Being introvert affects more than the looks?

[cartman_1]

I don't have too much success with women, I tried to improve my looks but idk if is that or that I am just very introvert and they don't like that, I think that I look good sometimes, but I see that other persons have gf and girls and are bad looking, they are ltb o mtb at most, but idk how to be more extroverted or more attractive, I'm like 5'11 or 6 feet and that don't apparent to help, idk what I need to do.

 

[Petsmart]

Yeah you need to talk more

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

I don't have too much success with women, I tried to improve my looks but idk if is that or that I am just very introvert and they don't like that, I think that I look good sometimes, but I see that other persons have gf and girls and are bad looking, they are ltb o mtb at most, but idk how to be more extroverted or more attractive, I'm like 5'11 or 6 feet and that don't apparent to help, idk what I need to do.

Maybe your autistic or a locational like me

Sometimes your location can be your Kryptonite

I realise this when I went on holiday 2 years ago and saw how well I do with women that aren’t from the UK. Turns out the issue is British women not me


Maybe you have the same thing

 

[cartman_1]

I forgot to put that when I talk to them, they look happy or comfy, idk, maybe the problems is more my personality, but idk how to change that, I always be like that

 

[ImSomeone]

Can’t make a goal if you don’t shoot

 

[cartman_1]

Maybe your autistic or a locational like me

Sometimes your location can be your Kryptonite

I realise this when I went on holiday 2 years ago and saw how well I do with women that aren’t from the UK. Turns out the issue is British women not me


Maybe you have the same thing

I was going to 2 psychologists when I was a kid, and they thinked that I have asperger and giftedness, the same all the teachers in elementary school, but I never been diagnosed

 

[Y30p]

I forgot to put that when I talk to them, they look happy or comfy, idk, maybe the problems is more my personality, but idk how to change that, I always be like that

yeah bro its personality...

 

[cartman_1]

Can’t make a goal if you don’t shoot

But how? I feel literally scared to talk to them because I think they are going to reject me and that they will make fun of me, it happened sometimes when I was a child and that affected a little

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

But how? I feel literally scared to talk to them because I think they are going to reject me and that they will make fun of me, it happened sometimes when I was a child and that affected a little

Yea I’m the same. I live in the united shitdom and I myself have given up with women here no point tbh none what’s so ever. I relate to you u don’t even bother cos I’m scared to even speak to them man

Funny thing is if they are foreigners ill
Be more bubbly and open to shoot my shot but if they aren’t I won’t even bother no point wasting time with the local women here theh are all fucked

 

[16OO]

this is so true especially in school

 

[Peubert]

I feel literally scared to talk to them because I think they are going to reject me and that they will make fun of me,

ur actions or whatever u say doesnt define you, if they dont like u when u speak ur mind then theyre the issue

 

[cartman_1]

Yea I’m the same. I live in the united shitdom and I myself have given up with women here no point tbh none what’s so ever. I relate to you u don’t even bother cos I’m scared to even speak to them man

Funny thing is if they are foreigners ill
Be more bubbly and open to shoot my shot but if they aren’t I won’t even bother no point wasting time with the local women here theh are all fucked

Sorry for answering later, but yeah, with girls of my age it's complicated sometimes and the personality and money counts a lot more than I imagined, but masking as a fake NT makes it a lot better, but with women more mature, foreign girls and some girls of my country it's a little more easy, but yeah, it's like they can see if you are ND or not

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Sorry for answering later, but yeah, with girls of my age it's complicated sometimes and the personality and money counts a lot more than I imagined, but masking as a fake NT makes it a lot better, but with women more mature, foreign girls and some girls of my country it's a little more easy, but yeah, it's like they can see if you are ND or not

Just go for non western women

Save yourself the heartache brother

 

[cartman_1]

Just go for non western women

Save yourself the heartache brother

Sadly in my country it's like impossible to find them, all the immigrants are Caribbean, from USA or other country's, but all are westerns

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Sadly in mo country it's like impossible to find them, all the immigrants are Caribbean, from USA or other country's, but all are westerns

Whey live ? If you can’t do that try to get money and passprt max women in your nation don’t like u so fucking ignore them and go get new hoes from elsewhere


Go abroad and get a wife from another nation. I myself am gonna do this

 

[subhuman1996]

Maybe I’m just too retarted but I don’t think you would be struggling socially if you’re good looking enough

 

[cartman_1]

