Arrange marriage is a retarded thing

[supernova..]

Yes , you heard me right
In india if you arrange marriage Maxx a woman it's because either
1. You have a lot of money
2.Your parents would have forced you to do so
I have seen when they seek alliance they just ask what is the groom's occupation/ work this is the most retarded thing a person can ask while choosing his partner
Reasons on why this happens :
Many women in India dont go to work they rely on their partners
While doing arrange marriage they just mostly neglect the looks part and go for the money part
Most of the parents think the same too
Only way Indians can improve our genetics is by choosing better genetics to breed and improve our generation
Arrange marriage should be banned in India
Tagging: @Chadeep
@Jason Voorhees @primal_shitmuncher
@Punjabi Waffen

 

[Chadeep]

It's a cope tbh. It's beneficial for whores they can get married off to a simp because of muh caste

 

[supernova..]

It's a cope tbh. It's beneficial for whores they can get married off to a simp because of muh caste

Yeah even though arrange marriages are decreasing today it's still prevalent hope it completely just vanishes no arrange marriages in India should be a rule that's the way to improve our genes by generation

 

[quan1]

water

this indian fella i was talking to at school said he probably had an arranged marriage but didn't want one

he said he wanted to date but wasn't allowed (wouldn't matter anyways he get's rejected on the daily)

over for indians

 

[Jason Voorhees]

It's a cope tbh. It's beneficial for whores they can get married off to a simp because of muh caste

Meh i don't think it's too bad. I've personally seen plenty of successful arranged marriages. As long it's not forced upon them by their parents and isn't exploitative it works out just fine

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Yes , you heard me right
In india if you arrange marriage Maxx a woman it's because either
1. You have a lot of money
2.Your parents would have forced you to do so
I have seen when they seek alliance they just ask what is the groom's occupation/ work this is the most retarded thing a person can ask while choosing his partner
Reasons on why this happens :
Many women in India dont go to work they rely on their partners
While doing arrange marriage they just mostly neglect the looks part and go for the money part
Most of the parents think the same too
Only way Indians can improve our genetics is by choosing better genetics to breed and improve our generation
Arrange marriage should be banned in India
Tagging: @Chadeep
@Jason Voorhees @primal_shitmuncher
@Punjabi Waffen

disagree, obviously it causes a worse genepool but its the best cope in my opinion and the closest thing you can get to a good life if you are genetically misfortuned.

Most arranged marriages in my family end happy, like 80%, even when compared to the love marriages they are typically the same point after 10ish years, sure love marriage is better, but arranged marriage isnt the worst thing ever. I think couples in arranged marriages, find love after a while

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Arranged marriages are based. There is no incel epidemic, anyone can get a partner.

 

[supernova..]

Meh i don't think it's too bad. I've personally seen plenty of successful arranged marriages. As long it's forced upon them by their parents and isn't exploitative it works out just fine

Yeah it's a 50 /50 either the couple live a good life together or it's the other way around

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Meh i don't think it's too bad. I've personally seen plenty of successful arranged marriages. As long it's forced upon them by their parents and isn't exploitative it works out just fine

most of the time they work out fine, unless either party has bad intentions. only time in my family its been bad is when the husband hits the wife

 

[supernova..]

Arranged marriages are based. There is no incel epidemic, anyone can get a partner.

Yeah that's the singe best thing about it but I can't just stand when a girl will marry a person for his money that's just beta buxxing atp

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Yeah it's a 50 /50 either the couple live a good life together or it's the other way around

Nah. They work out fine usually. It's not as catastrophic as you make it seem. Those kind of scenarios only happen if the guy or the girl gets greedy and marries only for looks/money

 

[supernova..]

