As a youngcel how should I go about convincing my parents to help pay for surgeries?

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I've already mentioned surgery and they've told me they would not help. They agreed to read some form of essay I will write to show the benefits of looks (I will use studies on human biology and statistics), but maybe they will be overwhelmed by the truth and reject it without consideration. What do you think the best way of convincing them would be?
 
get a job, nigga
 
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get a job, nigga
I'm taking a gap year after highschool. Will be wageslaving 1.5 years but it won't cover the costs unless I take 2 years off before university
 
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I'm taking a gap year after highschool. Will be wageslaving 1.5 years but it won't cover the costs unless I take 2 years off before university
What surgeries you need?
 
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What surgeries you need?
Right now confirmed surgeries are canthoplasty+blepharoplasty. Main things I would like to do is get a better jaw and improve eye area specifically to white pass more (form an upper eyelid) since I'm hapa. Also want PCT and potential rhino as well
 

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Right now confirmed surgeries are canthoplasty+blepharoplasty. Main things I would like to do is get a better jaw and improve eye area specifically to white pass more (form an upper eyelid) since I'm hapa. Also want PCT and potential rhino as well
EU or 'murica? if you're below 18 and are from the EU go to a psychiatrist and cry about your insecurities because your looks. insurance will pay a big part of your surgery
 
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EU or 'murica? if you're below 18 and are from the EU go to a psychiatrist and cry about your insecurities because your looks. insurance will pay a big part of your surgery
Live in New Zealand. I will check if this is an option though thanks
 
show them pictures of male models mogging the average person.

also talk about how your depressed and shit because of your eyes.

If they keep refusing, I would just wait until you get a job and wagecuck for it.
 
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I've already mentioned surgery and they've told me they would not help. They agreed to read some form of essay I will write to show the benefits of looks (I will use studies on human biology and statistics), but maybe they will be overwhelmed by the truth and reject it without consideration. What do you think the best way of convincing them would be?
Download tinder with chad vs you :dafuckfeels:
 
Tell your parents that you will kill yourself if they dont pay for your surgeries
 
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@Matthias8272 PM pics I'll tell you if you need surgery, I won't post them
 
@Matthias8272 PM pics I'll tell you if you need surgery, I won't post them
I already posted pics on this thread. I'm currently NEET with basically no friends so nothing to lose tbhngl
 
are you gonna do stuff about your hair? get a red tinted lip balm, I know someone at my school with ur pheno but lighter hair and acne and he still slays. It's not over imo
 
are you gonna do stuff about your hair? get a red tinted lip balm, I know someone at my school with ur pheno but lighter hair and acne and he still slays. It's not over imo
I think it's over unless I get surgeries. The picture was a joke about something higgabigga said about blackmaxxing, my hair doesn't usually look like that I had just been in the rain. That's the best recent picture I have of me though because I have had insomnia lately so looksmined. Also when I went to school it was made up of white people who were all over 6foot. I'm 5'11 but still get height mogged easily and they pheno mog me as well so no chance
 
I'm taking a gap year after highschool. Will be wageslaving 1.5 years but it won't cover the costs unless I take 2 years off before university
Tell them they either pay for it or you will be 2 years late to uni, which is totally fine, since 2 years of working will improve you greatly to excell at your studies.
You sound like a whimp, what a fagget asking mom for surgery like a kikess asking for a nosejob for her 16th birthday.
 
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EU or 'murica? if you're below 18 and are from the EU go to a psychiatrist and cry about your insecurities because your looks. insurance will pay a big part of your surgery
Maybe add a suicide attempt to make it more plausible, cut horizontally not longitudinally.
 
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Maybe add a suicide attempt to make it more plausible, cut horizontally not longitudinally.
that's a really thin line to walk.

i think if you mention suicide they'll send you to a mental hospital against your will and if you say it is about getting girls they'll just make you take more sessions to develop your confidence, since that's all it takes to get girls in their mind :lul:

if you to put the focus on yourself, and not some outside validation while not coming off as suicidal you have good chances of them covering some or all of it
 
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that's a really thin line to walk.

i think if you mention suicide they'll send you to a mental hospital against your will and if you say it is about getting girls they'll just make you take more sessions to develop your confidence, since that's all it takes to get girls in their mind :lul:

if you to put the focus on yourself, and not some outside validation while not coming off as suicidal you have good chances of them covering some or all of it
I have no clue, just brainstorming.
 
