Autistic in school

[OSACMAN123456]

I am autistic. Anyways i look good, i get complements everyday for it, everyone in the year is my freind. I am popular and can hang out with anyone i want, and am invited to lots of parties. I have no close freinds though. I know lots of girls who have a crush on me too, lots of girls try and talk to me. But i am scared of girls and avoid them. Never had a girlfreind. I dont mask my autism at all. Its over for me, i will never have close freinds or a girlfreind, u can fix your looks but not the fact ur fucking autistic, whyyyyy, I couuld have had suCHHH a good fucking life if it wasnt for me being autistic.

 

[wedzio]

sad

 

[chud10282892]

meanwhile some guy on here is 30 years old and ugly as shit and nothing would work for him and hes also high inhib

dude you don’t have that much problems if u look good u dont have to do much

 

[dogpound]

I am autistic. Anyways i look good, i get complements everyday for it, everyone in the year is my freind. I am popular and can hang out with anyone i want, and am invited to lots of parties. I have no close freinds though. I know lots of girls who have a crush on me too, lots of girls try and talk to me. But i am scared of girls and avoid them. Never had a girlfreind. I dont mask my autism at all. Its over for me, i will never have close freinds or a girlfreind, u can fix your looks but not the fact ur fucking autistic, whyyyyy, I couuld have had suCHHH a good fucking life if it wasnt for me being autistic.

Autistic oh no Want a cookie?

 

[LTNhell63]

Autistic oh no Want a cookie?

you're mean

 

[wedzio]

Autistic oh no Want a cookie?

fuck you

 

[OSACMAN123456]

Autistic oh no Want a cookie?

no, i was just saying. things couldve been so much better. you are very lucky to be nt.

 

[dogpound]

no, i was just saying. things couldve been so much better. you are very lucky to be nt.

Yea “luck” rofl life’s a gamble you landed on red your gonna be a loser forever

 

[OSACMAN123456]

meanwhile some guy on here is 30 years old and ugly as shit and nothing would work for him and hes also high inhib

dude you don’t have that much problems if u look good u dont have to do much

atleast ugly people have freinds to hang out with in highschool, i dont.

 

[Went2Jupiter]

I am autistic. Anyways i look good, i get complements everyday for it, everyone in the year is my freind. I am popular and can hang out with anyone i want, and am invited to lots of parties. I have no close freinds though. I know lots of girls who have a crush on me too, lots of girls try and talk to me. But i am scared of girls and avoid them. Never had a girlfreind. I dont mask my autism at all. Its over for me, i will never have close freinds or a girlfreind, u can fix your looks but not the fact ur fucking autistic, whyyyyy, I couuld have had suCHHH a good fucking life if it wasnt for me being autistic.

Be grateful, i’m autistic only slightly above average looks and have no friends and 0 social status

 

[fantom0726]

I am autistic. Anyways i look good, i get complements everyday for it, everyone in the year is my freind. I am popular and can hang out with anyone i want, and am invited to lots of parties. I have no close freinds though. I know lots of girls who have a crush on me too, lots of girls try and talk to me. But i am scared of girls and avoid them. Never had a girlfreind. I dont mask my autism at all. Its over for me, i will never have close freinds or a girlfreind, u can fix your looks but not the fact ur fucking autistic, whyyyyy, I couuld have had suCHHH a good fucking life if it wasnt for me being autistic.

im an aspergers lmtn, no irl friends and never talked to a girl ever in my life at 17

 

[OSACMAN123456]

Be grateful, i’m autistic only slightly above average looks and have no friends and 0 social status

it doesnt really matter though all this, i have no meaningful connections. at home i have nothing to do either. while my others in school even are at others houses having fun, im fkn here. how can i be grateful.

 

[Went2Jupiter]

it doesnt really matter though all this, i have no meaningful connections. at home i have nothing to do either. while my others in school even are at others houses having fun, im fkn here. how can i be grateful.

I have no meaning in life either. Unless you are religious life has no purpose other than temporary values. Connections cannot be meaningful fore nothing has meaning. Either cheer up and cope or get deeep into self reflection channeling how little meaning there is to artificially create meaning in your life

 

[CheezyPoof]

In school girls didn’t hate me I got along with them well. Yes with the pretty ones I would get shy or a bit awkward but in the end it was alright. However they didn’t have a romantic interest in me or crushes or whatever but it was nice they would be cool with me, with guys it was a bit more difficult you have to not show weakness and sometimes get angry or they can bully you. But also because the girls were cool with me usually the guys didn’t bother me either I guess they saw I was no competition for them with the girls + maybe they thought the girls wouldn’t like them if they would give me a hard time so I think I got pretty lucky with that. Maybe sometimes people would think I was gay idk but w/e at least in didn’t have much issues. I think the most important thing is don’t be creepy then they will be instantly repulsed by you. So a bit awkward is ok just don’t be creepy.


