Arranged marriage guy complains about getting sex only once a month.

[11gaijin]

State of arranged marriage cels. If you want to do an arranged marriage and have a sex drive, it maybe better to just get a sugar baby or settle in Thailand. Both will have a better sex life

**Throwaway Account ** [Advice][M, 31] Me and my wife married 5 years ago through an arranged marriage. We both are working. My wife does not have sex with me more than once a month. When we do have sex it feels like she is doing it just for sake of it and nothing more. When I bring the issue up she makes me feel that I am some kind of pevert to want more sex and should stop pestering her. She says things like "stop behaving like a perpetually horny teenager, we are a married couple" or "you are always horny , no matter the ammount of sex it will never be enough".

When we courted before our arranged marriage, we discussed about sex and how important it is for a fulfilling married life. She agreed with me for that most part and said she has a high sex drive. I told her in no uncertain terms that I would want a decent amount of sex and have different varieties of it. The first 1 to 1 and a half year(s) of our marriage were great. Lots of sex (atleat 2x a week), different kinks and did it in lot of fun and novel places. For my part I made sure to make her orgasm too so she's satisfied.

Her views about sex and her sex drive have totally changed. Talking isn't yielding any results. It feels that we are generally growing distant and less intimate. I take her for dinner dates, I give her expensive gifts and jwellery for birthday and anniversary. In 2019 we went on a romantic Europe trip thinking maybe that would help.

I have done everything I can think of that could help. I feel really frustrated. She refused counselling saying "this problem only exists for you and you are not entitled to sex. Stop thinking about getting a hard on all the time". For the record, I have never acted in an entitled manner with regards to sex with her, infact this comment hit me really hard. I feel maybe I am pressuring her and I just hate this feeling. Any advice is much appreciated.

 

[Zer0/∞]

I will die a virgin!

 

[vaninskybird]

seems to me that she got a taste of chad's cock and now hates her husband

 

[CupOfCoffee]

He is the idiot for getting into this situation.

 

[11gaijin]

He is the idiot for getting into this situation.

Tbh

 

[Copeful]

He is the idiot for getting into this situation.

most guys that opt for arrange marriage dont really have a choice, what else could he have realistically done

 

[CupOfCoffee]

most guys that opt for arrange marriage dont really have a choice, what else could he have realistically done

Not married a girl who exibits signs of a low libido or low attraction to him

 

[fauxfox]

I'd bet $100 his wife is getting plenty of sex, just not with him
When will people stop falling for this meme? A loveless marriage with some random women is hell, I'd rather be alone.

 

[11gaijin]

I'd bet $100 his wife is getting plenty of sex, just not with him
When will people stop falling for this meme? A loveless marriage with some random women is hell, I'd rather be alone.

Unfortunately there are lot of arranged marriage copers on this forum itself

 

[Deleted member 19607]

State of arranged marriage cels. If you want to do an arranged marriage and have a sex drive, it maybe better to just get a sugar baby or settle in Thailand. Both will have a better sex life

This is the fate of all the currycels in this forum

 

[11gaijin]

@Gaia262 What are your thoughts?

 

[Gaia262]

@Gaia262 What are your thoughts?

Most likely cheating on him on the side with someone she is actually attracted to.

No way is a girl in her 20s having signs of low libido without ever having kids.

 

[Chadeep]

I wonder what happened after the first year lol. Maybe her ex came back.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

State of arranged marriage cels. If you want to do an arranged marriage and have a sex drive, it maybe better to just get a sugar baby or settle in Thailand. Both will have a better sex life

Isn’t it Legal to rape your wife in india? Just saying


Why doesn’t he just you know… after all most curries have done it once or twice

 

[BugeyeBigNoseCurry]

State of arranged marriage cels. If you want to do an arranged marriage and have a sex drive, it maybe better to just get a sugar baby or settle in Thailand. Both will have a better sex life

He is lucky. Arrange marriage cels get nothing

 

[disillusioned]

I'd bet $100 his wife is getting plenty of sex, just not with him

THIS.

My first assumption was that she was just using him as betabucks and tbf she is but the fact she (presumably) had sex more often but suddenly no longer does is a dead giveaway. She is cheating with a better looking man on the side 100%.

Btw. anybody who gets into an arranged marriage is utterly cucked. I'd never want to be with a woman that I know doesn't find me attractive or even despises me. I'd rather just be single srs.

 

[Tusseleif]

She couldn’t handle seeing her jawless husband

 

[Copeful]

THIS.

My first assumption was that she was just using him as betabucks and tbf she is but the fact she (presumably) had sex more often but suddenly no longer does is a dead giveaway. She is cheating with a better looking man on the side 100%.

Btw. anybody who gets into an arranged marriage is utterly cucked. I'd never want to be with a woman that I know doesn't find me attractive or even despises me. I'd rather just be single srs.

ok then your volcel

 

[Deleted member 4362]

How can the world be so cucked that your literal wife is telling you you’re not entitled to sex, honk honk.

 

[Atem Rah]

 

[Deleted member 1901]

This is why arrangemarriagemaxxing creates new problems

 

[Deleted member 7580]

I only see western curry girls either with blacks or Asians … sometimes ugly whites @ForeverRecession

 

[vinn98]

As soon as a woman starts withholding sex it's over.

 

[thatrussianguy]

Deathnics trying to cheat biology
It’s all so tiresome