a point worth mentioning is that their close circle is mostly from elementary or middle school so ur gonna have a tough time getting close to them... their parents had them groomed to be friends with eachother when they were younger and as a result they dont invite new people into their close circle unless they're part of the football team or whatever
Yes, that’s also a very big part of it
They know, all the people know I can't go alone, if something happens is their fault, but idk the girls, I don't even care if they have hobbies, I never asked that, maybe because I don't care about what they like, that makes the conversation a lot boring
They're retarded, how that's popular?
Yes they’re boring, but I just want to say that if you don’t share interests, and u don’t even try to talk about it with them. And if you don’t get invited to their parties, you’re not apart of them.
They’re popular among the normies
i dont fucking know??? they js do it to fit in in their own social group is what im guessing and they all must be pretending to laugh because not a single atom in my body was even inclined to let out a chuckle when those mfs scream like sped kids in the damn halls frying their lungs out
i believe a good rule is to js not care abt ppl who u dont share interests with... i used to worry about fitting in with the popular kids but i js realized i should find my crowd and ppl who r like me instead of trying to fit some other people
Yea, honestly I don’t really care about getting to know them. I just want to stay neutral, which I probably am, I’m different but I’m not some shy loser, and I speak to basically everyone and have no real problem socialising(as long as it’s 1on1 with them)
damn ur just like me
You don't need to share interests, you need to be good looking and tall, that's the requirement, not sharing interests, you can see it, sharing interests works, but not too much
Ahh, that makes sense
however normie parties aren’t as fun as popular kid parties, if you have experienced both u know.
i mean rlly u js need to maintain basic hygiene and groom urself... i've seen a guy with the sub5 face from that chart thats spammed everywhere pull an htb because i assume its because hes on the baseball team or whatever and he has a good haircut
Maybe that's why, they need to create their own social group because they're too retard to get into a normal or popular, they can't be popular, it's impossible, they're too stupid and don't make any sense what they do
Not really the case in my school, or in any school. I am taller and look better than many popular kids, they don’t really care about that. As long as you’re not a dwarf or a subhuman and you share interests with them and have strong extroversion you could join them
somehow they are popular though, i seen em talk with everybody in the school as friends
Yea, all popular dudes no matter looks or height have no problem getting girls. It’s all about status during your youth
yea basically if u cant fix ur bone structure then js groom urself and hygiene and pray ur good at some sport
It's not a haircut, it helps, but not, maybe status, money or he just know how to talk to a women, but to fit in a real popular group you need to be handsome and tall, like HTN at least, idk why they're good looking
Fr, basically all the popular ppl either play ice hockey or soccer. They get to know people from there, and since those sports are the biggest in my country they get more friends and fit in better
Well it depends, if you're too ND or high inhib, that happens, idk why you need to be a clone, where are you from?
No that’s not true at all lmao, you have no idea how it works. Being popular is all about status and social skills, barely snything to do with looks or height
Im not saying I want to be a clone. But if you’re ND or have high inhib, simply exposing yourself won’t lead to them becoming your friends. Atleast not outside of school. I’m from Northern Europe
ehhh i'd say contrary to what this forum believes you dont need to be an htn because i see this lmtn fatass kid who is popular because hes got the trendiest clothes, hes got a really type of extroverted haircut, and he js talks about anything, but none of his takes r rlly that deep i've only heard him talk abt shallow stories but he is well known and liked everywhere
That's because that it's really easy, it's just talking, a small talk, just find another time talk more and repeat, I hope it's that, or your entire school is retarded
then my school is retarded because i've seen them hang around everywhere with people in my school, it aint just a classmate type of thing for them, its a friend thing
They're tall or good looking, sometimes both, it's not just status and be low inhib, they can't obtain a girl with that shit just a bitch who want status or money
Maybe not their friends, but it helps, trying you loose nothing, you can, but idk how
Looks and height helps because it makes it easier to fit in. But you can be short and ugly with high status and low inhib and fit in. You’re wrong to think looks and height is everything, that’s the typical org bs. Teenage girls especially like high status. And money matters yea but it’s not a lot you can do, it’s mostly who your parents are
I have some popular friends, in school. And yes talking helps but I don’t get invited to parties by them. If you want to somehow fit in with the popular people you need to put on an act, you need to switch schools to somewhere where nobody knows you, and act popular there, dress as everyone else, talk to everyone, don’t be weird etc
Just bitches, not woman's, money, status, that is important, but to be real popular you need to be handsome and tall, not just in your school, outside, in others schools, with a lot of people
Yeah, basically, I can't explain, maybe low inhib, they seems good and they connect easy and fast with people, idk
Just in school, try outside, and they don't want money, maybe a little, but they want the status, and these are bitches, not women's
Yes, it’s basically all about status in school that’s what I’m saying
Try to connect more with them, play videogames, talk more, be with them a lot in the school, switching school helps, but you can't change, your not going to do it, just seems like you did, but you're not, if you're like that, a new year, a new school or whatever isn't going to help you
But you need to obtain it, contacts, money, looks, height, all helps