Whey live ? If you can’t do that try to get money and passprt max women in your nation don’t like u so fucking ignore them and go get new hoes from elsewhere


Go abroad and get a wife from another nation. I myself am gonna do this

It maybe can work, it's better but for future, now I think to start trading or doing something to earn some money, that can make it easier than just put a lot of effort trying to be someone that who I am not

 

[cartman_1]

Maybe I’m just too retarted but I don’t think you would be struggling socially if you’re good looking enough

The problem is that I don't talk to them, I sometimes scarred to talk to them and sometimes they approach and looks happy and nice talking towards me, but it's like they want you to approach or they think that if you look good, you need to be NT, extroverted and talk a lot, it's difficult to find someone that can understand these thing and she approach instead of me

 

[cartman_1]

Maybe I’m just too retarted but I don’t think you would be struggling socially if you’re good looking enough

I learned something that maybe can be wrong, but if you are at least HTN they are comfy with you, even if you are ND, they just take that funny and if you are quiet they like that, but they want you to approach to them, you need to talk to them, and be more social and extroverted, in resume is that they like you being nd or introverted if you are at least htn, but in deep they want you to approach to them, it's strange to explain I think, I hope this can be understood and clear enough

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

It maybe can work, it's better but for future, now I think to start trading or doing something to earn some money, that can make it easier than just put a lot of effort trying to be someone that who I am not

Yes it’s better cos your nation isn’t gonna work there’s no way girls will ever like you where you are unless your just fat and really need to improve but the idiots here who get surgery are low IQ because the money they WASTE on that shit they could use to fly abroad and get a girl in another nation for free easily who will actually like them. With 20k in your account you could like like an Roman emperor in Philippines for example

Don’t let thee idiots tell you otherwise

 

[filthycurrycel]

you can never go back from being ND

its a curse, ive had it for so long \
maybe just douse it out with substances and alcohol

 

[filthycurrycel]

Yes it’s better cos your nation isn’t gonna work there’s no way girls will ever like you where you are unless your just fat and really need to improve but the idiots here who get surgery are low IQ because the money they WASTE on that shit they could use to fly abroad and get a girl in another nation for free easily who will actually like them. With 20k in your account you could like like an Roman emperor in Philippines for example

Don’t let thee idiots tell you otherwise

the ethnic shit is mad funny bro

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

the ethnic shit is mad funny bro

If your Indian from India and live there it very well may be over 4 u tbh


Only just read your name now

 

[filthycurrycel]

If your Indian from India and live there it very well may be over 4 u tbh


Only just read your name now

naw boss

can always get arrange married wit a ltb/mtb

also i dont live in india anymore

 

[cartman_1]

Sí, es mejor porque tu país no va a funcionar, no hay manera de que las chicas se fijen en ti donde estás a menos que estés gordo y realmente necesites mejorar, pero los idiotas de aquí que se operan tienen un coeficiente intelectual bajo porque el dinero que DESPERDICIAN en esa mierda podrían usarlo para viajar al extranjero y conseguir una chica en otro país gratis fácilmente a la que sí le gusten. Con 20.000 en tu cuenta podrías gustarle a un emperador romano en Filipinas, por ejemplo.

No dejes que esos idiotas te digan lo contrario.

I like the idea, it's a lot easier, but I want something for now, but I can star saving and investing some money, I have the opportunity to have the French or Spanish passport but I need to save some money because it's a little costly to have one, at least the French, they are more strict

 

[cartman_1]

you can never go back from being ND

its a curse, ive had it for so long \
maybe just douse it out with substances and alcohol

I'm going to try using a "mask", faking an extroverted NT, to see if that changes something, I never had no options for partner, just the lasts years are more complicated, but idk if someone it's attracted or not because I literally can't see it, even if it's too obvious, but if that work, I'm going to sub a guide of how can I faked that and if that's works or if it's just looks

 

[filthycurrycel]

I'm going to try using a "mask", faking an extroverted NT, to see if that changes something, I never had no options for partner, just the lasts years are more complicated, but idk if someone it's attracted or not because I literally can't see it, even if it's too obvious, but if that work, I'm going to sub a guide of how can I faked that and if that's works or if it's just looks

yes that may work

 

[fedecope]

yh but if you were chad you would talk naturally

 

