as a short average looking person

[Deleted member 21077]

narcissism has helped me a lot with coping with my shortcomings and given me opportunities with people i would never have had if i werent

 

[helpmegod]

what do u mean by narcissism in your case

 

[HarrierDuBois]

what do u mean by narcissism in your case

Low inhib most likely.

 

[Deleted member 21077]

more like just having irrational confidence and striving to be more than i should im never content with anything. low inhibition is a result of this at times but i think it focuses on me being so determined to prove things to myself that i really put myself outside the box enough to do it.

i also think narcissism gives me an aggressive edge and ive heard short men have more psychopathic traits but in my case it was substituted by narcissism and it led me to a path of self acceptance and understanding i otherwise would never have achieved if i werent as narcy as i am.

 

[helpmegod]

more like just having irrational confidence and striving to be more than i should im never content with anything. low inhibition is a result of this at times but i think it focuses on me being so determined to prove things to myself that i really put myself outside the box enough to do it.

i also think narcissism gives me an aggressive edge and ive heard short men have more psychopathic traits but in my case it was substituted by narcissism and it led me to a path of self acceptance and understanding i otherwise would never have achieved if i werent as narcy as i am

it's not a bad worldview to have, I've had it too in the past but usually it would all come crumbling down when for example, i'd see a dude thats shorter but better looking than me get with a girl i'd been trying all night on in the club, and i'd come to realize that confidence was for nothing

 

[Deleted member 21077]

it's not a bad worldview to have, I've had it too in the past but usually it would all come crumbling down when for example, i'd see a dude thats shorter but better looking than me get with a girl i'd been trying all night on in the club, and i'd come to realize that confidence was for nothing

well its all about maintaining a resilient attitude in the face of pain and rejecting any negative views of oneself simply because the people around you may be oblivious to how great of a person you are.

i think if you are suffering from feeling sensitivity in your life then get your actions to show that you can fight whatever youre going through without having to try as much as someone else would.