Being 6ft with a good face isn't enough if the other guy is taller

[Pennywise109]

I'm 6ft with a decent face, I've had friends and even people I'd just met say that I am good looking and yet that still wasn't enough for this girl who was more interested in some other guy who is 6'3 but chopped in the face area.

If he was average height or even mine she would never like him but at his current height that seems to make up for it. She's 5ft 1 btw so I honestly don't know how she is being so picky about height. She does however have a very pretty face. Being in the 5'11 to 6ft area is good and you'll have people saying you're tall but it really doesn't seem to matter when a taller guy is in the picture. It's also unlikely that I'll grow any more (age 18 now).

 

[Buddyboyo2]

5´1 with a 6´3 guy

 

[ketamin]

BS, height doesn’t matter as much if you are 5’11+ with a good frame and face.

 

[5_4]

it's completely over for me at 5 foot 4

 

[Pennywise109]

5´1 with a 6´3 guy

Ikr its insane and I thought even I was a little too tall for her

 

[Pennywise109]

BS, height doesn’t matter as much if you are 5’11+ with a good frame and face.

I'm working on my frame I need to bulk first

 

[Pennywise109]

it's completely over for me at 5 foot 4

You may still grow depending on your age and if not focus on face

 

[Buddyboyo2]

it's completely over for me at 5 foot 4

How old are u

 

[ketamin]

I'm working on my frame I need to bulk first

Hop on roids

 

[blonde slayer]

I'm 6ft with a decent face, I've had friends and even people I'd just met say that I am good looking and yet that still wasn't enough for this girl who was more interested in some other guy who is 6'3 but chopped in the face area.

If he was average height or even mine she would never like him but at his current height that seems to make up for it. She's 5ft 1 btw so I honestly don't know how she is being so picky about height. She does however have a very pretty face. Being in the 5'11 to 6ft area is good and you'll have people saying you're tall but it really doesn't seem to matter when a taller guy is in the picture. It's also unlikely that I'll grow any more (age 18 now).

Foids in the us are built different ig JFL. Had 2 exes who were taller than me at 5'9

 

[Pennywise109]

Foids in the us are built different ig JFL. Had 2 exes who were taller than me at 5'9

I'm from the UK but true. How tall are you?

 

[5_4]

How old are u

19

 

[blonde slayer]

I'm from the UK but true. How tall are you?

I am 5'9, my first ex was 5'10 and a looksmatch and my last one was like 5'8,5

 

[Pennywise109]

I am 5'9, my first ex was 5'10 and a looksmatch and my last one was like 5'8,5

Ah ok

 

[lurkingserpent]

Your anecdote doesn't generalize to all women. If you can't find a girl to commit to you at 6ft with a decent face your doing something else wrong. You are being hypervigilant of your superficial position, which is unhealthy. Stop tracking whether the guy is taller, and has a worse face, that will make you fragile, and emotional. Leave looksmaxxing at home. Being vigilant of your superficial position is an absolutely insufferable character trait. Why are you taking it personally why she left anyway? maybe it's just because of her bullshit. 1 girl isn't a pattern. Stop resorting to the most immature platform in existence to affirm your 1 dimensional ideology, and attend to yourself emotionally. I'd say your probably selecting for the wrong girls. It's okay to have a looks standard, but you also should have character standards for them as well. You don't want a girl who is as simple minded as you. You want one who you can be vulnerable, and honest with about everything, and won't reject you for it, and who can commit to you despite minor variation in your superficial condition.

 

[Pennywise109]

Your anecdote doesn't generalize to all women. If you can't find a girl to commit to you at 6ft with a decent face your doing something else wrong. You are being hypervigilant of your superficial position, which is unhealthy. Stop tracking whether the guy is taller, and has a worse face, that will make you fragile, and emotional. Leave looksmaxxing at home. Being vigilant of your superficial position is an absolutely insufferable character trait. Why are you taking it personally why she left anyway? maybe it's just because of her bullshit. 1 girl isn't a pattern. Stop resorting to the most immature platform in existence to affirm your 1 dimensional ideology, and attend to yourself emotionally. I'd say your probably selecting for the wrong girls. It's okay to have a looks standard, but you also should have character standards for them as well. You don't want a girl who is as simple minded as you. You want one who you can be vulnerable, and honest with about everything, and won't reject you for it, and who can commit to you despite minor variation in your superficial condition.

Yeah you're right to an extent she doesn't have the greatest personality and has her own issues. I only applied looks here because I had treated her very well and put up with a lot of bs so I assumed the only reason she had been interested in someone else was based on looks as he treated her poorly and arguably had a much worse personality than me. Otherwise I wouldn't ordinarily approach an issue and consider appearance alone.

