Discussion Aspie Trait - Can’t dance at parties

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Dancing at parties/nightclubs seems/feels/looks awkward as fuck.

When I go to parties I try to just play drinking games and talk

When I go to clubs I just sit at the bar or in the lounge area

At the prom 5 years ago everyone was dancing except a very few other aspies like me sitting down. Brutal realization.
 
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Edit: I can remember one time in my life when dancing felt natural and I wasn’t self conscious. It was when I did ecstasy/molly. RIP.
 
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I don' have a sense of rhythm and look like I have epilepsy when I try to dance
 
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That's why is better to take dance lessons, or at least train at home, dance and film yourself to see how you look dancing.

That’s contrsutive advice thank you.

I think putting on more mass will make me look less akward as well since I am tall.

I just look and feel very clumsy.
 
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That's not that hard tbh.
Just move, it's not like other people know how to dance, nor do they care how you dance

That’s what I try to tell myself but they do. Because it doesn’t seem like something I would do it catches everyone’s attention

Like if an old person danced
 
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That’s what I try to tell myself but they do. Because it doesn’t seem like something I would do it catches everyone’s attention

Like if an old person danced
You're overthinking it.
You don't need to be doing fancy moves, just swing around
 
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Dancing at parties/nightclubs seems/feels/looks awkward as fuck.

When I go to parties I try to just play drinking games and talk

When I go to clubs I just sit at the bar or in the lounge area

At the prom 5 years ago everyone was dancing except a very few other aspies like me sitting down. Brutal realization.
Dancing is BLUE PILL trait....only low iq people think if they dance that they will get laid....Only dance that chad is doing is doggie style with 2 females
 
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Dancing is legit. Makes you look nt so some slut starts grinding on you
 
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Dancing is legit. Makes you look nt so some slut starts grinding on you

I agree it’s nt like I said every chad and Stacy at the prom danced and came off as natural.

And sometimes girls will grab me by the hands and drag me onto the dance floor and then I have no choice
 
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How can you even go to prom unless you dance?
 

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