Asked out and got rejected by 5 females this year.

[Ken]

My new years resolution for 2021 was to kiss a girl. It has been my new years resolution for as long as I can remember but I was serious about this time. I asked out 2 girls at the start of the year and went on 2 dates but got friend zoned both times. I lost all hope until December when I decided to try again. I didn't want to be a kissless virgin another year. I cold approached a female and had a decent interaction but when I asked to see her again I got ghosted. I was leaving my part-time job so I decided to ask out 2 female co-workers, one ghosted me and the other made excuses. You cant consider yourself a truecel until you try.

2 of the females were stacey-lite and the other 3 were average looking.

 

[Vermilioncore]

that’s why we must give up and die

 

[Matthias8272]

 

[NotoriousLoser]

have never spoken to a woman, yesterday was looked at by many women in the shopping center but don't know how to interpret the looks. I'm mega shy man

 

[Gonthar]

There are guys who go out and approach 5-10 or even more girls every single day!
Keep trying, if you still get rejected, modify your approach, lower your standards, see what works and what doesn't.

 

[Ken]

There are guys who go out and approach 5-10 or even more girls every single day!
Keep trying, if you still get rejected, modify your approach, lower your standards, see what works and what doesn't.

In 2022 I will start cold approaching more. The one female I did cold approach was the least attractive of the 5. She had a cute face but was very overweight. I would rate her a 4/10. At worst she is my looksmatch. It was not as bad as I thought it would be, she was extremely friendly and was even touching my arm.

 

[Ken]

have never spoken to a woman, yesterday was looked at by many women in the shopping center but don't know how to interpret the looks. I'm mega shy man

Start slow. Try talking to males or old people first.

 

[gamma]

Rookie numbers

 

[NotoriousLoser]

Start slow. Try talking to males or old people first.

I have no problems with my own kind or with older people, even older women. only in girls of the same age (20-25) does my brain fail and i get super nervous. Chad has been used to communicating with beautiful women since childhood, whereas I am not used to it. I therefore lack any experience. For Chad, talking to beautiful women is like talking to your best friend, relatively relaxed and cool, without any nervousness, always with a cool joke on his lips.

 

[Ken]

Rookie numbers

It hurts. All of these girls would act very friendly irl. They would all be asking me questions and talking non-stop in person. Next time ill try asking girls out in person.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

My new years resolution for 2021 was to kiss a girl. It has been my new years resolution for as long as I can remember but I was serious about this time. I asked out 2 girls at the start of the year and went on 2 dates but got friend zoned both times. I lost all hope until December when I decided to try again. I didn't want to be a kissless virgin another year. I cold approached a female and had a decent interaction but when I asked to see her again I got ghosted. I was leaving my part-time job so I decided to ask out 2 female co-workers, one ghosted me and the other made excuses. You cant consider yourself a truecel until you try.

2 of the females were stacey-lite and the other 3 were average looking.

Approached 0 and rejected 0

 

[thereallegend]

lower your standards

Everyone is “serious” about losing their V card until the local landwhales and grannies want them.

 

[Jamal2222]

Up your volume 100/month instead

 

[Deleted member 16221]

Don't ask for formal dates fuck that nigga. You have to main the ur intentions known early, like inviting them round for a horror movie where they have to cuddle you when they get scared is a classic. Obvious intentions

2022 ive decided to slaymaxx

Already 4 kisses, 2 slays.

 

[Ken]

Don't ask for formal dates fuck that nigga. You have to main the ur intentions known early, like inviting them round for a horror movie where they have to cuddle you when they get scared is a classic. Obvious intentions

2022 ive decided to slaymaxx

Already 4 kisses, 2 slays.

What about asking a girl if she wants to get coffee or drinks?

I asked 3 of these girls if they wanted to hangout. 2 I asked if they wanted to get fast-food.

 

[NotoriousLoser]

i think u need to get blackpilled dude, u r completely delusional with your self-awareness. a maher can do something you did, but not you. did you even get any signs of interest from the women you approached?

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Younger females are being taught and encouraged to rely on themselves for intimate pleasure. And if she must have a male to please her, select one without commitment. Therefore, you probably come off as sticky - needy - one that won't leave her the fuck alone. Do you understand?

 

[Deleted member 16221]

What about asking a girl if she wants to get coffee or drinks?

I asked 3 of these girls if they wanted to hangout. 2 I asked if they wanted to get fast-food.

idk how old you are tbf. But again unless ur like 30, its kinda just simp behaviour

Movie at urs, you have them in ur bed at the very start of the date. Show intention faggot

 

[Deleted member 16134]

Nahh brah you godda dumbster dive and approach 100x more

 

[Ken]

i think u need to get blackpilled dude, u r completely delusional with your self-awareness. a maher can do something you did, but not you. did you even get any signs of interest from the women you approached?

3 of them touched my arm and laughed at everything I said. All 5 asked me a lot of questions and seem to be engaged in the conversation.

 

[Ken]

idk how old you are tbf. But again unless ur like 30, its kinda just simp behaviour

Movie at urs, you have them in ur bed at the very start of the date. Show intention faggot

I still live with my parents. I would have to bang in my car or there place. Ill be an oldcel by the time I can afford to move out.

 

[Ken]

Younger females are being taught and encouraged to rely on themselves for intimate pleasure. And if she must have a male to please her, select one without commitment. Therefore, you probably come off as sticky - needy - one that won't leave her the fuck alone. Do you understand?

You're right. I think thats what killed my chances with the first two especially. I would text them almost daily.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

You're right. I think thats what killed my chances with the first two especially. I would text them almost daily.

Yeah, that's the problem. And sleeping in your car parked outside her home every night might also be seen as clingy.