 

[Buddyboyo2]

19

Well its over

 

[5_4]

Well its over

I know bro

 

[lurkingserpent]

Yeah you're right to an extent she doesn't have the greatest personality and has her own issues. I only applied looks here because I had treated her very well and put up with a lot of bs so I assumed the only reason she had been interested in someone else was based on looks as he treated her poorly and arguably had a much worse personality than me. Otherwise I wouldn't ordinarily approach an issue and consider appearance alone.

I mean your sense of personality sounds quite facile. Being nice isn't appealling to women. You should strong, comfortable, playful, courageous, maybe even provokative. You should be honest rather than manipulative. I can just tell from your speech you were probably being cringe, and manipulative in like everything you said to her, and he was just being honest and disagreeable, which is much more appealling. She probably saw right through you, and lost interest.

 

[Pennywise109]

Nah I disagreed on stuff with her and we argued I wasn't a simp by any means. There were periods where she wouldn't talk to me but I wasn't nasty to her either

 

[poreskin]

I'm 6ft with a decent face, I've had friends and even people I'd just met say that I am good looking and yet that still wasn't enough for this girl who was more interested in some other guy who is 6'3 but chopped in the face area.

If he was average height or even mine she would never like him but at his current height that seems to make up for it. She's 5ft 1 btw so I honestly don't know how she is being so picky about height. She does however have a very pretty face. Being in the 5'11 to 6ft area is good and you'll have people saying you're tall but it really doesn't seem to matter when a taller guy is in the picture. It's also unlikely that I'll grow any more (age 18 now).

Even if his face was "worse"

maybe he couldve been her racial prefrence, some girls have strong fetish

Even if you objectively look better and the same race, she could've had a bias for different types of faces that give off different types of vibes,

, some girls prefer high vs low trust face, some girls prefer full vs thin lips, some girls prefer nt or intelligent looking faces, THIS IS SUBCONCIOUS there not gonna say it out loud

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This is because attraction is triggered by evolution,(objective), but also triggered by complex early childhood factors that make attraction partly subjective.

 

[svarddre]

Maybe you don’t look as good as you think you do

 

[poreskin]

Foids in the us are built different ig JFL. Had 2 exes who were taller than me at 5'9

how do u pull in the us man

 

[Pennywise109]

Maybe you don’t look as good as you think you do

I don't think I'm even that good looking honestly it's just most of the people in all of my social settings look objectively worse (politely) I've literally had girls say I should be a model and when I try and explain that it takes a lot more to do well in modelling they don't get it because they have a narrowed view due to environment

 

[Pennywise109]

Even if his face was "worse"

maybe he couldve been her racial prefrence, some girls have strong fetish

Even if you objectively look better and the same race, she could've had a bias for different types of faces that give off different types of vibes,

, some girls prefer high vs low trust face, some girls prefer full vs thin lips, some girls prefer nt or intelligent looking faces, THIS IS SUBCONCIOUS there not gonna say it out loud

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This is because attraction is triggered by evolution,(objective), but also triggered by complex early childhood factors that make attraction partly subjective.

yeah all 3 of us are white he had similar hair colour to me but was a higher body fat maybe she just prepared bigger guys even if they're not muscular its just fat

 

[BMC]

Your anecdote doesn't generalize to all women. If you can't find a girl to commit to you at 6ft with a decent face your doing something else wrong. You are being hypervigilant of your superficial position, which is unhealthy. Stop tracking whether the guy is taller, and has a worse face, that will make you fragile, and emotional. Leave looksmaxxing at home. Being vigilant of your superficial position is an absolutely insufferable character trait. Why are you taking it personally why she left anyway? maybe it's just because of her bullshit. 1 girl isn't a pattern. Stop resorting to the most immature platform in existence to affirm your 1 dimensional ideology, and attend to yourself emotionally. I'd say your probably selecting for the wrong girls. It's okay to have a looks standard, but you also should have character standards for them as well. You don't want a girl who is as simple minded as you. You want one who you can be vulnerable, and honest with about everything, and won't reject you for it, and who can commit to you despite minor variation in your superficial condition.

Wow a rational thinking seemingly intelligent person on this awful forum. What a find! Can I ask what brought you here, I'm curious, since you are the first person I've seen as a breath of fresh air

 

[blonde slayer]

how do u pull in the us man

I am not in the US, I am in germany lol. It's the mindset of foids not the actual height. Height of foids might be smaller in the us but the height inflation is more prominent because us foids are waaay more entitled than let's say german foids. Also in germany you can geomaxx inside the country by going for ukrainian or turkish foids which also makes it easier