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This is another thread in my becoming 1 of 1 series aka not determining your value based on something where you can be trumped by a bigger mogger rocking up
Despite what my own opinion may be of my appearance, for all I know, the average foid on the street may look at me and not see anything attractive about me based just off my appearance unless I'm their specific type which I'm coming to believe is far more rare than I'd have liked to think
The modern dating market and online dating has given foids the opportunity to just hold out for a guy who's face meets their exact type that appeals to them and because my face is in some regards weird / unusual looking, there is a good chance that very few girls seek a guy who looks like me when chasing their type.
I have a lack of upper maxillary projection but also have an anteface with a projected chin, I checked my side profile in a changing room mirror recently and despite having masculine traits in terms of mandible definition and chin projection I do just look a bit out of the ordinary.
There was some study saying that faces in the average range can get rated very highly by some people and not highly at all by others just based on the individuals personal preference meaning sub Chadlites who aren't objectively attractive have a shot but its simply based on waiting for a foid who finds your face appealing to come along and express interest.
I've only had it happen a few times where a girl has matched with me on a dating app and told me that I was her type due to my face first and foremost as opposed to my overall archetype of height and gymcel.
Without status, I will never again have the slaying success that I had from a club where the clientelle were foids with the same upbringing as me meaning my pheno was relateable to them and to some girls I may have looked like their ex or a male relative of theirs.
My old tinder strategy of swiping right on every foid then batch messaging every foid (even if I was barely attracted to them) asking for a drinks meetup worked like a charm for dumpster diving because no foid who was keen to fuck got excluded using this method
When I became more selective and only swiped right on girls I would see as a FWB or LTR I only got matches that satisfied my ego but they all led nowhere because I had disqualified the LTBs and MTBs who had no real appeal to me that wouldve given me an easy fuck
If you're in the normie range, you are really just waiting for a woman to pick you because your face specificlly appeals to her regardless of its objective rating
When you try to go for the girls you specifically find appealing using methods where the girls are unfamiliar to you, the chances of you finding a girl outside of your archetype who also finds your face appealing enough to give you a chance is astronomically low in my opinion
I love high sex appeal face foids and spoke to one on the previous weekend when she was in front of me in the club but she quickly moved away so on the recent weekend when I seen a similar high sex appeal girl in the club who looked like she had good energy and had looked at me long enough to recognize I exist, I choose not to approach her because I assumed there was a 1/10000 chance she would find my face appealing enough for her taste to offset my lack of behavioural appeal.
Why I'm bringing up this blackpill that the chances of finding a girl Im attracted to who also finds my face attractive is giga low, is because it's the blackpill that will liberate me and release me from my ego and realize that no girl out there actually finds me attractive or considers me to be her type except for the occasional LTB/MTB I could only come into contact with via dating apps which I never want to use again.
For me to slay a foid im actually attracted to again, Im going into it fighting a losing battle since my face alone isnt enough for them to be attracted to me so I basically have to run extreme numbers game on foids I find attractive in the hopes I catch one on a day where they are up for fucking a guy they usually wouldnt out of curiosity
this will liberate me from obsessing over looks since I now know my looks will never be good enough to a get a girl that I want
I will have to compensate by running luck game and numbers game until I can status max
Despite what my own opinion may be of my appearance, for all I know, the average foid on the street may look at me and not see anything attractive about me based just off my appearance unless I'm their specific type which I'm coming to believe is far more rare than I'd have liked to think
The modern dating market and online dating has given foids the opportunity to just hold out for a guy who's face meets their exact type that appeals to them and because my face is in some regards weird / unusual looking, there is a good chance that very few girls seek a guy who looks like me when chasing their type.
I have a lack of upper maxillary projection but also have an anteface with a projected chin, I checked my side profile in a changing room mirror recently and despite having masculine traits in terms of mandible definition and chin projection I do just look a bit out of the ordinary.
There was some study saying that faces in the average range can get rated very highly by some people and not highly at all by others just based on the individuals personal preference meaning sub Chadlites who aren't objectively attractive have a shot but its simply based on waiting for a foid who finds your face appealing to come along and express interest.
I've only had it happen a few times where a girl has matched with me on a dating app and told me that I was her type due to my face first and foremost as opposed to my overall archetype of height and gymcel.
Without status, I will never again have the slaying success that I had from a club where the clientelle were foids with the same upbringing as me meaning my pheno was relateable to them and to some girls I may have looked like their ex or a male relative of theirs.
My old tinder strategy of swiping right on every foid then batch messaging every foid (even if I was barely attracted to them) asking for a drinks meetup worked like a charm for dumpster diving because no foid who was keen to fuck got excluded using this method
When I became more selective and only swiped right on girls I would see as a FWB or LTR I only got matches that satisfied my ego but they all led nowhere because I had disqualified the LTBs and MTBs who had no real appeal to me that wouldve given me an easy fuck
If you're in the normie range, you are really just waiting for a woman to pick you because your face specificlly appeals to her regardless of its objective rating
When you try to go for the girls you specifically find appealing using methods where the girls are unfamiliar to you, the chances of you finding a girl outside of your archetype who also finds your face appealing enough to give you a chance is astronomically low in my opinion
I love high sex appeal face foids and spoke to one on the previous weekend when she was in front of me in the club but she quickly moved away so on the recent weekend when I seen a similar high sex appeal girl in the club who looked like she had good energy and had looked at me long enough to recognize I exist, I choose not to approach her because I assumed there was a 1/10000 chance she would find my face appealing enough for her taste to offset my lack of behavioural appeal.
Why I'm bringing up this blackpill that the chances of finding a girl Im attracted to who also finds my face attractive is giga low, is because it's the blackpill that will liberate me and release me from my ego and realize that no girl out there actually finds me attractive or considers me to be her type except for the occasional LTB/MTB I could only come into contact with via dating apps which I never want to use again.
For me to slay a foid im actually attracted to again, Im going into it fighting a losing battle since my face alone isnt enough for them to be attracted to me so I basically have to run extreme numbers game on foids I find attractive in the hopes I catch one on a day where they are up for fucking a guy they usually wouldnt out of curiosity
this will liberate me from obsessing over looks since I now know my looks will never be good enough to a get a girl that I want
I will have to compensate by running luck game and numbers game until I can status max
