Are your conversations with people a NT duel, No one is as NT as you think

[Ozsaraal]

When you meet someone or talk to a normie do you find that the conversation turns into a duel of who is more NT

In my experience though not always every now and then talking to people can feel like we're both fighting to look neurotypcal in each others eyes

The reason I think this is that I don't believe that normies are actually as NT as we think, it's just they do a better job at hiding it



I mean really



Do you actually think all these bullshit personas that people have are real


Personally I couldn't think of anything worse or more exhausting or 'fish our of water' than being a stereotypical instagram having sociable obnoxious on display fucktard

No one is this actual NT persona

It's gotta be fake

Remember that the way people behave when No one is looking could and most likely would be more spurg than in social settings and that's everyone

But if your good looking and your life is going well it's easier to hide non nt ness and the non normal ness

No one is that NT or as NT as you think

Sometimes when im talking to someone irl it is like a duel over who is more NT both of us trying to hide our non nt ness and pretend we're this bullshit persona

I feel like saying to some normies, "just shut the fuck up cut the persona bullshit and just be you I know there's a spurg inside, there's gotta be" think about it

Do you really think these personas are real


And what do you think normies behave when No one is looking

 

[Deleted member 20193]

Nah normies are literally like that.Jfl at you if you really think they want to appear “more NT” than you. I once talked with someone and asked if he would go back in time to make the right choices and he said no Im satisfied with the choices he made in the past. Normies are just Normies

 

[Ozsaraal]

Nah normies are literally like that.Jfl at you if you really think they want to appear “more NT” than you. I once talked with someone and asked if he would go back in time to make the right choices and he said no Im satisfied with the choices he made in the past. Normies are just Normies

Normies are like that but naturally your right but

it's not that they want to appear NT as they already are, it's that there not as spurg as us but also not as NT as we think,

now the spectrum that I'm saying that there not as spurg as us forumers is sort of the wrong word cause there not spurg at all,

what I mean by there not as NT as we think is that they still have quirky vulnerabilities and personalities that are not favourable in social settings

I think you'll find that many of the non NT people on this forum aren't actually autistic or adhd( of course many are) or any disability at all, but just people who have a raw understanding of the human condition

I think to be honest that many people if they cut back the society brainwashing could easily understand emphasise and fit into this forum easily, so therefore relating to similar struggles

I think everyone goes through but only we talk about

Like I said how do you honestly think normies behave when no one is looking, and what are there dark thoughts when they are all alone

There social personas accommodate them well because there personalities and looks and popularity or success might allow it


But the main point to remember is that there personas are not the whole truth of who they are,
And basing there nt ness of that persona is inaccurate reading since it's not the whole truth of who they are anyway

We overestimate people

 

[Deleted member 21822]

When you meet someone or talk to a normie do you find that the conversation turns into a duel of who is more NT

In my experience though not always every now and then talking to people can feel like we're both fighting to look neurotypcal in each others eyes

The reason I think this is that I don't believe that normies are actually as NT as we think, it's just they do a better job at hiding it



I mean really



Do you actually think all these bullshit personas that people have are real


Personally I couldn't think of anything worse or more exhausting or 'fish our of water' than being a stereotypical instagram having sociable obnoxious on display fucktard

No one is this actual NT persona

It's gotta be fake

Remember that the way people behave when No one is looking could and most likely would be more spurg than in social settings and that's everyone

But if your good looking and your life is going well it's easier to hide non nt ness and the non normal ness

No one is that NT or as NT as you think

Sometimes when im talking to someone irl it is like a duel over who is more NT both of us trying to hide our non nt ness and pretend we're this bullshit persona

I feel like saying to some normies, "just shut the fuck up cut the persona bullshit and just be you I know there's a spurg inside, there's gotta be" think about it

Do you really think these personas are real


And what do you think normies behave when No one is looking

Just look at them when they think you’re not looking at them

 

[Ozsaraal]

Just look at them when they think you’re not looking at them

Yea it's more about how people appear to be vs what they actually are, and who they are without social repercussions

 

[ManletBlackcel]

This. Every normie will never fail to mention their gf or what they did on the weekend even though no one asked

 

[Deleted member 19442]

You’re talking about personality not NT. NT are the basic social skills you need to keep up the personality larp given you’re not out of your element

 

[Ozsaraal]

I see what you're saying and your 100 percent right

But nt means aswell non autistic or non mental disorder, this is what it means strictly,

however on this site we have sort of modified the meaning of nt and non nt for practical life purposes,

so for example supporting russia is non nt, even though you could do that and totally not have a mental disorder

Same with no social media

we've modified the meaning slightly to not only accommodate social disability people but also to accommodate people who are unpopular and not someone that would fit in to a normal group

What I'm saying in my thread is that the opposite end of the spectrum so real nt people so this popular hyper nt persona is not real per se and everyone is faking it

 

[swaggyp1]

Nah normies are literally like that.Jfl at you if you really think they want to appear “more NT” than you. I once talked with someone and asked if he would go back in time to make the right choices and he said no Im satisfied with the choices he made in the past. Normies are just Normies

They do

They want to appear more cool and hip