At which age do you want to settle down?

[Deleted member 2381]

I'm afraid of a bad marriage and divorce (I see a lot of bad marriages around me, divorce is not the only bad thing). If you have a LTR, you can always leave, a divorce is more brutal. Therefore, I would wait as long as possible to get married.

I think marrying with 45 has upsides, but if the worst thing happens and you get divorced with 55, it's not as bad as if you married with 30 and get divorced with 40. If you have a messy divorce with 40, the rest of your life is fucked up. With 55, you should have enough copes and good memories from before the divorce.

Why even get married?

There are literally no benefits compared to the risk

 

[AlexAP]

Why even get married?

There are literally no benefits compared to the risk

The risks aren't that high, in Germany the divorce laws aren't that bad, and the benefits are high if you want to have a family.

You never want to have a family I guess?

 

[Deleted member 23115]

@Manletmachine u have nearly 10k posts in a year and all u do is drink alcohol and work how ironic

 

[Deleted member 23115]

you know nothing about that tho

Getting a job this year and im doing uni but ok. Ive never had to earn money because my parents are pretty well off. i will this year though.

 

[Deleted member 25059]

Getting a job this year and im doing uni but ok. Ive never had to earn money because my parents are pretty well off. i will this year though.

is this the upcoming frozen 3?

 

[Deleted member 23115]

is this the upcoming frozen 3?

why do you keep playing these games

 

[Deleted member 25059]

why do you keep playing these games

when I left you I was the learner, but now I am the master.