Being fat is actually disgusting but normies talk about it like its normal

[Elias.dgaf]

I myself grew up fat basically my whole life. But i eventually realised how disgusting and unhealthy it is and started getting that weight down, what i noticed is that before i lost weight no one really talked about my weight, not really hating (which is bad tbh because you grow up to think its normal beeing overweight) but ofc no positive coments either. Once i started exercising many people told me "wow you look great", "you became so skinny", "did you exercise?", which basically just indirectly tells me that they didnt like it when is was overweight (which is a completly normal reaction). But i just dont get why they just dont tell me to go exercise or help me because its not even mean in my opinion they just help getting healthier and living a better life.

 

[NYCjihad]

they absolutely noticed, they just didnt say anything because commenting on other's weight (while ur still fat) is socially punished. when u lose weight, its socially acceptable to comment on ur weight then since both u and the others see it as progress obviously. most people just didnt comment on it back then not to sound rude

 

[zslqam]

I myself grew up fat basically my whole life. But i eventually realised how disgusting and unhealthy it is and started getting that weight down, what i noticed is that before i lost weight no one really talked about my weight, not really hating (which is bad tbh because you grow up to think its normal beeing overweight) but ofc no positive coments either. Once i started exercising many people told me "wow you look great", "you became so skinny", "did you exercise?", which basically just indirectly tells me that they didnt like it when is was overweight (which is a completly normal reaction). But i just dont get why they just dont tell me to go exercise or help me because its not even mean in my opinion they just help getting healthier and living a better life.

DNR, gonna eat my fucking weiner dog

 

[metaaa]

I myself grew up fat basically my whole life. But i eventually realised how disgusting and unhealthy it is and started getting that weight down, what i noticed is that before i lost weight no one really talked about my weight, not really hating (which is bad tbh because you grow up to think its normal beeing overweight) but ofc no positive coments either. Once i started exercising many people told me "wow you look great", "you became so skinny", "did you exercise?", which basically just indirectly tells me that they didnt like it when is was overweight (which is a completly normal reaction). But i just dont get why they just dont tell me to go exercise or help me because its not even mean in my opinion they just help getting healthier and living a better life.

Yeah that's 100% truth I was always talking to my fat friend how he needs to lose some weight and that he's too big not even in a mean way I just wanted to help him and he would always get mad at me but the moment he agreed and he lost the weight through his journey everybody started telling him how he became skinnier

 

[shandingo]

I myself grew up fat basically my whole life. But i eventually realised how disgusting and unhealthy it is and started getting that weight down, what i noticed is that before i lost weight no one really talked about my weight, not really hating (which is bad tbh because you grow up to think its normal beeing overweight) but ofc no positive coments either. Once i started exercising many people told me "wow you look great", "you became so skinny", "did you exercise?", which basically just indirectly tells me that they didnt like it when is was overweight (which is a completly normal reaction). But i just dont get why they just dont tell me to go exercise or help me because its not even mean in my opinion they just help getting healthier and living a better life.

I don't judge fat people too hard. Life is terrible for most people , most people need a cope whether it be drugs , alcohol or over-consuming food. You pick your poison , there's worse poisons to take it imo given you aren't morbidly obese . We live in a dopamine addicted hyper stimulated world where fast food and sugar is shoved down your throat at every instance, but that is their relief or feel good moment for the day.

 

[Elias.dgaf]

We live in a dopamine addicted hyper stimulated world where fast food and sugar is shoved down your throat at every instance

yeah i noticed that, i also got and still get chocolate and other unhealthy things as gifts at e.g. Birthdays etc. (i usually just give them to my brother)