Being fat, ugly, socially awkward, and strange (but at least neurotypical) is better than being an autist with decent looks

[BadLuck7892]

I had a male high school classmate who was fat, strange, ugly, and socially awkward.

Calling him strange is perhaps an understatement. He'd make comments in class about wanting to kill babies (and the teachers would brush it off as a joke)

Yet he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in high school (he kept her for 2 years). He then got a shorter-term girlfriend for the final few months of high school.

Next, he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in college (they were an item for at least 6 years or so)

None of these foids had good looks. But that doesn't change the fact he did surprisingly well with the ladies.

Here's where it becomes even more surprising: He's currently married to a skinny woman with good looks.

On the other hand, I have decent looks, yet am an escortcel.

The only difference I can think of (to explain his luck and my failure): Despite all of his baggage, he's at least neurotypical. I, on the other hand, am an autist.

 

[Snicket]

I had a male high school classmate who was fat, strange, ugly, and socially awkward.

Calling him strange is perhaps an understatement. He'd make comments in class about wanting to kill babies (and the teachers would brush it off as a joke)

Yet he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in high school (he kept her for 2 years). He then got a shorter-term girlfriend for the final few months of high school.

Next, he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in college (they were an item for at least 6 years or so)

None of these foids had good looks. But that doesn't change the fact he did surprisingly well with the ladies.

Here's where it becomes even more surprising: He's currently married to a skinny woman with good looks.

On the other hand, I have decent looks, yet am an escortcel.

The only difference I can think of (to explain his luck and my failure): Despite all of his baggage, he's at least neurotypical. I, on the other hand, am an autist.

I agree and will bump your thread.

 

[hunnidrounds]

This is so true

 

[jonkler]

op discovers confidence goes a long way

 

[uksucks]

op discovers confidence goes a long way

Confidence on an autistic or schizo does nothing

 

[jonkler]

Confidence on an autistic or schizo does nothing

then figure out how to not be autistic

 

[superpsycho]

agreed, NT and inhib are very important

 

[jonkler]

agreed, NT and inhib are very important

so true ive seen a genetically cursed very low inhib guy hanging out with multiple girls at once

 

[superpsycho]

so true ive seen a genetically cursed very low inhib guy hanging out with multiple girls at once

anecdotal but good example

 

[BadLuck7892]

Confidence on an autistic or schizo does nothing

Well-said.

When autists act confident, we come across as creepy/dangerous (even moreso than we already do)

When my high school classmate I mentioned acts confident, however, he (despite being off kilter) is neurotypical enough his confidence comes across as (shockingly) attractive.

 

[BadLuck7892]

then figure out how to not be autistic

Autism is a congenital condition. There's no cure.

 

[BadLuck7892]

agreed, NT and inhib are very important

Autists are high inhibition because autists simply aren't cut out to make the first move.

 

[BadLuck7892]

It really is unreal how that classmate, despite the fact he wasn't the most popular guy, could make comments about killing babies without being viewed as a total creep.

I, on the other hand, never said anything about wanting to kill anyone in high school, yet was viewed as a dangerous creep.

 

[uksucks]

When autists act confident, we come across as creepy/dangerous

Dangerous yes 100%
Confident and weird is the guy you ignore on the train, who you don't mess with

 

[uksucks]

Autists are high inhibition because autists simply aren't cut out to make the first move.

I'm low inhib autist from cold approach (exposure therapy) + phenibut/alcohol
It got me makeouts and that's it, nothing else, would never work in daytime

 

[castizo_ascender]

I had a male high school classmate who was fat, strange, ugly, and socially awkward.

Calling him strange is perhaps an understatement. He'd make comments in class about wanting to kill babies (and the teachers would brush it off as a joke)

Yet he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in high school (he kept her for 2 years). He then got a shorter-term girlfriend for the final few months of high school.

Next, he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in college (they were an item for at least 6 years or so)

None of these foids had good looks. But that doesn't change the fact he did surprisingly well with the ladies.

Here's where it becomes even more surprising: He's currently married to a skinny woman with good looks.

On the other hand, I have decent looks, yet am an escortcel.

