Being low-trust looking is terrible.

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There is a massive list of expectations placed on you and your behavior. Many of which will lead to social-rejection when not navigated properly.

I cannot begin to explain how bad it is to live with my looks.
 
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There is a massive list of expectation placed on you and your behavior. Many of which will lead to social-rejection when not navigated properly.

I cannot begin to explain how bad it is to live with my looks.
you joined 2 years ago, couldnt save up for surgery since???
 
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It places a lot of responsibility on you, often unrightfully so.

It's a very lonely life.
 
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downturned mouth twin💔
 
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i have a youthful bone strcuture :)feelswhy:) which is high trust but i have shit health indicators which is low trust
 
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i have narrow mouth and downturned :feelsuhh:
 
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i have a youthful bone strcuture :)feelswhy:) which is high trust but i have shit health indicators which is low trust
worst of both worlds 💔💔
 
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There is a massive list of expectation placed on you and your behavior. Many of which will lead to social-rejection when not navigated properly.
true ngl,
I cannot begin to explain how bad it is to live with my looks.

cope, nigga even @anthony111553 would say you are high mtn.

incel, the mental health of yours isn't very good, innit? If you were NT you would slay dead serious~

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true ngl,


cope, nigga even @anthony111553 would say you are high mtn.

incel, the mental health of yours isn't very good, innit? If you were NT you would slay dead serious~

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@Zagro @itzyaboyJJ @moggerofhumanity
idk what i'd rate him now, but didn't he fuck up his eye or something
 
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downturned mouth twin💔
i have narrow mouth and downturned :feelsuhh:
We look like Hitmen
hitman-web.jpg

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The expectations placed on our emotions and resulting behavior is extremely high.
We can't afford to ever show weakness, ever be weak.

There is no situation in which we can be ourselves, because there is always immense pressure to be something else.
 
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We look like Hitmen
hitman-web.jpg

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The expectations placed on our emotions and resulting behavior is extremely high.
We can't afford to ever show weakness, ever be weak.

There is no situation in which we can be ourselves, because there is always immense pressure to be something else.
atleast you look masc, it fits u

i just look like a sex offender
 
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true ngl,


cope, nigga even @anthony111553 would say you are high mtn.

incel, the mental health of yours isn't very good, innit? If you were NT you would slay dead serious~

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I can't be NT with my looks because then the looks would be wasted.
 
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You dont even look low trust

More like medium trust

And you look good btw giga mentalcel if your ramblings are true
 
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atleast you look masc, it fits u

i just look like a sex offender
masc looks comes with masc expectations. its hard to live it.

what do u look like
 
You dont even look low trust

More like medium trust

And you look good btw giga mentalcel if your ramblings are true
Come to DM
 
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You dont even look low trust

More like medium trust

And you look good btw giga mentalcel if your ramblings are true
nah im lowTrust. My face is a textbook representation of what a 'lowtrust' face looks like
 
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hoes love it doe
 
masc looks comes with masc expectations. its hard to live it.

what do u look like
downturned mouth, normal bite but recessed, average bones and eye area, swedish pig nose, brown hair/eyes

i need lip filler to fix the downturn and rhino + jaw filler then i should be good though
 
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I would trust you to babysit my kids
 
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I would trust you to rape @REGULUS
 
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downturned mouth, normal bite but recessed, average bones and eye area, swedish pig nose, brown hair/eyes

i need lip filler to fix the downturn and rhino + jaw filler then i should be good though
Everything i've done to make myself look higher-trust hasn't led to higher life-quality imo.

But it's an interesting path to take. Will you change your looks or change your behavior
 
Low trust mogs. You just have low T right now.
 
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Everything i've done to make myself look higher-trust hasn't led to higher life-quality imo.

But it's an interesting path to take. Will you change your looks or change your behavior
i need to fix my looks anyway, being low trust isnt the biggest of worries for me
 
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true ngl,


cope, nigga even @anthony111553 would say you are high mtn.

incel, the mental health of yours isn't very good, innit? If you were NT you would slay dead serious~

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nigga your text with those big fonts fill up the thread
 
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I would trust you to babysit my kids
Cope.
Women don't even trust me to be faithful in a relationship.

The expectation of me cheating on them is there from the very first moment
 
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Yes high trust is essential. No girl is going to want to come to your house off dating apps if you look like you’re gonna go crazy. Need to be high trust + have robust pretty boy looks with some feminine facial features and mostly masculine features to slay the most. When I refer to feminine features I’m mostly referring to nice eyes, full lips, not too big of a nose, and nice skin.
 
