being NT and having a social circle is everything.

[ChaddestLite]

It's the reason average dudes I know have hot gfs and no they aren't betabuxxing.

Admit it, looks aren't everything.

 

[Deleted member 2486]

this forum will never admit this

it only like to think in extremes for the dramatic tone

life is not that dramatic or exciting

 

[HardMewer]

Everything is important.

Face matters.Height matters.Frame and Body matters.Personality matters.Status matters.
If you are severely lacking in any of these you will struggle with girls.

 

[Thief Dave]

It's how most normies get laid in the first place. It's also how they rebound so fast from relationships. Ever seen some 5/10 balding manlet break up from his LTR and then within a month he's in a relationship again? He got it from his social circle and his brofags pushing him to "get back out there again".

 

[Darth Cialis]

NT game is legit but autism has become an epidemic.

 

[Eduardo DOV]

what is NT??
yeah having a social circle is legit

but fck it i just want to improve my looks and walk out lookin better lol

 

[Chadelite]

this forum will never admit this

it only like to think in extremes for the dramatic tone

life is not that dramatic or exciting

yeah, a lot of these people could have a gf, but they don't leave their basement, or they don't talk to people in general.

 

[Darth Cialis]

yeah, a lot of these people could have a gf, but they don't leave their basement, or they don't talk to people in general.

It's not simply about leaving your basement, it's about being a fish out of the water.

 

[GhastlyGhoul]

Men are supposed to be a complete package for women. They want an all in 1 deal to to satisfied. When you lack manly aspects in your life, women steer away.

It's not simply about leaving your basement, it's about being a fish out of the water.

Exactly. Socializing is almost impossible for many guys here. I can barely do it but unfortunately I have to pretend being nt all the time now because of looksmax.

Now that I've ascended a couple points, I find myself acting really nervous in public because now hot women stare and people love chatting with me on the streets.
That sounds really good doesn't it? Well I like it but I feel overwhelmed, I don't know how to deal with attention or small talk.

I feel under pressure just walking downtown, no one used to look at me at all a couple months ago. Life was easier as an incel.

 

[Deleted member 795]

nah, it is just looks...

 

[Deleted member 245]

It's the reason average dudes I know have hot gfs and no they aren't betabuxxing.

Admit it, looks aren't everything.

I rarely see this.

 

[Deleted member 534]

Ever realized that good looking people are always popular?

No one wants to be friend with ugly people JFL

I rarely see this.

Same tbh

I have only seen one dude

 

[Zygos4Life]

what is NT??
yeah having a social circle is legit

but fck it i just want to improve my looks and walk out lookin better lol

YOU FINALLY ADMIT THAT YOU SHOULD BE IMPROVING YOUR FACE RATHER THAN YOUR SHOULDERS

 

[Eduardo DOV]

YOU FINALLY ADMIT THAT YOU SHOULD BE IMPROVING YOUR FACE RATHER THAN YOUR SHOULDERS

looks = all body, lol.

 

[Zygos4Life]

looks = all body, lol.

Mainly face
Frame is cope
Height is important but not as important as face

 

[Eduardo DOV]

Mainly face
Frame is cope
Height is important but not as important as face

I totally agree with you that face is more important.

in my face i'd change my chin and nose.
frame is not cope, frame gives u more presence. ur blind if u dont see this.

 

[Zeta ascended]

Admit it, looks aren't everything.

Yeah looks aren't everything but people will treat you better being psl 6 than being sub 4. I myself have been so far below on the looks hierarchy that I used to be constantly bullied in school. Now I just want to be slightly above average in looks with a gymcelled body. That's as far as I can go tbh.

 

[Alexanderr]

It's the reason average dudes I know have hot gfs

I doubt it.

 

[MammothActuary]

Looks are the base form of attraction but personality still matters, yes. As I said before, looking like an MM is extremely rare and this site rates too harshly. The average guys you are seeing are probably above average.

