Being confident and kind is unironically the best advice for young men

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When it comes to things you can actually control, I think this is the best advice or at least really good.

It doesnt mean that its the most important thing but theres limits to how much you can "looksmax" and even if you looksmaxx ur way to top percentile looks, is it really that good if youre insecure and aggressive all the time?

Obv ur confidence is affected by how youve been treated by others but that doesnt invalidate my point.

Especially if youre like 18+, if ur like 14 yea you should looksmaxx as much as u can and thats the n1 thing u should do.
But after 18, besides not being a fat dirty pig there isnt that much you can do, even with surgery for many people.

You can try getting money, but same thing, is it really that good if youre insecure and aggressive?

And it’s not like theyre mutually exclusive with the others so its good advice no matter what.
 
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Cope
 
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Best advice if you‘re alright looking, terrible advice if you‘re chopped
 
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Just be confident bro
 
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True but being “kind” isn’t nesscarily gonna get you ahead in life, being confident and likeable and strong is better advice imo
 
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When it comes to things you can actually control, I think this is the best advice or at least really good.

It doesnt mean that its the most important thing but theres limits to how much you can "looksmax" and even if you looksmaxx ur way to top percentile looks, is it really that good if youre insecure and aggressive all the time?

Obv ur confidence is affected by how youve been treated by others but that doesnt invalidate my point.

Especially if youre like 18+, if ur like 14 yea you should looksmaxx as much as u can and thats the n1 thing u should do.
But after 18, besides not being a fat dirty pig there isnt that much you can do, even with surgery for many people.

You can try getting money, but same thing, is it really that good if youre insecure and aggressive?

And it’s not like theyre mutually exclusive with the others so its good advice no matter what.
True but a lot of normies mix being confident with delusion :Comfy:
 
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wrong

the best advice would be to book a one on one call with me to discuss your surgical needs

i charge $200 an hour

& i only accept paypal friends & family

must send 200 before consult
 
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wrong

the best advice would be to book a one on one call with me to discuss your surgical needs

i charge $200 an hour

& i only accept paypal friends & family

must send 200 before consult
200 is not that much cuz after all ur gonna get advice from the great tansel himself
 
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the best advice would be to book a one on one call with me to discuss your surgical needs

i charge $200 an hour

& i only accept paypal friends & family

must send 200 before consult
blud thinks hes goatis
 
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the best advice would be to book a one on one call with me to discuss your surgical needs

i charge $200 an hour

& i only accept paypal friends & family

must send 200 before consult
Give me for free bhai 😍 I want to become true Adam for 300 dollars of surgery
 
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200 is not that much cuz after all ur gonna get advice from the great tansel himself
Broa not gettin shi💔
 
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When it comes to things you can actually control, I think this is the best advice or at least really good.

It doesnt mean that its the most important thing but theres limits to how much you can "looksmax" and even if you looksmaxx ur way to top percentile looks, is it really that good if youre insecure and aggressive all the time?

Obv ur confidence is affected by how youve been treated by others but that doesnt invalidate my point.

Especially if youre like 18+, if ur like 14 yea you should looksmaxx as much as u can and thats the n1 thing u should do.
But after 18, besides not being a fat dirty pig there isnt that much you can do, even with surgery for many people.

You can try getting money, but same thing, is it really that good if youre insecure and aggressive?

And it’s not like theyre mutually exclusive with the others so its good advice no matter what.
Being kind and confident when you're unattractive just gets you labeled as creepy or overcompensating, so stop talking shit. We're in a fucked up time where looks are valued above all else, and pretending otherwise is just a complete cope. Ascend by any means necessary.
 
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Blue pill copy kys
 
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Being kind and confident when you're unattractive just gets you labeled as creepy or overcompensating, so stop talking shit. We're in a fucked up time where looks are valued above all else, and pretending otherwise is just a complete cope. Ascend by any means necessary.
True but this applies if you’re visibly ugly, which is different from just unattractive. Most men are unattractive but not really ugly
 
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Nigga really just told us to “be confident bro”

Like it’s not bad advice but lookism is too real.

Confidence won’t change the fact ur oneitis things ur unattractive
 
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Just shut up.
 
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Nigga really just told us to “be confident bro”

Like it’s not bad advice but lookism is too real.

Confidence won’t change the fact ur oneitis things ur unattractive
I explicitly said it’s not the most important thing for outcomes.
When I say “the best” Im talking about advice, you cant just advice someone to change their genetics

Edit: and i didnt say its always the BEST advice, i said sometimes its just rlly good advice



Just shut up.
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True but this applies if you’re visibly ugly, which is different from just unattractive. Most men are unattractive but not really ugly
Imo the underlying social penalty remains the same. Even if you aren't actively repulsive, anyone under htn won’t experience the halo effect
 
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Imo the underlying social penalty remains the same. Even if you aren't actively repulsive, anyone under htn won’t experience the halo effect
Trust me lol no it doesn’t, being below average and charismatic and funny got to be tolerated, doing the same but being normie looking made me well liked when I was socially active, I’ve seen the difference firsthand, just because it’s not the same boost as going from average to attractive doesn’t mean it’s not significant
 
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I explicitly said it’s not the most important thing for outcomes.
When I say “the best” Im talking about advice, you cant just advice someone to change their genetics




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Better advice in terms of this to me would just be to unironically gymmaxx and just find a drug that’s not too bad for you that can lower your inhib to where you are pleasant to be around

And also to not jerk off, (especially avoid deathgrip(too much to explain so basically just ignore this(low test can sometimes be good and bad for inhib icl)))

Genuinely softmaxxing is better than just being low inhib tho

That’s my opinion I get whwre youre coming from
 
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