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I had a two-hour-long voice call with some of my IRL friends straight after work (one Pakistani, one Arab, two Black) and they wanted to find out more about the girl I'm in a relationship with. Turns out that all of them don't seem to like her at all.
TLDR: Been on a phone call with 4 male friends (all ethnic, 22-25) and they believe my GF has a body count of 30 and is a manipulative liar.
- They, just like my father, believe her body count is much higher than 1. One of the black guys on the call believes it could be as high as 30+.
- One black guy (Jamaican) said at first, she boldly approached me at first (with such sexual confidence) and started being so open because she perceived me as white. As soon as time went on and she found out that I was an Arab Muslim, she started playing "good girl" image so that I can keep her.
- The Pakistani guy also made a point about taking her to my home so soon. She asked me to take her to her home a few times but to tell my parents she was a female friend and not my girlfriend. It was after about 5 visits, my parents sat me down and already my father disapproves of my relationship with her. However, my mother thinks I should carry on with her. He believes she is doing this because she wants approval from my parents so that I can keep her as an LTR girlfriend.
- The other black guy (Nigerian) said that she definitely does not have a body count of 1 because of how kinky she was towards me. I detailed her sexual experiences with her previous boyfriend (they asked me about it) and he told me she was likely "abused" and "tortured" during sex and when she wanted to be dominant with him, he refused and wants to practice dominance on me after she split up.
- Said black guy actually knows who she is, from one of his friends (a white male). He claims that she absolutely slutted it up at uni and did not just have one boyfriend, but plenty of lays and can't remember the exact number, every single one of them was from white men. She was pumped and dumped relentlessly by those same men. He said she is also a white worshipper and is actually irreligious from a single-parent household (lives with one white parent) and not the good Muslim girl she claims to be. Also, he said this is why she can get away with cutting her hair so short, was a far-leftist at Uni (she now claims to be slightly conservative), and took part in many feminist debates.
- The Arab guy (Syrian) said this girl seems manipulative and a liar and that I should sit her down and talk about it. If she doesn't want to change and admit to her lies, I should dump her and stay single, but don't go around having sex with random women (which is what I won't be doing anyway.)
- Jamaican guy also said that I should avoid driving with her in the car because she'd want to have sex in the car with me and my emotional attachment (as a highly sensitive person myself) to her would increase. He said this girl isn't LTR material at all.
- She initiates sex every time, and she is dominant about 80% of the time. She doesn't like to make eye contact with me and often bites me hard/spanks me/chokes me during sex, which is exactly what her ex did to her. The four guys believe if I continue to accept this sort of sex from her, I could practice it on another girl (which is what I really don't want to do since I firmly believe sex is an act of love and choking/spitting/bruising someone certainly isn't the way to go.) I honestly am starting to feel uncomfortable with this sexual style now.
- Because she watches femdom BDSM and gay porn, she wants to practice BDSM and assplay on me. The Nigerian told me she's definitely gonna be pegging me soon, or might get me in an MMF threesome (he said she had MFF threesomes at University) and this is something I will not tolerate.
TLDR: Been on a phone call with 4 male friends (all ethnic, 22-25) and they believe my GF has a body count of 30 and is a manipulative liar.
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