Ask for reassurance or don’t look “insecure”?

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calmingnotion357

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I’ve gotten serious w a girl and i trust her for the most part, but there’s a few times she’ll tell a story or mention something and I’ll start to overthink. I feel like there’s a tradeoff when asking for reassurance in a relationship. On one hand, you get more comfort and an explanation for your overthinking. On the other hand, you come off as insecure and needy which makes her less attracted to you which eventually manifests your overthinking into reality. Which one do yall think is more worth it or is there an in between? I hate this shit
 

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