iamnotagrey
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first if you're ugly, or just not very good looking stop reading. ok back to the guide
also this guide mostly applies if you're in school
1. Be Good Looking.
Fix all your health indicators and softmaxx. (Eyebags, Frizzy Hair, Pale Skin, Skin, Chapped Lips, Eyebrows, And Oral Hygiene are some I fixed.)
2. Clothing
Socially awkward people tend to wear comfy clothing which could make you look less approachable. To fix this get rep clothing and shoes (people will start calling you terms like "fly and trim")
Examples: Jordans (1,3,4,5,11), Balenciagas, New Balances, Asics, and Nike P-6000, Chrome Hearts, Essentials, Godspeed, Sp5der, Hellstar, and more. There's too many normie brands to list them all.
3. Presence
After u get ur reps, start "aura farming" and theres a chance someone will walk up to u saying "my friend thinks you look good/likes you"
How to "Aura Farm" correctly, first if you get really anxious when talking to someone or even walking by someone pockets are the best option. Hoodies or pants both work but preferably hoodie. It stops you from fidgeting which makes you look nervous. Second for example if a popular/loud person in your class says "yo would u get w my friend" you be like "idk" simple bro.
4. LARP.
Let's say you start talking to the person that said you look good (only because u look decent and have reps) asks what type of music you listen to. you say the following Jhene Aiko, Frank Ocean, Daniel Caesar, Drake, A Boogie, Hunxho, and so on.
5. Compliment People
If you see someone that has something that you think looks nice tell them that "yo i fuck w that/ur hoodie/outfit/hair" and so on. 95% of the time they'll say "preciate u" or "thank you" and dab you up. just like that you just made progress to being less awkward.
6. Overthinking
STOP ovverthinking every action you take same thing with every word you say. Obviously don't say some shit like "i'm more blacker than you" (Someone said this in my class and everyone went silent
.)
7. Humor
Do NOT force jokes. It will make everything awkward and you will start overthinking and fall back into your shy cave. If you find something funny laugh. Nobody will say anything, if they see you laughing the most they'll say is "see even they're laughing."
8. Hygiene
You can have the "flyest" fit in school but if you smell like shit I PROMISE anyone that smelled you is not forgetting that. The only way they forget is if it was a one time thing. But on the other hand if you've been smelling like cat piss for the whole school year, it's over. Also normies are like IN LOVE with tiktok hygiene, what i mean by this is if you have eOS lotion, women dove deoderant and 2 bodywashes, and more bullshit products it will make a good picture of you in their head. Another thing is nails, if you have long dirt filled nails and someone looks at them they will give you a bad look, and is a bad look on your part obviously.
9. Hair
your hair can carry ur whole look, and i know from experience
If you have straight hair, buy and use texture powder and get a low taper fade with a NORMAL lineup.
If you have curly/wavy hair buy your curl/wave pattern products and finger coil if you want to increase your chance of getting compliments. also get a TAPERED lineup.
If you have coily hair, I'd recommend getting braids, freeforms, or dreads. Basic I know but they're the best option and girls love it. tapered lineup aswell.
i have used these tips and they've all worked. i use to be very awkward in 6th grade but i'm now in 9th grade and can talk to almost everyone pretty effortless.
hope this helped
also this guide mostly applies if you're in school
1. Be Good Looking.
Fix all your health indicators and softmaxx. (Eyebags, Frizzy Hair, Pale Skin, Skin, Chapped Lips, Eyebrows, And Oral Hygiene are some I fixed.)
2. Clothing
Socially awkward people tend to wear comfy clothing which could make you look less approachable. To fix this get rep clothing and shoes (people will start calling you terms like "fly and trim")
Examples: Jordans (1,3,4,5,11), Balenciagas, New Balances, Asics, and Nike P-6000, Chrome Hearts, Essentials, Godspeed, Sp5der, Hellstar, and more. There's too many normie brands to list them all.
3. Presence
After u get ur reps, start "aura farming" and theres a chance someone will walk up to u saying "my friend thinks you look good/likes you"
How to "Aura Farm" correctly, first if you get really anxious when talking to someone or even walking by someone pockets are the best option. Hoodies or pants both work but preferably hoodie. It stops you from fidgeting which makes you look nervous. Second for example if a popular/loud person in your class says "yo would u get w my friend" you be like "idk" simple bro.
4. LARP.
Let's say you start talking to the person that said you look good (only because u look decent and have reps) asks what type of music you listen to. you say the following Jhene Aiko, Frank Ocean, Daniel Caesar, Drake, A Boogie, Hunxho, and so on.
5. Compliment People
If you see someone that has something that you think looks nice tell them that "yo i fuck w that/ur hoodie/outfit/hair" and so on. 95% of the time they'll say "preciate u" or "thank you" and dab you up. just like that you just made progress to being less awkward.
6. Overthinking
STOP ovverthinking every action you take same thing with every word you say. Obviously don't say some shit like "i'm more blacker than you" (Someone said this in my class and everyone went silent
.)7. Humor
Do NOT force jokes. It will make everything awkward and you will start overthinking and fall back into your shy cave. If you find something funny laugh. Nobody will say anything, if they see you laughing the most they'll say is "see even they're laughing."
8. Hygiene
You can have the "flyest" fit in school but if you smell like shit I PROMISE anyone that smelled you is not forgetting that. The only way they forget is if it was a one time thing. But on the other hand if you've been smelling like cat piss for the whole school year, it's over. Also normies are like IN LOVE with tiktok hygiene, what i mean by this is if you have eOS lotion, women dove deoderant and 2 bodywashes, and more bullshit products it will make a good picture of you in their head. Another thing is nails, if you have long dirt filled nails and someone looks at them they will give you a bad look, and is a bad look on your part obviously.
9. Hair
your hair can carry ur whole look, and i know from experience
If you have straight hair, buy and use texture powder and get a low taper fade with a NORMAL lineup.
If you have curly/wavy hair buy your curl/wave pattern products and finger coil if you want to increase your chance of getting compliments. also get a TAPERED lineup.
If you have coily hair, I'd recommend getting braids, freeforms, or dreads. Basic I know but they're the best option and girls love it. tapered lineup aswell.
i have used these tips and they've all worked. i use to be very awkward in 6th grade but i'm now in 9th grade and can talk to almost everyone pretty effortless.
hope this helped
