SauulGoodmanFR
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I believe that I have a chance of about 80-90% of losing my virginity before the end of law school, around 70% by the end of the second year, and around 40-50% by the end of this academic year. These numbers are based on the fact that I started to go to the gym 4 times per week, started gaining confidence, stopped my "white knight" and "nice guy" way of acting, and started improving my appearance in general.
However, my personality is a personality of a planner. I love to plan my life 5,10,15 years in advance. When I'm planning, I'm always considering every single possible outcome. Therefore, a plan needs also to be made for the hypothesis in which I remain virgin even after college. Considering that it's much more difficult to lose your virginity after college, also considering that my motivation to improve my looks will decline because of the "loser" stigma associated with being a virgin at 24, also considering that a lawyer works VERY long weeks, it is evident that once I remain virgin after graduating, I will have much more difficulties losing my virginity after graduating. Therefore, I should be able to sooner or later accept the reality which would arise in this hypothesis, the reality that I, in fact, will perhaps not experience any romantic relationship.
The question, is however, when to put the line, when to accept this reality, the reality of being a virgin for life, and focus on other things taking into account the aforementioned fact? (If this hypothesis comes true, I hope not, but a plan needs to be done for it in any case)
Edit to clarify any possible misunderstandings: I obviously don't consider suicide in this hypothesis, I consider, for example to either buy an android sex robot if I remain a virgin(by late 2020s they should be developed I think and lawyers have high salary), or go to the Army(you will train so hard that you won't have the time to think about women). Other variants of life can be considered too(There are a lot of things you can do to try to find a purpose and live a life when you're 24 and virgin). The word "it's over" is defined as it's over with romantic relationships, and I will never find a girlfriend, it doesn't means that the life is over.
However, my personality is a personality of a planner. I love to plan my life 5,10,15 years in advance. When I'm planning, I'm always considering every single possible outcome. Therefore, a plan needs also to be made for the hypothesis in which I remain virgin even after college. Considering that it's much more difficult to lose your virginity after college, also considering that my motivation to improve my looks will decline because of the "loser" stigma associated with being a virgin at 24, also considering that a lawyer works VERY long weeks, it is evident that once I remain virgin after graduating, I will have much more difficulties losing my virginity after graduating. Therefore, I should be able to sooner or later accept the reality which would arise in this hypothesis, the reality that I, in fact, will perhaps not experience any romantic relationship.
The question, is however, when to put the line, when to accept this reality, the reality of being a virgin for life, and focus on other things taking into account the aforementioned fact? (If this hypothesis comes true, I hope not, but a plan needs to be done for it in any case)
Edit to clarify any possible misunderstandings: I obviously don't consider suicide in this hypothesis, I consider, for example to either buy an android sex robot if I remain a virgin(by late 2020s they should be developed I think and lawyers have high salary), or go to the Army(you will train so hard that you won't have the time to think about women). Other variants of life can be considered too(There are a lot of things you can do to try to find a purpose and live a life when you're 24 and virgin). The word "it's over" is defined as it's over with romantic relationships, and I will never find a girlfriend, it doesn't means that the life is over.
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