kind of ok with that part too now, so I know I won't ever get married

 

[Deleted member 23558]

It's actually a good question, and I think it's a function of whatever your life experiences are tbh.

5 years ago I moved to Hong Kong because everyone told me it would be great, I'd meet loads of decent foids who would be into me, great nightlife etc, so my view was I'd do all that then after a couple of years get married and just do the whole family thing, which is what a lot of people here also aim for.

Then it all changed when I realised that to have a SUCCESFUL relationship in modern times you need to be 99.99% perfect, which sadly I'm not, I have too many flaws to ever find a girl I'm into, namely my dick isn't big enough, my bf% is too high, and I'm too dark skin, so I gave up on that totally, and made peace with that fact, as someone who's a very bottom(ish) tier guy, it's the sensible thing.

The only time it gets daunting thinking about it is when I think how will life be when I'm giga old and alone, and I can see that is a benefit of marriage, so u don't die alone, but even then I'm kind of ok with that part too now, so I know I won't ever get married

You are light skin Problem is your high bf and Norwood

 

[Chinacurry]

You are light skin Problem is your high bf and Norwood

relative, I'm lightskin in curryland, I'm too dark elsewhere.

I'm also not really high bf in most of the world, including curryland.

 

[over_for_me]

Don't get married unless you're in eastern countries where there is no incentive for divorce.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

relative, I'm lightskin in curryland, I'm too dark elsewhere.

I'm also not really high bf in most of the world, including curryland.

its about phenotype until dark brown marlon taxeira is medium brown and slays harder than if he was pale white

 

[Chinacurry]

its about phenotype until dark brown marlon taxeira is medium brown and slays harder than if he was pale white

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its partly that yes, tbh me and Marlon are more or less same colour, but also Marlon is prob 1 of the 10 best looking guys in the world.

also its location, if Marlon was in my location hed be like 4/10 max