Being a non-NT quiet-cel in a world that can't stop talking

[RftH]

In group conversations, your brain gets error 404 when trying to contribute to the topic being discussed. You simply go blank.

When you do speak up, most people take you more way more seriously than you would like, hence you rarely crack jokes.

You truly enjoy solitude. Even better when you have no pending tasks.

"Why are you so quiet" is a question you hear a lot.

You are legitimately amazed at how some people can keep conversating back and forth for hours on end.

You cant help but actively observe people and their body language.

You keep/kept trying new copes to help you become more talkative/NT.

Imagine not being born with a normal-functioning-NT-talk-for-10-hours-nonstop brain.....

over 4 u in 2021 my quiet non-nt friend

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

Being non NT has destroyed me

 

[Deleted member 4301]

Feels like I'm reading a BuzzFeed article

 

[isis_Bleach]

the only reason youre non nt is high anxiety likely brought on by low psl

 

[datboijj]

the only reason youre non nt is high anxiety likely brought on by low psl

then why are people uglier than me giga nt

 

[RftH]

the only reason youre non nt is high anxiety likely brought on by low psl

Likely.

I'm thinking PSL is most crucial during your younger years. It shapes the kind of interactions you have — building out your NT levels, which at a later age seems ridiculously hard to change.

So even if you do improve your looks, you still retain the mental level corresponding to your previous PSL. Changing that requires a lot of work.

Simply put, being a non-NTcel who is able to find himself in social groups etc without being a clown, is most likely somewhat good looking, and or tall, but just can't play the part mentally.

They most often appear quiet and reserved, not knowing how to naturally flow in conversations like NTs do.

Some can mimic NTness though, but it feels like such a drag and is quite exhausting.

 

[germanlooks]

then why are people uglier than me giga nt

Because they have a social life and you not