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Yes high trust is essential. No girl is going to want to come to your house off dating apps if you look like you’re gonna go crazy. Need to be high trust + have robust pretty boy looks with some feminine facial features and mostly masculine features to slay the most. When I refer to feminine features I’m mostly referring to nice eyes, full lips, not too big of a nose, and nice skin.
is less wide more important
 
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Yes high trust is essential. No girl is going to want to come to your house off dating apps if you look like you’re gonna go crazy. Need to be high trust + have robust pretty boy looks with some feminine facial features and mostly masculine features to slay the most. When I refer to feminine features I’m mostly referring to nice eyes, full lips, not too big of a nose, and nice skin.
Uglyiam

I am not ugly, but I look low-trust.
A life with these looks has very specific, individual needs for it to thrive: As in lifestyle, social-circles and personality.

There's so many expectations and stereotyping placed on you when you look like this. I find it hard to fullfill these expectations.
I would personally also struggle to trust someone who looked like me.

I am a kind soul and would never hurt anyone, but I realize that the outside world will never think of me like this.

And that puts a lot of pain and pressure on my existence.
 
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When u look low trust u gotta be assertive. It helps with women. Women wont like assertive men if they look high trust and cuck.
With guys u gotta be respectful to avoid resentment. But be a bit confident. They'll believe you
 
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We look like Hitmen
hitman-web.jpg

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The expectations placed on our emotions and resulting behavior is extremely high.
We can't afford to ever show weakness, ever be weak.

There is no situation in which we can be ourselves, because there is always immense pressure to be something else.
classic hollywood star looks
 
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I am not ugly, but I look low-trust.
A life with these looks has very specific, individual needs for it to thrive: As in lifestyle, social-circles and personality.

There's so many expectations and stereotyping placed on you when you look like this. I find it hard to fullfill these expectations.
I would personally also struggle to trust someone who looked like me.

I am a kind soul and would never hurt anyone, but I realize that the outside world will never think of me like this.

And that puts a lot of pain and pressure on my existence.
You’re not defined by you looking low trust. You look more like a pretty boy with your hair the way it is now. I think you should keep it like that or atleast similar. Well I’ve seen your ex GF and she actually looked pretty similar to you.

I know you don’t want to hurt anyone. I think you’d have more success in real life then online dating because any kind of friendly mannerisms you’d have would do something to offset your low trust looks. Online it’s all obviously based on face and if you look low trust on dating apps then women will be skeptical about meeting you even if you’re attractive.
 
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People are allergic to me. I probably look low trust as well
 
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When u look low trust u gotta be assertive. It helps with women. Women wont like assertive men if they look high trust and cuck.
With guys u gotta be respectful to avoid resentment. But be a bit confident. They'll believe you
Yeah I agree, you are right. But I think it touches upon what I talk about in this topic that a lot of pressure/expectation is placed on you.

I need to be more assertive with women since they have this expectation of me that I am confident and know what I want (her).
But then I also need to be more assertive with men to make them feel more comfortable with me and constantly remove resentment and other potential fears/pains.
Basically I have to make a constant fight, a constant effort, to remove looks-founded doubts, fears about me. I have to make a constant effort to fullfill expectations, else people will make the worst assumptions about me, based on my looks.

I think right now the struggle I have is that I refuse to accept the role given to me based on my looks. I refuse to explain to people that I can be trusted, that I am trustworthy. I refuse to put in constant effort to make men feel more comfortable around me, to make women feel more appreciated around me.(safe aint an option).

This is a mistake.

I can't afford to be passive with my looks, I have to constantly disprove people's negative assumptions about me.
And this is fine. This is part of life.

I need to adapt to my looks
 
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Yeah I agree, you are right. But I think it touches upon what I talk about in this topic that a lot of pressure/expectation is placed on you.

I need to be more assertive with women since they have this expectation of me that I am confident and know what I want (her).
But then I also need to be more assertive with men to make them feel more comfortable with me and constantly remove resentment and other potential fears/pains.
Basically I have to make a constant fight, a constant effort, to remove looks-founded doubts, fears about me. I have to make a constant effort to fullfill expectations, else people will make the worst assumptions about me, based on my looks.

I think right now the struggle I have is that I refuse to accept the role given to me based on my looks. I refuse to explain to people that I can be trusted, that I am trustworthy. I refuse to put in constant effort to make men feel more comfortable around me, to make women feel more appreciated around me.(safe aint an option).

This is a mistake.

I can't afford to be passive with my looks, I have to constantly disprove people's negative assumptions about me.
And this is fine. This is part of life.
I relate, and think it stems from childhood bullying in my case at least. Any kid with a more masculine pheno or height is going to be immediately shit tested by nt and rich kids and if you fail it just sets you up as a huge bully target/outcast for others to status boost off of. Managing to get girls in that situation actually works against you too.