Mmm I see

Nah. They work out fine usually. It's not as catastrophic as you make it seem. Those kind of scenarios only happen if the guy or the girl gets greedy and marries women only for looks/money

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Nah. They work out fine usually. It's not as catastrophic as you make it seem. Those kind of scenarios only happen if the guy or the girl gets greedy and marries women only for looks/money

exactly, and the families at least back in egypt get to know eachother and its pretty easy to find intentions based on how the family is, also the bride and groom get to meet for a month at the minimum to see if theirs compatiblity

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Yeah that's the singe best thing about it but I can't just stand when a girl will marry a person for his money that's just beta buxxing atp

it could be classified as beta buxxing, but beta buxxing is different in the West, i dont really know how to put it into words coherently, but betabuxxing in the west is somewhat different, to getting an arranged marriage, maybe its the cultural difference

 

[supernova..]

exactly, and the families at least back in egypt get to know eachother and its pretty easy to find intentions based on how the family is, also the bride and groom get to meet for a month at the minimum to see if theirs compatiblity

My point is it's just beta buxxing but yeah there are some benefits for the guy tho
Mostly looks are also seen here but if the guy looks decent the girl will go for it and agree for the marriage

 

[Jason Voorhees]

exactly, and the families at least back in egypt get to know eachother and its pretty easy to find intentions based on how the family is, also the bride and groom get to meet for a month at the minimum to see if theirs compatiblity

My parents was an arranged marriage and they are soon going to celebrate 25 years. They usually work out fine as long as you stay within your looksmatch/ social status. It only become a problem when you try to punch way above your league.

Like one of my friends he has great job makes good money and he married a girl way above his league and got divorce raped with his wife getting his children's custody. Scenarios like that do happen but like I said as long as it's not purely transactional relationships its fine.

 

[supernova..]

My parents was an arranged marriage and they are soon going to celebrate 25 years. They usually work out fine as long as you stay within your looksmatch/ social status. It only become a problem when you try to punch way above your league.

Like one of my friends he has great job makes good money and he married a girl way above his league and got divorce raped with his wife getting his children's custody. Scenarios like that do happen but like I said as long as it's not purely transactional relationships its fine.

I agree

 

[Chadeep]

Meh i don't think it's too bad. I've personally seen plenty of successful arranged marriages. As long it's not forced upon them by their parents and isn't exploitative it works out just fine

Depends on location too bihar up has cases of foids deleting arranged marriage husbands days after the marriage.

 

[Manletsteinberg]

My point is it's just beta buxxing but yeah there are some benefits for the guy tho
Mostly looks are also seen here but if the guy looks decent the girl will go for it and agree for the marriage

i'm not too sure about this, I don't think its the exact same as the western conception of betabuxxing. Because that would imply that if you lose the money she would leave you, which is what would happen with most western betabuxxes.
But in my family or not really my family, a family that we know, there was a case where the husband got cancer and lost all his money, the wife still stuck by him till he died and supported him. I think most arranged marriages would be the same if a similar case happened.
I don't think the concept of betabuxxing exists outside the west

Also betabuxxing is a concept because most marriages in the west are love marriages, but outside of the west where most marriages are arranged, I think it's more just being a provider. In betabux relatoinships the wife has other options and knows this, but i think the mindset is just different for arranged marriages

TLDR: Arranged marriages aren't "betabuxxing." Betabuxxing is a Western, transactional concept

 

[Manletsteinberg]

My parents was an arranged marriage and they are soon going to celebrate 25 years. They usually work out fine as long as you stay within your looksmatch/ social status. It only become a problem when you try to punch way above your league.

Like one of my friends he has great job makes good money and he married a girl way above his league and got divorce raped with his wife getting his children's custody. Scenarios like that do happen but like I said as long as it's not purely transactional relationships its fine.

Was this case in India?

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Depends on location too bihar up has cases of foids deleting arranged marriage husbands days after the marriage.

why is this?

 

[supernova..]

i'm not too sure about this, I don't think its the exact same as the western conception of betabuxxing. Because that would imply that if you lose the money she would leave you, which is what would happen with most western betabuxxes.
But in my family or not really my family, a family that we know, there was a case where the husband got cancer and lost all his money, the wife still stuck by him till he died and supported him. I think most arranged marriages would be the same if a similar case happened.
I don't think the concept of betabuxxing exists outside the west

Also betabuxxing is a concept because most marriages in the west are love marriages, but outside of the west where most marriages are arranged, I think it's more just being a provider. In betabux relatoinships the wife has other options and knows this, but i think the mindset is just different for arranged marriages

TL;DR: Arranged marriages aren't "betabuxxing." Betabuxxing is a Western, transactional concept

I somewhat agree but as u said western women rely a lot on looks which comprehens to beta buxxing my point is that other than western women .. other women don't have the chance to choose their partner solely on their looks so they find a man with decent looks and money and marry him and yeah they will be happy until the last if it goes out well

 

[Chadeep]

why is this?

