being boring is a huge failo

[inceI]

like you gotta be able to hold a conversation at the very minimum

 

[cytoplasm]

Everyone can do that

 

[Deleted member 17595]

Everyone can do that

you’d be surprised

 

[Dr. Bludy]

Just be a jester
Im not going to entertain some Godless whores

 

[inceI]

Everyone can do that

too many men are awkward asf especially on first dates

 

[cytoplasm]

too many men are awkward asf especially on first dates

Thats not the same as not being able to hold a conversation though

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I am quiet and just zone out constantly while frauding eye area and never moving my head, only my eyes, gives the hunter effect.

Hunter eyes arent just physical. It's a mindset.

So my personality is apex predator and I never say a word

 

[inceI]

Thats not the same as not being able to hold a conversation though

Sure but running out of stuff to talk about or not having same interests is a big turnoff

 

[incel194012940]

Everyone can do that

I have known real NPC cels, as in they were gl, tall, high class everything but had no friends, no one cared that much abt them bc you couldn’t get any deeper than “how are you”, they were blank faced and no identity, interests, likes/dislikes ect

 

[The Grinch]

too many men are awkward asf especially on first dates

How would you know that, did they had their first dates with you?

 

[inceI]

How would you know that, did they had their first dates with you?

yes

 

[Raskolnikovpilled]

Well I'm much things but I'm not boring at least

 

[cytoplasm]

I have known real NPC cels, as in they were gl, tall, high class everything but had no friends, no one cared that much abt them bc you couldn’t get any deeper than “how are you”, they were blank faced and no identity, interests, likes/dislikes ect

Everyone who's actually tall and handsome is gonna have huge social circles and many ppl who care about them. These ppl then must be extremly non-NT as opposed to just boring

 

[Shycel]

I'm a boringcel and I've spent my whole life trying to figure out how to not be one but I've concluded that it's mostly just genetics and if you don't have it you never will. The only times where I can maintain long conversations is when I'm talking about the narrow range of topics that interest me and I know stuff about or when I'm talking with very close friends, where I don't feel any pressure, so I don't need a social filter and I can just say whatever comes to mind. When I'm talking with normies who I'm not close with, I'm basically just a brick wall. I've had people say I'm boring and ask "why are you so quiet?", so I know for sure that it's not just in my head.

 

[Deleted member 24586]

Everyone can do that

Wait really

 

[Deleted member 24586]

I'm a boringcel and I've spent my whole life trying to figure out how to not be one but I've concluded that it's mostly just genetics and if you don't have it you never will. The only times where I can maintain long conversations is when I'm talking about the narrow range of topics that interest me and I know stuff about or when I'm talking with very close friends, where I don't feel any pressure, so I don't need a social filter and I can just say whatever comes to mind. When I'm talking with normies who I'm not close with, I'm basically just a brick wall. I've had people say I'm boring and ask "why are you so quiet?", so I know for sure that it's not just in my head.

Sounds like me

 

[gribsufer1]

how to fix

 

[Shycel]

Sounds like me

The best anology I've heard for this is that conversing with others feels like you're part of a play where everyone has access to the script, except for you. Everything seems to flow out of everyone else's mouths so naturally, but for me, I have to brainstorm in my head what I'm going to say and when I do finally say something, it always comes off as forced and like I'm saying it just for the sake of saying something. I've tried my best in High School to put myself out there and improve upon this but I never managed to figure it out and now that I'm not in High School anymore I've basically given up and accepted my new life as a lonelycel

 

[nevermind2]

I'm a boringcel and I've spent my whole life trying to figure out how to not be one but I've concluded that it's mostly just genetics and if you don't have it you never will. The only times where I can maintain long conversations is when I'm talking about the narrow range of topics that interest me and I know stuff about or when I'm talking with very close friends, where I don't feel any pressure, so I don't need a social filter and I can just say whatever comes to mind. When I'm talking with normies who I'm not close with, I'm basically just a brick wall. I've had people say I'm boring and ask "why are you so quiet?", so I know for sure that it's not just in my head.

So relate able jfl

 

[Gargantuan]

As much as it can be a failo, it cannot make up for a lack of attractiveness, sadly.

Many years ago, before I had even heard of the blackpill and was still looksminned, a girl at a bus stop approached me and asked me for directions. Coincidentally, as we were chatting, I found out that we were heading for the same destination, so we ended up spending a good portion of the day together.
But the dynamics of our conversations were brutal, it was literally one-way traffic as I had to carry the conversation all the time. Whenever awkward silences were about to happen, I always had to be the one to jump in and make sure that didn't happen, she made ZERO effort herself.
At some point, I felt like I was conducting an interview jfl

She did mog me (at least at the time) in all fairness. Despite being bluepilled, I could easily tell that she wasn't attracted to me so I never even had any intentions of pursuing her either lol.

 

[datboijj]

failo for only trying to get in a relationship

 

[Deleted member 16369]

Most normies are extremely boring

 

[inceI]

Most normies are extremely boring

Boring to you but among themselves have nt interests that they partake in and conversate about

its why most friendships are made in clubs or school.