Then you grow into your looks and are expected to have had normal development and not a decade+ of abused dog treatment but at this point your brain is permanently fucked.
 
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You’re not defined by you looking low trust. You look more like a pretty boy with your hair the way it is now. I think you should keep it like that or atleast similar.
As in I should keep a longer goofy hairstyle like curtains to look higher-trust? I find this difficult.
Recently I've been experimenting with a pony-tail hairstyle, but I realize it looks lower-trust again since it looks more clean/neat. But it fits my face beter.
Well I’ve seen your ex GF and she actually looked pretty similar to you.
Yeah I agree. My ex-gf looked like a sister to me ngl. But it doesn't really mean much.
I know you don’t want to hurt anyone.
Thanks. It means a lot for me that some people can realize that I am not as bad as I look. I have never hurt anyone, despite looking like I do.
I think you’d have more success in real life then online dating because any kind of friendly mannerisms you’d have would do something to offset your low trust looks. Online it’s all obviously based on face and if you look low trust on dating apps then women will be skeptical about meeting you even if you’re attractive.
Yeah I agree with you, but IRL I would still need that assertiveness to succeed since people won't engage with me. This is still lacking on a deeper level.
As in: I approach people and mess around with people on a surface-level, but then fail to turn that into another meetup, friendship, etc.

And that is incredibly difficult for me to do in my situation. Putting in that extra effort for those deeper connection when you don't feel welcome or accepted.
 
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As in I should keep a longer goofy hairstyle like curtains to look higher-trust? I find this difficult.
Recently I've been experimenting with a pony-tail hairstyle, but I realize it looks lower-trust again since it looks more clean/neat. But it fits my face beter.

Yeah I agree. My ex-gf looked like a sister to me ngl. But it doesn't really mean much.

Thanks. It means a lot for me that some people can realize that I am not as bad as I look. I have never hurt anyone, despite looking like I do.

Yeah I agree with you, but IRL I would still need that assertiveness to succeed since people won't engage with me. This is still lacking on a deeper level.
As in: I approach people and mess around with people on a surface-level, but then fail to turn that into another meetup, friendship, etc.

And that is incredibly difficult for me to do in my situation. Putting in that extra effort for those deeper connection when you don't feel welcome or accepted.
I think you should keep it in the style shown in the photo you uploaded before. I think it makes you look more like a pretty boy than your typical longer style. The lion has shed his mane. I think it’s a failo for men to have longer hairstyles or styles typically associated with females like ponytails and such. Some guys can pull it off but I think women prefer shorter. Not necessarily saying their opinion matters more than what you prefer but I think a shorter style like the way you have to now is good.

I think the bangs in the front kind of give a pretty boy look. Ideal to bring more of a younger look to yourself imo.

I think your lack of wanting to follow up on possible friendships/relationships could be indicative of other problems you’re facing like a fear of failing or something else. Unless you’re trying to say they just don’t want to hang out or explore a friendship that is deeper than surface level.

You’re a cool enough dude you can find people who like you who want to have a deeper friendship. To be honest with you though most of my friendships are weird. I don’t talk to anyone regularly but I know that even if I don’t message my friends or reach out to them for over a year they will still be my friend when I do decide to reach out.

I think women need to talk regularly to be friends. Men can go months or years and still pick up where they last left off. Maybe I’m projecting but that’s at-least how I feel. I know you can make good friends that give value to your life and will want to hang out.
 
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I relate, and think it stems from childhood bullying in my case at least. Any kid with a more masculine pheno or height is going to be immediately shit tested by nt and rich kids and if you fail it just sets you up as a huge bully target/outcast for others to status boost off of. Managing to get girls in that situation actually works against you too.

Then you grow into your looks and are expected to have had normal development and not a decade+ of abused dog treatment but at this point your brain is permanently fucked.
Yeah it's very relatable.
I was very big/masc/tall, but also very poor, and also ugly, also low-status household. People had a lot of issues with me for no real reason.

Now I grew into my looks and people expect me to have had a good childhood, being treated well, lots of sexual experience, confidence, etc.

I am dealing with a lot of expectations which are completely different from how I feel internally.
 
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Already temple baldness before 30s..

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And bro is still thinking whether or not to marry that 6'0 19 year old girl..

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the worst is looking low-trust and being agreeable. You can see the visible confusion on peoples face when you start speaking

i feel like for it to work for us, you have to play into the act. but alas it's hard/somewhat cringe to fake it
 
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