Another thing is this: the girls could be real bitches with each other like gossip all the time but usually they don’t do that with guys at all like it’s only a thing they do so each other. Most of the time I would not even understand what all their drama was about, it would change every week and I didn’t get it, but I would notice it would happen like the dynamics would change, and suddenly some of them would ignore each other, probably someone stole their bf or some shit idk. But I never had issues with it cause I’m a guy

 

[donald joe]

Ngl this is cope I had a autistic friend who even got sent to a autistic school yet he was popular everyone liked him no one really gave a shit like charisma maxxing in school or just being urself is the only true cope method after u leave school ur looks matter more

I am autistic. Anyways i look good, i get complements everyday for it, everyone in the year is my freind. I am popular and can hang out with anyone i want, and am invited to lots of parties. I have no close freinds though. I know lots of girls who have a crush on me too, lots of girls try and talk to me. But i am scared of girls and avoid them. Never had a girlfreind. I dont mask my autism at all. Its over for me, i will never have close freinds or a girlfreind, u can fix your looks but not the fact ur fucking autistic, whyyyyy, I couuld have had suCHHH a good fucking life if it wasnt for me being autistic.

 

[AutistKhan]

Oh nooo I cant hang around normies my life is over I wanna be a loser like them I wanna become a wageslave

 

[AutistKhan]

Please normie I will appeal to you guys please accept me into your group so I can talk about your braindead niggerish hobbies and hang around u and talk about footballl pleaaase I wanna get accepted

 

[Sycophant]

I am autistic. Anyways i look good, i get complements everyday for it, everyone in the year is my freind. I am popular and can hang out with anyone i want, and am invited to lots of parties.

- Youre already in a more advantageous position than most of the population here. Please consider, and potentually follow up with why you think you're being invited to these parties - as it may be a result of others exploiting you to some capacity.

I have no close freinds though. I know lots of girls who have a crush on me too, lots of girls try and talk to me.

- Long term "associations", either friends or romantic partnerships can be exhausting if you lack personality. I would suggest, develop a sense of self first, before you seek connections elsewhere. People who haven't developed a personality are extremely susceptible to personality malleability - and will often conform to those they associate with, and return to their previous state when distanced from those who originally sculpt them.

- Acknowledge how you are likely to conform to people you associate with, choose friends wisely - become a better person.

But i am scared of girls and avoid them.

- Something I can understand, especially from a younger outlook. My genuine advice is to supersede this overwhelming fear of women by cat-fishing them on dating apps - and just experience setting up dates you will never attend. I suggest this because frauding as a model tier man alleviates the previously conceived notion of anxiety - you have significantly more lenience in you vocabulary as a highly attractive male, and can workshop a projection of your own personality that can be taken away after you establish some confidence.

- Obviously im assuming youre younger, so dont actually attend any dates - just set them up, and learn the nuances of talking to women.

Never had a girlfreind. I dont mask my autism at all.

- A frequently observed pattern in people in a similar situation as yourself - the acknowledgment, but inaction of potential neurodivergent diagnosis.

- Being ND is far from an identity you want to associate with, and consequently should be held at upmost priority to conceal to maximum ability. ND is a social hindrance, where actions and long term relationships are harder to maintain simply due to behaviors and attitudes that could otherwise be subverted.

Its over for me, i will never have close freinds or a girlfreind, u can fix your looks but not the fact ur fucking autistic, whyyyyy, I couuld have had suCHHH a good fucking life if it wasnt for me being autistic.

- I disagree entirely, and I myself should serve as an example of someone who previously subscribed to the ND identity - and has since recovered.

My personal accolades :

Spoiler: life story

https://looksmax.org/threads/i-feel-like-im-procrastinating-life-itself-my-best-years-at-that.1989600/post-27696369

- TLDR, I spent a substantial amount of my time online, didn't associate or talk to anyone irl for a significant portion of my younger teen years - and was never invited to events outside of school. Since then, ive grown - learn to speak to people and deal with retarded people.

- I personally fixed my ND by forcing myself to be social, every day I was forced to communicate with people - almost pressure molding a likeable personality that could sympathise/be sympathetic towards. For yourself - I offer the same advice that I have to everyone, just be more social - to those receptive to socialization. Every day, make an effort to talk to a new person who you otherwise haven't spoken to in your life thus far. Social nuance cannot be taught in theory its developed in practical situations. As much as you can learn the rules, it will require some application in real life.

- Please refer to the below thought piece on mental posture (contains guides on becoming NT).

https://looksmax.org/threads/mental-posture-comprehensive-guide-to-understanding-yourself-others-and-their-effect-on-you.2284322/

@Askinov @180 @Hernan @tansel @La Vita

 

[FinKets]

I am autistic. Anyways i look good, i get complements everyday for it, everyone in the year is my freind. I am popular and can hang out with anyone i want, and am invited to lots of parties. I have no close freinds though. I know lots of girls who have a crush on me too, lots of girls try and talk to me. But i am scared of girls and avoid them. Never had a girlfreind. I dont mask my autism at all. Its over for me, i will never have close freinds or a girlfreind, u can fix your looks but not the fact ur fucking autistic, whyyyyy, I couuld have had suCHHH a good fucking life if it wasnt for me being autistic.

atleast you have some people around u tho