The only difference I can think of (to explain his luck and my failure): Despite all of his baggage, he's at least neurotypical. I, on the other hand, am an autist.

cope tier thread tbh. he's probably a cuck or something assuming this isn't tales. most men with decent gfs who aren't high mtn at the least are cucked to some degree

 

[grungymallard97]

I had a male high school classmate who was fat, strange, ugly, and socially awkward.

Calling him strange is perhaps an understatement. He'd make comments in class about wanting to kill babies (and the teachers would brush it off as a joke)

Yet he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in high school (he kept her for 2 years). He then got a shorter-term girlfriend for the final few months of high school.

Next, he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in college (they were an item for at least 6 years or so)

None of these foids had good looks. But that doesn't change the fact he did surprisingly well with the ladies.

Here's where it becomes even more surprising: He's currently married to a skinny woman with good looks.

On the other hand, I have decent looks, yet am an escortcel.

The only difference I can think of (to explain his luck and my failure): Despite all of his baggage, he's at least neurotypical. I, on the other hand, am an autist.

No it’s not, I’m rated Cl+ here and I’m shy. Yet still get 100x the play of the ugly guys

 

[castizo_ascender]

so true ive seen a genetically cursed very low inhib guy hanging out with multiple girls at once

probably an orbiter who deludes himself into thinking the girls will let him hit if he orbits enough. on the other hand the foids are probably taking 9x7 dalofaelid cock up all their holes every other night

 

[BadLuck7892]

Dangerous yes 100%
Confident and weird is the guy you ignore on the train, who you don't mess with

We have the perk of being the guy you don't mess with, no doubt.

Unfortunately, however, the flipside is that foids are terrified of us.

 

[hunnidrounds]

It really is unreal how that classmate, despite the fact he wasn't the most popular guy, could make comments about killing babies without being viewed as a total creep.

I, on the other hand, never said anything about wanting to kill anyone in high school, yet was viewed as a dangerous creep.

Chad can post on a girl's wall about busting nuts on the whores face that he slept with whereas you get blocked for saying hi.

 

[Toad]

I knew an insanely autistic stuttering retard that slayed a new girl every day. He was good looking and white

 

[BadLuck7892]

Chad can post on a girl's wall about busting nuts on the whores face that he slept with whereas you get blocked for saying hi.

True.

Yet the guy I mentioned from my high school isn't even a Chad...but he still has decent luck with foids.

 

[BadLuck7892]

I knew an insanely autistic stuttering retard that slayed a new girl every day. He was good looking and white

I'm autistic, White, have good looks, and a high IQ

Yet I'm an escortcel

 

[Gamerspyy786]

Dnr but title isn’t true

 

[TheLightOfMyLife]

Dumbass
Imagine if you were Black and NT
your life would be far worse than being Autistic

 

[BadLuck7892]

Dnr but title isn’t true

You might want to read (or if you don't read, don't comment)

My OP elaborates on why my title is true.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Dumbass
Imagine if you were Black and NT
your life would be far worse than being Autistic

You can't be serious.

Black and neurotypical is the holy grail to get cooch. Neurotypical black men are viewed as sex symbols.

Not to mention all the other black privilege I'd get.

 

[TheLightOfMyLife]

You can't be serious.

Black and neurotypical is the holy grail to get cooch. Neurotypical black men are viewed as sex symbols.

Not to mention all the other black privilege I'd get.

Being a nigger is a death sentence. In terms of both women hating you and because cops will murder your nigger ass.

 

[Gamerspyy786]

You might want to read (or if you don't read, don't comment)

My OP elaborates on why my title is true.

Like by decent looks I’m assuming unanimously agreed to be htn

I read it btw, and I’d still be decent looks without being nt. The reason is cuz it’s easy to switch in and out, one of the primary reasons people aren’t nt is BECAUSE of their looks, and especially true for me. Once u realize socializing isn’t a big deal, you’ll get over that mentally crutch of being an autist irl

 

[BadLuck7892]

Being a nigger is a death sentence. In terms of both women hating you and because cops will murder your nigger ass.