Tell them they either pay for it or you will be 2 years late to uni, which is totally fine, since 2 years of working will improve you greatly to excell at your studies.
You sound like a whimp, what a fagget asking mom for surgery like a kikess asking for a nosejob for her 16th birthday.
If I take 2 years off my already poor social kills will become even worse, I will also be 20 surrounded by 17-18 year olds. I really couldn't care less about how I sound, become chad or die. I don't want to be in the age range where going into first year university feels out of place
 
If I take 2 years off my already poor social kills will become even worse, I will also be 20 surrounded by 17-18 year olds. I really couldn't care less about how I sound, become chad or die. I don't want to be in the age range where going into first year university feels out of place
18-20 years is pretty much the same. You can get some social skills at your job, get a job that needs dealing with people.
 
Tell them you will become a massive drug dealer if they dont give you the money
 
Right now confirmed surgeries are canthoplasty+blepharoplasty. Main things I would like to do is get a better jaw and improve eye area specifically to white pass more (form an upper eyelid) since I'm hapa. Also want PCT and potential rhino as well
Lmao @ considering surgery before getting rid of that shit haircut and moustache
 
Tell them you will become a massive drug dealer if they dont give you the money
Decent advice, my brother is a drug dealer with weed (illegal where im from so can charge rape easier) and makes quite a bit. Unfortunately not thugmaxxed and have no connections
 
Lmao @ considering surgery before getting rid of that shit haircut and moustache
On r/incelselfie higgabigga was posting videos about blackmaxxing. After walking in the rain I took a photo and posted it saying that my hair was like a black persons hair when it was frizzy and I was a tyrone because of it. It was satire.
 
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I don't recommend trying to write an essay, you can't logic your way into this and that will just sound alarm bells for your parents. Just tell them that your looks are affecting your confidence, and you would like it if they would help. If they say no, don't push it (one google search for "young men obsessed with their looks to get girls" and it is over).

I recommend getting a job ASAP (while still in high school) and living with your parents. That is one way to indirectly have them pay for the surgery. You can also get a loan, try to cover it with insurance (or free health care).

As for surgeries your top priority should unironically be rhino and doing something about that overprojected browbone (maybe putting the eyelashes together). That is your biggest flaw imo.
 
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Decent advice, my brother is a drug dealer with weed (illegal where im from so can charge rape easier) and makes quite a bit. Unfortunately not thugmaxxed and have no connections
Just talk to your brother, tell him you wanna get in the game
 
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I don't recommend trying to write an essay, you can't logic your way into this and that will just sound alarm bells for your parents. Just tell them that your looks are affecting your confidence, and you would like it if they would help. If they say no, don't push it (one google search for "young men obsessed with their looks to get girls" and it is over).

I recommend getting a job ASAP (while still in high school) and living with your parents. That is one way to indirectly have them pay for the surgery. You can also get a loan, try to cover it with insurance (or free health care).

As for surgeries your top priority should unironically be rhino and doing something about that overprojected browbone (maybe putting the eyelashes together). That is your biggest flaw imo.
Eye area is biggest flaw tbh. Also both of those things feminize the face, would need to have jaw sugery/increase T traits to not look like a tranny
 
Eye area is biggest flaw tbh. Also both of those things feminize the face, would need to have jaw sugery/increase T traits to not look like a tranny
You won't look transsexual with a browridge reduction because of how extremely prominent it is. You don't want it completely gone, just reduced to average male levels.

The other option is to try to bring your eyebrows closer together to mask the browridge, the way they are currently shaped makes you appear permanently angry. I think eyebrow transplant or brow pencil could do this.
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But I am not an expert tbh. Regardless of what you want to prioritize, get the money first lol. That's what I am doing.

is the distance between eye and eyebrow because of monolid? If so then yes it is your biggest flaw.
 

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