being a 25 yo loser is soul crushing

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the difficulty with being a 25 yo loser, is the glimmer of hope that splinters your soul with each passing day, until the years pass and you are nothing but a 30 yo empty husk laboring through the same habitual day, over and over again.
the 30 yo loser knows all hope is lost and has all of eternity to come to terms with it. but the 25 yo wrestles with time affording a glimmer of hope that all too soon comes to pass.
 
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Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
I started to approach random girls left and right, use dating sites, went on dozen of dates with different girls but not much happened. Eventually I gave up, now I'm 39....and here I am....
 
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Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
I started to approach random girls left and right, use dating sites, went on dozen of dates with different girls but not much happened. Eventually I gave up, now I'm 39....and here I am....
at least you have those memories failed chad, which you should be proud of.
does this mean you failed to start a family? did you at least maintain a career/own business or did you NEETmaxx?
 
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Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
I started to approach random girls left and right, use dating sites, went on dozen of dates with different girls but not much happened. Eventually I gave up, now I'm 39....and here I am....
Nigga you're 39??? I always get you confused with @Hozay

It's over for your ass.
 
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Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
I started to approach random girls left and right, use dating sites, went on dozen of dates with different girls but not much happened. Eventually I gave up, now I'm 39....and here I am....
Wdym you gave up? You don't even try to find a woman and settle down anymore?
 
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does this mean you failed to start a family? did you at least maintain a career/own business or did you NEETmaxx?
Still living with my parents.
Wdym you gave up? You don't even try to find a woman and settle down anymore?
Yes, I gave up eventually, I dated a lot but not much happened, I kept getting rejected until I understood it's pointless to struggle anymore. Then I've found the blackpill and finally figured out why I had so little success...
 
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Yes, I gave up eventually, I dated a lot but not much happened, I kept getting rejected until I understood it's pointless to struggle anymore. Then I've found the blackpill and finally figured out why I had so little success...
If you want kids, you shouldn't give up. There is always the possibility of getting a foreign bride if you don't find anyone in your country. Better than involuntary dying without offspring.
 
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it is over
 
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Still living with my parents.

Yes, I gave up eventually, I dated a lot but not much happened, I kept getting rejected until I understood it's pointless to struggle anymore. Then I've found the blackpill and finally figured out why I had so little success...

If you got dates before,then that in itself proves to you that its not over lol
 
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If you want kids, you shouldn't give up. There is always the possibility of getting a foreign bride if you don't find anyone in your country. Better than involuntary dying without offspring.
What's the point? Also what foreign bride would want to come to Romania?

If you got dates before,then that in itself proves to you that its not over lol
Maybe then, but now it's over...
 
What's the point? Also what foreign bride would want to come to Romania?
I don't know what's your financial situtation and if you would be open to move to a Western European country (you have freedom of movement). Moneymaxxing is good in general though, for improving life quality.

Depending on that, there are many, many women in Asia and Latin America that are open for such a deal. You provide, she gives you kids. I know two older people in my social circle who married a foreign bride.
 
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life ends at 25 unless your chad
 
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i hope i don't reach the same fate.
 
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brutal pill
 
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Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
I started to approach random girls left and right, use dating sites, went on dozen of dates with different girls but not much happened. Eventually I gave up, now I'm 39....and here I am....
One thing I came to realise is the importance of money after College, All the experiences that I want to have require money. In college everything is handed to you so money is not an issue.
 
Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
I started to approach random girls left and right, use dating sites, went on dozen of dates with different girls but not much happened. Eventually I gave up, now I'm 39....and here I am....
Why didn't you get a decent job and moved out? You sound like a normie who ended up failing at making money.
 
and it ends at 13 unless you are a normie or a chad
life ends at birth if you are not chad. reminder chads are born not made. therefore, timothy's are born not made as well.
 
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Are you a virgin?
 
life ends at birth if you are not chad. reminder chads are born not made. therefore, timothy's are born not made as well.
If you are autistic maybe. Most kids are accepted regardless of looks before puberty.
 
If you are autistic maybe. Most kids are accepted regardless of looks before puberty.
fatties and kids with shit skin were always the most bullied at my school. now that i think of it even those with shit tier forward projection were mistreated more compared to those with dolichocephalic skulls.
 
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its average for white males in the west and will become below average in less than a generation
hieght is meaningless without atleast 5 psl face, i'd gladly give up an inch of hieght and dick just to gain an extra psl point
 
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fatties and kids with shit skin were always the most bullied at my school. now that i think of it even those with shit tier forward projection were mistreated more compared to those with dolichocephalic skulls.
yeah looks always mattered but before puberty I was a lot more popular
 
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Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
I started to approach random girls left and right, use dating sites, went on dozen of dates with different girls but not much happened. Eventually I gave up, now I'm 39....and here I am....
Retard
 
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Why didn't you get a decent job and moved out? You sound like a normie who ended up failing at making money.
I worked online, at home doing decent money making websites and kept my expenses to a minimum by living with my folks. What was the point of moving out and living alone if I didn't have someone?
In the end, I got tired of working, started to procrastinate, and eventually stopped.
I don't know what's your financial situtation and if you would be open to move to a Western European country (you have freedom of movement). Moneymaxxing is good in general though, for improving life quality.
I'm short and Romanian, if I can't get someone here, do you really think I could do it in Western Europe, where people are taller and Romanians are at the bottom of the social hierarchy because almost everyone confuses them with the Gypsies? Even for guys living in Western Europe it's getting more difficult now to get a gf/wife, so they go looking in poorer countries in South America, Asia, Eastern Europe, etc...
 
Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
I started to approach random girls left and right, use dating sites, went on dozen of dates with different girls but not much happened. Eventually I gave up, now I'm 39....and here I am....
Do you have adhd?
 
I am 25 yo loser fucking brutal tbh. I dont think i am too old yet, but i can feel that my neurotransmitters are too burned to change faith at this point. My mind is dead, j have become a coping robot
 
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Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
I started to approach random girls left and right, use dating sites, went on dozen of dates with different girls but not much happened. Eventually I gave up, now I'm 39....and here I am....
hows that possible, you got dates so you were not ugly. how didnt you find one in almost 15 years?:what:😢
 
Do you have adhd?
No, I don't think so...
hows that possible, you got dates so you were not ugly. how didnt you find one in almost 15 years?:what:😢
I had two girlfriends in college, one was a brief relationship(only two weeks), the other several years. After finishing college, I was left without a social circle, I had a little luck at the beginning, found another girl, and I was with her for three months, then for more than a year it was just one bad luck after another one - dozens of dates where either not much happened or even if it seemed like things were great(amazing conversations, lots of laughing, touching, kissing), the next day I was ghosted, or put in the friend zone...

Couldn't figure out what was wrong, I thought maybe I'm not NT enough, so I started to experiment with drugs and alcohol to find something that would make me more relaxed, talkative and funny. I liked them a little too much, so I spent the next few years in a drunken and drugged stupor, I stopped dating, stopped working, I eventually quit drugs and alcohol, but I wasn't the same anymore, just bored, apathetic, and not wanting to do anything anymore...
 
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No, I don't think so...

I had two girlfriends in college, one was a brief relationship(only two weeks), the other several years. After finishing college, I was left without a social circle, I had a little luck at the beginning, found another girl, and I was with her for three months, then for more than a year it was just one bad luck after another one - dozens of dates where either not much happened or even if it seemed like things were great(amazing conversations, lots of laughing, touching, kissing), the next day I was ghosted, or put in the friend zone...

Couldn't figure out what was wrong, I thought maybe I'm not NT enough, so I started to experiment with drugs and alcohol to find something that would make me more relaxed, talkative and funny. I liked them a little too much, so I spent the next few years in a drunken and drugged stupor, I stopped dating, stopped working, I eventually quit drugs and alcohol, but I wasn't the same anymore, just bored, apathetic, and not wanting to do anything anymore...
damn. whats your plan now? and how do you looked like
 
damn. whats your plan now? and how do you looked like
I don't know what do to now...
I look a lot like the computer generated image of average white guy, maybe a little more recessed. I didn't age much since my 20s, doing nothing all day keeps you young, compared to people who work and are stressed by their responsibilities and family life. Also I'm 5'5...
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fuck 5'5 is indeed brutal. maybe thats the reason.

can you arrange marriage? or find some poor hoe from a poor country idk or some trad girl. my uncle is 40 i think and is marrying soon (his 1st). theres hope
 
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Ha-ha, I remember when I was 25...
I finished college, and during that time I had a satisfying social life, plenty of friends, went to parties, events, trips, had a girlfriend, etc...But then college was over, everyone moved away and suddenly I was all alone, with no social circle, my gf eventually dumped me and I had no idea what to do.
this is the reality of the vast majority of people
they dont have the skills, charisma or looks to actually find friends - they only rely on people they have met in school or from their childhood.

take the average guy, drop him in a new city where he knows noone, and he is likely to become an incel
it really is just luck that most men get laid and have friends - and there is nothing inherently wrong with people here or incels, they just got unlucky with their life circumstances.

im not saying all this to hate on the dude that im quoting, im saying this as a motivation to people here - that if you manage to get out of the isolation and stop being a loser, you actually are far ahead of normies, becasue you now have the skillset needed to do it anywhere.
They will be locked down in their hometown, or they will fall into isolation once their school ages are over, interacting only with long time friends, and coworkers.

so go and looksmax
 
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this is the reality of the vast majority of people
they dont have the skills, charisma or looks to actually find friends - they only rely on people they have met in school or from their childhood.

take the average guy, drop him in a new city where he knows noone, and he is likely to become an incel
it really is just luck that most men get laid and have friends - and there is nothing inherently wrong with people here or incels, they just got unlucky with their life circumstances.

im not saying all this to hate on the dude that im quoting, im saying this as a motivation to people here - that if you manage to get out of the isolation and stop being a loser, you actually are far ahead of normies, becasue you now have the skillset needed to do it anywhere.
They will be locked down in their hometown, or they will fall into isolation once their school ages are over, interacting only with long time friends, and coworkers.

so go and looksmax
hmm if i think about it its true. most friends i know are from my school time or friends of friends jfk
 
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Sub6manletnozygos XD
 
Still living with my parents.

Yes, I gave up eventually, I dated a lot but not much happened, I kept getting rejected until I understood it's pointless to struggle anymore. Then I've found the blackpill and finally figured out why I had so little success...
Have you tried geomaxxing my guy
 
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