 

[norwoodreaper]

cope.
looks is everything
and how do you know these guys arent betabuxxing?

 

[Lorsss]

It's the reason average dudes I know have hot gfs and no they aren't betabuxxing.

Admit it, looks aren't everything.

Social circle and being NT is important because average and below average men have 0 chances in dating on Tinder and instagram.

So flirting with mutual friends is the only way to get laid, with girls who don't look for a partner on social media

 

[ChaddestLite]

cope.
looks is everything
and how do you know these guys arent betabuxxing?

Because I know them personally and are all early twenties guys who don't have it made.

Average looking, not ugly but play sports and have social circle etc and have hot gfs

 

[wristcel]

Can confirm.
Being handsome makes it 10x easier, but I've known TONNES of guys bang girls out of their league from like work, college, MMA classes etc etc. I think it's to do with building so much comfort and increases your odds of being in the right place at the right time, like on a night out and the hot girl in your group is out with you and has just been dumped and you're all at some private works event getting drunk and in that moment she decides she wants you
To pull from cold approach and stuff you need looks. No argument there
But if you have a big social circle and you are around hot girls everyday, and you have average looks with a good personality, it's super common to bang hot girls.

But the whole social circle thing in itself isn't as easy as it sounds! Not many guys I know have access to tonnes of hot girls. Most guys just work mainly with men, their friends are all men, and they don't do much socially to even meet girls really

 

[Nordic]

I've methodically worked to improve both my appearance and my behaviour/friends/social circle in the past. The former of the problems proved to be the easier of the two, contrary to popular opinion.

 

[Deleted member 1707]

what is NT??
yeah having a social circle is legit

but fck it i just want to improve my looks and walk out lookin better lol

NT = Normie thinking

 

[Deleted member 1089]

Looks is everything

 

[autistic_tendencies]

It won’t do anything if the mates in the group don’t take you serious and the girls think you’re ugly

 

[LowTierNormie]

It's the reason average dudes I know have hot gfs and no they aren't betabuxxing.

Admit it, looks aren't everything.

This. Fucking this.
A lot of us would get some pussy if we had social life. It is how average guys get pussy. Even shit like Insta and other random social media works

 

[Deleted member 795]

I rarely see this.

Same here..

Hoping to be the average guy with hot gf (and then she will leave you lol) has less chance then imrpoving face

 

[Deleted member 245]

Same here..

Hoping to be the average guy with hot gf (and then she will leave you lol) has less chance then imrpoving face

Exactly. That's like trying to win the lottery. It's the exception and not the rule.

 

[Titbot]

This. Fucking this.
A lot of us would get some pussy if we had social life. It is how average guys get pussy. Even shit like Insta and other random social media works

I have s social life op, I haven’t even seen a girl tits before irl

 

[LDNPari]

I'm extremely NT when I'm drunk, benzos and phenibut can't compare

 

[Deleted member 2227]

this forum will never admit this

it only like to think in extremes for the dramatic tone

life is not that dramatic or exciting

In fact, life is pretty boring, i want to die everyday.
One emotional people can feel pleasure from social circles and friends.

 

[Deleted member 2205]

what is NT??
yeah having a social circle is legit

but fck it i just want to improve my looks and walk out lookin better lol

not being autistic. There are a lot of people with autism on this forum really.
I think it also means for social outcasts to try and fit in
It means Nuerotypical

 

[Peachy]

I'm surprised that social circles are still king in 2019

 

[Deleted member 245]

I'm surprised that social circles are still king in 2019

That's from 2009

2017 stats tell you that online is now leading

 

[medialcanthuscel]

 

[MammothActuary]

Because I know them personally and are all early twenties guys who don't have it made.

Average looking, not ugly but play sports and have social circle etc and have hot gfs

It used to be before social media that social circle was the main way to get girls. Now, its decreasing but it's still a legit way. A couple of years later as online dating further increases, looks will matter even more.

