
User28823
do not go gentle into that good night
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Hi,
I’m not a regular here, obviously, but I found this forum through my boyfriend. He’s been spending a lot of time on here lately and… I’m not trying to be mean, but some of the stuff he’s said recently is getting weird.
Like, the other day he asked me if I “mog” my exes. I thought he was joking but he was dead serious. Then he said I have “hunter eyes” like it was a compliment. I had no idea how to respond.
He’s also suddenly obsessed with his jawline and keeps taking pictures of himself in the bathroom from “ideal lighting angles.” I swear he’s taken more selfies in the last week than I’ve taken in our entire relationship.
Last night, he was doomscrolling in bed and muttered “browridge maxxing isn’t even possible naturally” like it was a real crisis. I asked what he was reading and he just said “research.”
He used to be pretty confident, but now he constantly talks about his “midface ratio” and how he would’ve been hot if he had better “bone structure.” I literally think he’s attractive but he brushes it off like I’m just coping.
He even started skipping gym days because apparently “it’s all in the face anyway.”
I don’t know if this is just a phase, but it’s honestly kind of messing with his self-esteem and I don’t know how to help. Just wanted to know — is this normal for people on here? Has anyone actually gone through this and come out of it okay?
(Also what the hell is a “subhuman”? Because he called himself that and I swear he was serious.)
Thanks.