Even though most White foids won't fuck a black man, enough mudsharks will. Not to mention the easy cooch black men get from black foids.

As for cops, "murder" is an interesting way to say criminal gets killed in self-defense while committing a crime.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Like by decent looks I’m assuming unanimously agreed to be htn

I read it btw, and I’d still be decent looks without being nt. The reason is cuz it’s easy to switch in and out, one of the primary reasons people aren’t nt is BECAUSE of their looks, and especially true for me. Once u realize socializing isn’t a big deal, you’ll get over that mentally crutch of being an autist irl

I'm better at socializing than a lot of autists. Socializing in general at least.

The specific act of pursuing a foid, on the other hand, is cripplingly difficult for me.

 

[TheLightOfMyLife]

Even though most White foids won't fuck a black man, enough mudsharks will. Not to mention the easy cooch black men get from black foids.

As for cops, "murder" is an interesting way to say criminal gets killed in self-defense while committing a crime.

Women hate niggers

 

[Toad]

I'm autistic, White, have good looks, and a high IQ

Yet I'm an escortcel

You're not that smart. Certainly not smarter than I am

Good looks? Go rizz up a girl then, should be easy. Unless you're a spazz

 

[Toad]

I'm better at socializing than a lot of autists. Socializing in general at least.

The specific act of pursuing a foid, on the other hand, is cripplingly difficult for me.

Oh, so you're scared. Guessing you're a zoomer yah?

 

[rrm_ss2]

I had a male high school classmate who was fat, strange, ugly, and socially awkward.

Calling him strange is perhaps an understatement. He'd make comments in class about wanting to kill babies (and the teachers would brush it off as a joke)

Yet he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in high school (he kept her for 2 years). He then got a shorter-term girlfriend for the final few months of high school.

Next, he managed to get a long-term girlfriend in college (they were an item for at least 6 years or so)

None of these foids had good looks. But that doesn't change the fact he did surprisingly well with the ladies.

Here's where it becomes even more surprising: He's currently married to a skinny woman with good looks.

On the other hand, I have decent looks, yet am an escortcel.

The only difference I can think of (to explain his luck and my failure): Despite all of his baggage, he's at least neurotypical. I, on the other hand, am an autist.

not true. i have an autistic kid in my class thats 6,4 and a lot of girls talk to him

 

[White_Bwoi]

Boy, I could have fucked chubster MTB yesterday (based solely on my looks) and I refused to even do that jfl...
Do you think ugly fat socially awkward person would manage? Maybe familiarity theory play a role there, I think getting an LTR is an easiest thing in the world, but find a HQNP HTB+ is a challenge even for chad and we should strive for that rather than oofie doofie rage bait threads tbh

 

[BadLuck7892]

You're not that smart. Certainly not smarter than I am

Good looks? Go rizz up a girl then, should be easy. Unless you're a spazz

I have a hard time getting a woman because I struggle socially. Nothing to do with looks.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Oh, so you're scared. Guessing you're a zoomer yah?

I'm a Millennial. I'm 33.

 

[BadLuck7892]

not true. i have an autistic kid in my class thats 6,4 and a lot of girls talk to him

Probably because he's 6'4"

 

[Toad]

Boy, I could have fucked chubster MTB yesterday (based solely on my looks) and I refused to even do that jfl...
Do you think ugly fat socially awkward person would manage? Maybe familiarity theory play a role there, I think getting an LTR is an easiest thing in the world, but find a HQNP HTB+ is a challenge even for chad and we should strive for that rather than oofie doofie rage bait threads tbh

Chubster MTB? Sounds like a fun time. Unless you're a prude

 

[Toad]

I'm a Millennial. I'm 33.

Right, you're autistic. How's your sex drive? I'm guessing above average since you've resorted to escortcelling? What do your sessions with escorts look like?

How well did you do with girls in early adulthood vs now? Do you think being in your 30's factors into your perceived lack of success with the women you want?

Let's explore the inside of your head. For research purposes.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Right, you're autistic. How's your sex drive? I'm guessing above average since you've resorted to escortcelling? What do your sessions with escorts look like?