 

[Traxanas]

a lot of ppl seem to forget looks can give you opportunities to improve yourself socially and become NT overtime... all that one needs to do after one has ascended is the final step: to get the fuck out of any looks based site permanently and live life the way it is now

this why I think looks are 90% and the rest 10% as looks can help you in almost any way in this pathetic superficial gay earth.

 

[Deleted member 1180]

It's the reason average dudes I know have hot gfs and no they aren't betabuxxing.

Admit it, looks aren't everything.

It's due to StatusMaxxing people here undermine that big time. Women use guys for Status that is just the reality. Doesn't mean they are attracted to them it, but they get foids for that reason

not being autistic. There are a lot of people with autism on this forum really.
I think it also means for social outcasts to try and fit in
It means Nuerotypical

Lmao i'm an autist. But... you probably already new that

 

[dodt]

I never had a single foid in my social circle. Its cuz of me being ugly, but in some other social circles there are always foids.

 

[Deleted member 678]

my ex gf was hot and im subhuman af

 

[MammothActuary]

It's due to StatusMaxxing people here undermine that big time. Women use guys for Status that is just the reality. Doesn't mean they are attracted to them it, but they get foids for that reason

Lmao i'm an autist. But... you probably already new that

Having a hot boyfriend elevates a girl's status too

 

[Ritalincel]

op is a soggy biscuit player

 

[NormieKilla]

I'm tired of hearing that crap.

Social circle game is far from being easy. If you didn't get the chance to form and sustain one in your very youth, then you missed the boat and that would be exponentially difficult to play that game (especially past the age of 25).

Those so called "average guys" whom your talking about just had some luck to grow up within the ideal environment and to have a good upbringing.

Most of the time, your good looks allow your life to permutates in so many ways and you'd have it very easy when it comes to facets such as love, friends, job opportunities,etc..

Being NT and social don't make you attractive.

Being attractive makes you NT and social.

 

[Looksmaxer-van-NL]

then explain this, less and less ppl meeting through social circles, its over for normies/social circle/NTmaxxing means nothing in the very near future give up

 

[Dogs]

Men are supposed to be a complete package for women. They want an all in 1 deal to to satisfied. When you lack manly aspects in your life, women steer away.

Exactly. Socializing is almost impossible for many guys here. I can barely do it but unfortunately I have to pretend being nt all the time now because of looksmax.

Now that I've ascended a couple points, I find myself acting really nervous in public because now hot women stare and people love chatting with me on the streets.
That sounds really good doesn't it? Well I like it but I feel overwhelmed, I don't know how to deal with attention or small talk.

I feel under pressure just walking downtown, no one used to look at me at all a couple months ago. Life was easier as an incel.

People make smalltalk with me and it's not like I'm GL, people tend to tell me their life stories and shit one chick was telling me how she was addicted to heroin and all this crazy shit within like 1 minute of talking to me.

I still don't know how to react when people make smalltalk with me, I feel like they instantly know I'm weird when I respond but I think I'm just overthinking shit.

 

[Deleted member 2621]

yeah, a lot of these people could have a gf, but they don't leave their basement, or they don't talk to people in general.

Literally if you look at the rate me section most of the people here are average or above, still they whine while some balding dude out there is getting laid easily

then explain this, less and less ppl meeting through social circles, its over for normies/social circle/NTmaxxing means nothing in the very near future give up

Because less and less people have a social circle, people retreat into the familiar, their friends, their videogames, their basement

 

[Thushespokeofit]

So dumb so stupid I didnt read a word I just saw the title get your IQ checked

 

[Dogs]

Literally if you look at the rate me section most of the people here are average or above, still they whine while some balding dude out there is getting laid easily

Because less and less people have a social circle, people retreat into the familiar, their friends, their videogames, their basement

I'm balding and I'm not getting shit except for fin that's coming in next week