Most cases it's forceful marriage in caste. The boyfriend is from lower caste so parents get them married to similar case guy and naive dude marries not knowing she's already in love with someone else

 

[supernova..]

Brutal

Most cases it's forceful marriage in caste. The boyfriend is from lower caste so parents get them married to similar case guy and naive dude marries not knowing she's already in love with someone else

 

[tertaf]

Only way Indians can improve our genetics is by choosing better genetics to breed and improve our generation

 

[tertaf]

It's a cope tbh. It's beneficial for whores they can get married off to a simp because of muh caste

is a dalit willing to marry a ran through brahmin cause of caste shit?

 

[Chadeep]

is a dalit willing to marry a ran through brahmin cause of caste shit?

No marriage happens in same caste.

 

[supernova..]

@Chadeep what are the best places to geomaxx as an Indian bhai

 

[tertaf]

No marriage happens in same caste.

is there still a taboo around marrying other castes? explain indias cultural system

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Most cases it's forceful marriage in caste. The boyfriend is from lower caste so parents get them married to similar case guy and naive dude marries not knowing she's already in love with someone else

oh i forgot the caste system is prevalent in india. Does the younger generation care about caste? like would there be a similar situation in the next generatoin wherein people would want to get married to the same caste? I know pakistan has a similar system my pakistani friend, told me that the younger generation doesn't care as much, but im not sure if their system is as harboiled as yours

 

[Manletsteinberg]

I somewhat agree but as u said western women rely a lot on looks which comprehens to beta buxxing my point is that other than western women .. other women don't have the chance to choose their partner solely on their looks so they find a man with decent looks and money and marry him and yeah they will be happy until the last if it goes out well

yeah im esentially saying betabuxxing in the west exists, because money is uses to compensate for looks, but i'd argue this system doesnt exist outside, as there is less choice

 

[Chadeep]

oh i forgot the caste system is prevalent in india. Does the younger generation care about caste? like would there be a similar situation in the next generatoin wherein people would want to get married to the same caste? I know pakistan has a similar system my pakistani friend, told me that the younger generation doesn't care as much, but im not sure if their system is as harboiled as yours

Younger generation not so much but because of parents intercaste is way less. Also has to do with fact Brahmins of every indian region have highest steppe DNA. So they consider it bad for dilution of genes with AASI

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Only way Indians can improve our genetics is by choosing better genetics to breed and improve our generation

This is true, but I still think it's a better system than what the west has going. Causes less net harm. But im also saying this as a MLTN manlet so take it with a grain of salt

 

[Chadeep]

@Chadeep what are the best places to geomaxx as an Indian bhai

Foids are same everywhere. You can try to geomaxx in south if you're lightskin.

 

[supernova..]

I'm from the south bhai

Foids are same everywhere. You can try to geomaxx in south if you're lightskin.

 

[supernova..]

This is true, but I still think it's a better system than what the west has going. Causes less net harm. But im also saying this as a MLTN manlet so take it with a grain of salt

Are u planning to get a llr buddy what's ur future plan

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Younger generation not so much but because of parents intercaste is way less. Also has to do with fact Brahmins of every indian region have highest steppe DNA. So they consider it bad for dilution of genes with AASI

this might be a retarded question, but what stops someone from lying about caste? like if a dalit or a lower caste is in mumbai, what is stopping them from moving to new dehli and lying about being a higher caste? maybe not even as low as a dalit, but like a low range caste, could they fraud to a higher caste?

 

[sonic55555]

Yes , you heard me right
In india if you arrange marriage Maxx a woman it's because either
1. You have a lot of money
2.Your parents would have forced you to do so
I have seen when they seek alliance they just ask what is the groom's occupation/ work this is the most retarded thing a person can ask while choosing his partner
Reasons on why this happens :
Many women in India dont go to work they rely on their partners
While doing arrange marriage they just mostly neglect the looks part and go for the money part
Most of the parents think the same too
Only way Indians can improve our genetics is by choosing better genetics to breed and improve our generation
Arrange marriage should be banned in India
Tagging: @Chadeep
@Jason Voorhees @primal_shitmuncher
@Punjabi Waffen

so youd rather have unmitigated hypergamy running wild?
you prefer the 80/20 dating market where 20% of men get 100% of the women?