[cartman_1]

yh but if you were chad you would talk naturally

It depends more on genetics, if you're ND it's a lot worse than being a LTN, I see a lot of LTN's having more girls than me in my all entire life (that it's not too much), the most near thing to that you say is the approaching to you, but a lot don't want nd people for a reaso

 

[fedecope]

It depends more on genetics, if you're ND it's a lot worse than being a LTN, I see a lot of LTN's having more girls than me in my all entire life (that it's not too much), the most near thing to that you say is the approaching to you, but a lot don't want nd people for a reaso

i feel you… i’m an nd ltn

 

[nopeguy8]

I don't have too much success with women, I tried to improve my looks but idk if is that or that I am just very introvert and they don't like that, I think that I look good sometimes, but I see that other persons have gf and girls and are bad looking, they are ltb o mtb at most, but idk how to be more extroverted or more attractive, I'm like 5'11 or 6 feet and that don't apparent to help, idk what I need to do.

yea bro i have the same issue

most of the times the LTNS who have girls have insane smv and the only way to attain it is to be socially open

social anxiety and neurodivergence is such a nerf

i swear if i wasnt a pussy and put myself out there i could get a lmtb girlfriend at best even when i tell my friends at school about a girl i like, they all say that i have a guaranteed success if i were to even cold approach, which IMO is probably not true allat of the times mfs will hype you up for no reason

 

[cartman_1]

i feel you… i’m an nd ltn

You can fix your looks and reach MTN at least or more with surgery, but the most hard part it's being a ND, covering that it's really hard because you don't feel good faking your personality and lapping like a NT, but you can try slowly and seeing guides and you can have more girls for example. Yeah, the looks matter, but being ND is worse than being ltn, even if you are a ltn you can have a ltb, mtb o inclusive a htb if you know how to pull, but in most part the personality matters more because they see being ND weird, even if you are a CL or HTN, in both cases you are only "funny", but it's a lees complicated, but no too less, the ND weighs a lot, sorry if something is wrong, the English it's not my first language

 

[cartman_1]

yea bro i have the same issue

most of the times the LTNS who have girls have insane smv and the only way to attain it is to be socially open

social anxiety and neurodivergence is such a nerf

i swear if i wasnt a pussy and put myself out there i could get a lmtb girlfriend at best even when i tell my friends at school about a girl i like, they all say that i have a guaranteed success if i were to even cold approach, which IMO is probably not true allat of the times mfs will hype you up for no reason

You can try, just try to not think, literally, try to be distracted with other things until you are in front of her, that helps something to me, but idk, you can even have a mtb or htb if you’re social skills are really good, its a little hard try to ignore what you feel, but you can try sometimes to approach someone random, speak to them a little to be less anxious about speak with others or in my case with girls, not all, only some that are really cute, very extroverted or with a good status.

 

[fedecope]

You can fix your looks and reach MTN at least or more with surgery, but the most hard part it's being a ND, covering that it's really hard because you don't feel good faking your personality and lapping like a NT, but you can try slowly and seeing guides and you can have more girls for example. Yeah, the looks matter, but being ND is worse than being ltn, even if you are a ltn you can have a ltb, mtb o inclusive a htb if you know how to pull, but in most part the personality matters more because they see being ND weird, even if you are a CL or HTN, in both cases you are only "funny", but it's a lees complicated, but no too less, the ND weighs a lot

yeah youre totally right but i have multiple mental disorders so thats gonna be hard. and not being yourself is never the way.

sorry if something is wrong, the English it's not my first language

its ok dw

 

[WilhelmThyWizard]

I don't have too much success with women, I tried to improve my looks but idk if is that or that I am just very introvert and they don't like that, I think that I look good sometimes, but I see that other persons have gf and girls and are bad looking, they are ltb o mtb at most, but idk how to be more extroverted or more attractive, I'm like 5'11 or 6 feet and that don't apparent to help, idk what I need to do.

Weak eye area, prettyboy

 

[nopeguy8]

You can try, just try to not think, literally, try to be distracted with other things until you are in front of her, that helps something to me, but idk, you can even have a mtb or htb if you’re social skills are really good, its a little hard try to ignore what you feel, but you can try sometimes to approach someone random, speak to them a little to be less anxious about speak with others or in my case with girls, not all, only some that are really cute, very extroverted or with a good status.

alright bro, thx for the advice.

the girl i want is introverted like me i think, she doesnt speak a lot and is very quiet, would you think that approaching her would be easier than just approaching the average girl, who tends to be very social?