 

[Sanguinius]

Cope chad just orders bitches like pizza to his house with the driest chat ever

 

[Deleted member 13158]

I am quiet and just zone out constantly while frauding eye area and never moving my head, only my eyes, gives the hunter effect.

Hunter eyes arent just physical. It's a mindset.

So my personality is apex predator and I never say a word

Scoping out ur local Bengali subhuman prey. Waiting in anticipation for zer0 to graze(on curry slop) so u can pounce and tear him (bloated)limb from limb. Leaving only his glasses behind

 

[inceI]

Cope chad just orders bitches like pizza to his house with the driest chat ever

Keep fantasizing and making up homo erotic scenarios about gl men you faggot

 

[Sanguinius]

Keep fantasizing and making up homo erotic scenarios about gl men you faggot

How naive to reality

 

[Deleted member 13158]

The best anology I've heard for this is that conversing with others feels like you're part of a play where everyone has access to the script, except for you. Everything seems to flow out of everyone else's mouths so naturally, but for me, I have to brainstorm in my head what I'm going to say and when I do finally say something, it always comes off as forced and like I'm saying it just for the sake of saying something. I've tried my best in High School to put myself out there and improve upon this but I never managed to figure it out and now that I'm not in High School anymore I've basically given up and accepted my new life as a lonelycel

They’re smooth talkers while you’re Snapchat AI. Being careful with your words is wise sometimes tbh, Id say ur just high inhib which is why ur calculated. I’m only NT around people ik and even then I’m always jestermaxxing. Otherwise they wouldn’t hang out with me

 

[Deleted member 13158]

Most normies are extremely boring

They’re the same as everyone here except they sheep over different shit. All subhumans are extremely boring, it’s just vidya, anime, pseudo intellectualism and negativity.

I don’t like how normies walk on egg shells though. Uhhh “u can’t say that bro, the alphabet mafia might hear us.” Fearful of controversy, forming own thoughts and negative attention

 

[Deleted member 24586]

The best anology I've heard for this is that conversing with others feels like you're part of a play where everyone has access to the script, except for you. Everything seems to flow out of everyone else's mouths so naturally, but for me, I have to brainstorm in my head what I'm going to say and when I do finally say something, it always comes off as forced and like I'm saying it just for the sake of saying something. I've tried my best in High School to put myself out there and improve upon this but I never managed to figure it out and now that I'm not in High School anymore I've basically given up and accepted my new life as a lonelycel

Couldn't have said it better myself. I haven't had a friend in years and I've become very lonely as a result of not socialising for such a long time. Everything I say sounds unnatural and awkward as if I'm some sort of broken AI. At first I used to try (and fail) to talk to people but it's gotten to the point where I'm tired of failing that I've just accepted my position as a loner. It's pretty shit because I get jealous of happy people really easily and desire to be liked by others but I know that I can't truly be happy nor liked because of the person I have become over the years.

 

[gribsufer1]

As much as it can be a failo, it cannot make up for a lack of attractiveness, sadly.

Many years ago, before I had even heard of the blackpill and was still looksminned, a girl at a bus stop approached me and asked me for directions. Coincidentally, as we were chatting, I found out that we were heading for the same destination, so we ended up spending a good portion of the day together.
But the dynamics of our conversations were brutal, it was literally one-way traffic as I had to carry the conversation all the time. Whenever awkward silences were about to happen, I always had to be the one to jump in and make sure that didn't happen, she made ZERO effort herself.
At some point, I felt like I was conducting an interview jfl

She did mog me (at least at the time) in all fairness. Despite being bluepilled, I could easily tell that she wasn't attracted to me so I never even had any intentions of pursuing her either lol.

at least NT is something you cant fake that u have

 

[Shycel]

They’re smooth talkers while you’re Snapchat AI. Being careful with your words is wise sometimes tbh, Id say ur just high inhib which is why ur calculated. I’m only NT around people ik and even then I’m always jestermaxxing. Otherwise they wouldn’t hang out with me

Yeah I think it's a combination of being high inhib and actually being a boring person. Even when I put myself out there, I just don't know what to say. My mind is just blank. Also, I don't go to parties or drink or do all the other stuff that normies do. That is probably a result of being high inhib to begin with though because of the negative feedback loop with socialising. At this point I might need to just alcoholic maxx to force myself to be low inhib when I need to.

Jestermaxxing isn't even bad if they're your friends and they find you funny. It's only pathetic when you're doing it to try to get attention from a girl.

 

[looksmaxxed]

stop trying to seek the approval of others you loser hahahah

muh hold conversation, muh charisma, muh not boring

 

[blurazice]

I'm a boringcel and I've spent my whole life trying to figure out how to not be one but I've concluded that it's mostly just genetics and if you don't have it you never will. The only times where I can maintain long conversations is when I'm talking about the narrow range of topics that interest me and I know stuff about or when I'm talking with very close friends, where I don't feel any pressure, so I don't need a social filter and I can just say whatever comes to mind. When I'm talking with normies who I'm not close with, I'm basically just a brick wall. I've had people say I'm boring and ask "why are you so quiet?", so I know for sure that it's not just in my head.

Same. I literally have nothing original to say.