Nah arranged marriage has worked for thousand of years for a reason

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Are u planning to get a llr buddy what's ur future plan

llr? as in limb lengething?, i mean ideally yeah of course, i'd kill to be averageish height, but i dont think it makes sense financially, id rather put the money towards a house or insane copes. I'll try in the west, but likely wont work, will get an arranged marriage if not in any form of relationship till like 28ish

 

[supernova..]

this might be a retarded question, but what stops someone from lying about caste? like if a dalit or a lower caste is in mumbai, what is stopping them from moving to new dehli and lying about being a higher caste? maybe not even as low as a dalit, but like a low range caste, could they fraud to a higher caste?

 

[Chadeep]

this might be a retarded question, but what stops someone from lying about caste? like if a dalit or a lower caste is in mumbai, what is stopping them from moving to new dehli and lying about being a higher caste? maybe not even as low as a dalit, but like a low range caste, could they fraud to a higher caste?

They do but college records aka admit depends on caste they need to have caste certificate you can pull out stats from official website and see their category. SC/ST have way lower cutoff than general.

 

[Manletsteinberg]

so youd rather have unmitigated hypergamy running wild?
you prefer the 80/20 dating market where 20% of men get 100% of the women?

Nah arranged marriage has worked for thousand of years for a reason

agreed arranged marriage is less net harm

 

[supernova..]

U are from uae?

llr? as in limb lengething?, i mean ideally yeah of course, i'd kill to be averageish height, but i dont think it makes sense financially, id rather put the money towards a house or insane copes. I'll try in the west, but likely wont work, will get an arranged marriage if not in any form of relationship till like 28ish

 

[Chadeep]

They do but college records aka admit depends on caste they need to have caste certificate you can pull out stats from official website and see their category. SC/ST have way lower cutoff than general.

@Jason Voorhees

 

[Manletsteinberg]

They do but college records aka admit depends on caste they need to have caste certificate you can pull out stats from official website and see their category. SC/ST have way lower cutoff than general.

Woah, they have whole caste certificates? I thought it was more of a societal thing than a systematic thing

 

[Manletsteinberg]

U are from uae?

im egyptian, but live in Australia, but if i get an arranged marriage I will move to saudi, or kuwait or something i dont really like the lifestyle offered by the west

 

[Chadeep]

Woah, they have whole caste certificates? I thought it was more of a societal thing than a systematic thing

It's like Affirmative Action for Blacks in USA but way too much. The difference is massive.

 

[Manletsteinberg]

It's like Affirmative Action for Blacks in USA but way too much. The difference is massive.

so it gives "lower castes" advantages? Like would a dalit be more likely to get a job compared to a brahmin given they had similar qualifications

 

[Kainep]

Yes , you heard me right
In india if you arrange marriage Maxx a woman it's because either
1. You have a lot of money
2.Your parents would have forced you to do so
I have seen when they seek alliance they just ask what is the groom's occupation/ work this is the most retarded thing a person can ask while choosing his partner
Reasons on why this happens :
Many women in India dont go to work they rely on their partners
While doing arrange marriage they just mostly neglect the looks part and go for the money part
Most of the parents think the same too
Only way Indians can improve our genetics is by choosing better genetics to breed and improve our generation
Arrange marriage should be banned in India
Tagging: @Chadeep
@Jason Voorhees @primal_shitmuncher
@Punjabi Waffen

no virgin wife over everything nigga if you wanna be cucked by marrying your gf who probably has had over 5 bodies go for it

 

[Manletsteinberg]

im egyptian, but live in Australia, but if i get an arranged marriage I will move to saudi, or kuwait or something i dont really like the lifestyle offered by the west

expanding on this
@Chadeep @Jason Voorhees @supernova..
If you guys dont live in the west i think you underestimate the advantages of living in an ethnic country. The individiualistic culture in the west sucks, like to a crazy extent.
I'd literally kill to go back in time and have never have moved to the west, besides the passport buff it sucks.

It's just so much more lonely, there is no warmness.

I really want a household where my sisters husband and kids, my parents and my wife and kids, along with some aunties all live in one big shared house, its so much more fulfilling, and its not a thing in the west. Even never getting married in an ethnic country doesnt leave you lonely as there is such an emphasis on family, which doesn't exist in the west in the same way.