Being called "gay" as an insult by a girl means she considers you to be of low mate value (proof). It does not mean she wants you.

[Brian Peppers]

Insulting comments are meant to demean a target. From the lens of evolutionary psychology, we theorized that the most used insults could be tied to evolved, sex-specific cues of mate value. We predicted that participants would ascribe as more insulting to men or to women phrases that derogate sex-specific cues of mate value. We analyzed both qualitative and quantitative data from 136 survey participants (age M = 21.2, SD = 6.1). Predictions were supported by notable consensus, and there were largely no sex differences in insult use. Most insults targeted at men derogated formidability/status and sexuality/gender, and most insults targeted at women derogated physical appearance and ascribed promiscuity. These qualities have been shown to be salient cues to mate viability for each sex, respectively. Limitations and future directions for research are discussed. (PsycInfo Database Record (c) 2022 APA, all rights reserved)

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[Dr. Bludy]

Water

 

[thenewhebbe]

Girls insult but say himbo, his dick is so big and others insults