How well did you do with girls in early adulthood vs now? Do you think being in your 30's factors into your perceived lack of success with the women you want?

Let's explore the inside of your head. For research purposes.

My sex drive is a lot lower than it was 10 years ago. I still have a sex drive, however (hence the escorts). I don't fuck escorts tremendously often (I'd estimate maybe 2 dozen times per year)

As for what the sessions look like:

We have sex.

There's fondling.

Some are more talkative than others.

Some let me kiss; many don't (and there are some I don't want to kiss)

Most escorts suck on my sausage.

I like to watch the escort pee.

Some escorts have even gone out to eat with me (and they don't charge me for their time at dinner; they only charge me for the hour in the bedroom)

As for how well I did in early adulthood, I nailed 6 foids for free in 2012 alone.

It's certainly possible being 30+ plays a role in why I'm not as much of a success with foids now.

 

[Toad]

My sex drive is a lot lower than it was 10 years ago. I still have a sex drive, however (hence the escorts). I don't fuck escorts tremendously often (I'd estimate maybe 2 dozen times per year)

As for what the sessions look like:

We have sex.

There's fondling.

Some are more talkative than others.

Some let me kiss; many don't (and there are some I don't want to kiss)

Most escorts suck on my sausage.

I like to watch the escort pee.

Some escorts have even gone out to eat with me (and they don't charge me for their time at dinner; they only charge me for the hour in the bedroom)

As for how well I did in early adulthood, I nailed 6 foids for free in 2012 alone.

It's certainly possible being 30+ plays a role in why I'm not as much of a success with foids now.

Ehh, sounds to me like you're past your prime a bit. I think the same is happening to me.

We were successful when we were younger and now struggle in our older age because due to whatever unfortunate twist of fate we didn't get to settle down with anyone

Oldcels, pretty much. It is what it is

 

[BadLuck7892]

Ehh, sounds to me like you're past your prime a bit. I think the same is happening to me.

We were successful when we were younger and now struggle in our older age because due to whatever unfortunate twist of fate we didn't get to settle down with anyone

Oldcels, pretty much. It is what it is

Another factor at play (with me at least): I relied heavily on Craigslist for free sex in my youth.

Craigslist no longer allows sex ads. Unfortunately, while I have had a small amount of free sex outside of Craigslist, I never found a reliable alternative on an ongoing basis.

Additionally, as a result of getting a majority of my free sex from Craigslist, I never really learned how to escalate (With Craigslist, it's already implied you're getting laid. No need to escalate)

 

[Franco333]

Havent read the replies but i disagree

 

[Toad]

Another factor at play (with me at least): I relied heavily on Craigslist for free sex in my youth.

Craigslist no longer allows sex ads. Unfortunately, while I have had a small amount of free sex outside of Craigslist, I never found a reliable alternative on an ongoing basis.

Additionally, as a result of getting a majority of my free sex from Craigslist, I never really learned how to escalate (With Craigslist, it's already implied you're getting laid. No need to escalate)

Tbh, I almost never needed to escalate. Most of the girls I fucked, aggressively approached me. I've had to reject a few ngl. I've only ever had to put in work less than a handful of times, and only with white girls

 

[BadLuck7892]

Tbh, I almost never needed to escalate. Most of the girls I fucked, aggressively approached me. I've had to reject a few ngl. I've only ever had to put in work less than a handful of times, and only with white girls

Fascinating. The fact I've had hardly any free sex that wasn't from Craigslist goes to show foids don't aggressively pursue me (or if they do, my autism prevents me from realizing)

 

[the_machinist_786]

Textbook Oofy Doofy. However, if you think fat + ugly + socially awkward have equal chances in dating as an autist + GL then you are retarded.

 

[Foreverbrad]

Yeah if you are not NT you NEED to be top 10% for foids to look past it, otherwise it’s a crippling failo.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Textbook Oofy Doofy. However, if you think fat + ugly + socially awkward have equal chances in dating as an autist + GL then you are retarded.

I'm a good-looking autist. I know what I'm talking about when I say a fat, ugly, socially awkward (but at least neurotypical) guy has better chances than me at dating.

Not equal. Better.