Being NT and knowing how to socialize is more beneficial in high school than being attractive

[OverSince08]

Status and charisma beats looks in high school. It’s all about who you know, who you’re chill with, etc. There are so many examples of this that it’s baffling to me that people still think looks are 80% of SMV. If you’re an Ltn but you’re funny and people like being around you, you’ll end up at parties and functions surrounded by girls. I know so many fucking chuds who get with mtbs and hmtbs while attractive ND guys talk to no one but their friend group and girls at school don’t even know who they are.

The thing is, if you don’t branch out and make friends with people and talk to girls in your class, even if you’re an htn, you’re ending up bitchless (or pulling random girls you don’t want) while the sub5 is making the pretty blond girls laugh in the back of the class. Who’s going to a party this Friday? the htn who sits at his desk head bent down looking at his phone or that ltn in the back surrounded by girls because he’s fun and easy to talk to? If you think the quiet htn is getting in that hoe you need to go outside, fast.

Some will say that girls won’t even pay attention to the ltn even if he’s funny because he doesn’t look good. Try counting how many htns there are in your school who barely get any girls. And see how many ltns you can spot with those big guy/girl friend groups with the parties and the pretty girls because they’re naturally confident, NT and good at talking to people.

The only outlier here is height; if you’re short (under 5’9) it’s much more difficult to garner this kind of attention since some girls will just not take you seriously. If you’re a shortcel just fraud and you’ll be fine.

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A 5 month long study was done in the US interviewing thousands of high school students on what makes “popular students” the most liked. For the record, popular kids are the NT randoms who are going to parties and beaches with all the bad girls from your school. During interviews, when asked "who do you like?" in surveys, the popular students consistently named more people than anyone else.

The popular kids weren't waiting for others to approach them.

They were the "first-likers" and actively chose to connect with their peers. They weren’t the most attractive, nor the most athletic, they were the ones who branched out and made friends outside of their circle.

I will admit that looks will add a LOT to your SMV and they are crucial in situations where you’re sending pics of yourself for a 2man or a quickadd on Snap. They also add a lot to your confidence. But the bottom line is that charisma and NTness win in high school.

The study can be found here

Dnr

 

[SentinoNieSentinel]

Status and charisma beats looks in high school. It’s all about who you know, who you’re chill with, etc. There are so many examples of this that it’s baffling to me that people still think looks are 80% of SMV. If you’re an Ltn but you’re funny and people like being around you, you’ll end up at parties and functions surrounded by girls. I know so many fucking chuds who get with mtbs and hmtbs while attractive ND guys talk to no one but their friend group and girls at school don’t even know who they are.

The thing is, if you don’t branch out and make friends with people and talk to girls in your class, even if you’re an htn, you’re ending up bitchless (or pulling random girls you don’t want) while the sub5 is making the pretty blond girls laugh in the back of the class. Who’s going to a party this Friday? the htn who sits at his desk head bent down looking at his phone or that ltn in the back surrounded by girls because he’s fun and easy to talk to? If you think the quiet htn is getting in that hoe you need to go outside, fast.

Some will say that girls won’t even pay attention to the ltn even if he’s funny because he doesn’t look good. Try counting how many htns there are in your school who barely get any girls. And see how many ltns you can spot with those big guy/girl friend groups with the parties and the pretty girls because they’re naturally confident, NT and good at talking to people.

The only outlier here is height; if you’re short (under 5’9) it’s much more difficult to garner this kind of attention since some girls will just not take you seriously. If you’re a shortcel just fraud and you’ll be fine.

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A 5 month long study was done in the US interviewing thousands of high school students on what makes “popular students” the most liked. For the record, popular kids are the NT randoms who are going to parties and beaches with all the bad girls from your school. During interviews, when asked "who do you like?" in surveys, the popular students consistently named more people than anyone else.

The popular kids weren't waiting for others to approach them.

They were the "first-likers" and actively chose to connect with their peers. They weren’t the most attractive, nor the most athletic, they were the ones who branched out and made friends outside of their circle.

I will admit that looks will add a LOT to your SMV and they are crucial in situations where you’re sending pics of yourself for a 2man or a quickadd on Snap. They also add a lot to your confidence. But the bottom line is that charisma and NTness win in high school.

The study can be found here

Really good post. And motivating. Also does this work as much in college? Or college is between looks+height pill and charisma+socialstatus pill? So as ND attractive dude I should just try to meet people?

 

[popeyesniggle]

Really good post. And motivating. Also does this work as much in college? Or college is between looks+height pill and charisma+socialstatus pill? So as ND attractive dude I should just try to meet people?

It works more in high school cause people are less mature and care more Abdou status but you can definitely do ts in college. I’d say all around height and charisma pill

 

[SentinoNieSentinel]

It works more in high school cause people are less mature and care more Abdou status but you can definitely do ts in college. I’d say all around height and charisma pill

Where would you rank face? Physique? Sports you do? Like martial arts be spiking up your social standing. Maybe something fight related like even rugby in europe. Ofc american football in usa. I think jus being hardcore at xyz sport can really up you but im not that socially experienced to really know. Man I just wish my opinions and existance was respected in groups and to get invited to shit and have looksmatch gf. To have little bit of privilege. Little bit of ioi. I love you bhai

 

[popeyesniggle]

Where would you rank face? Physique? Sports you do? Like martial arts be spiking up your social standing. Maybe something fight related like even rugby in europe. Ofc american football in usa. I think jus being hardcore at xyz sport can really up you but im not that socially experienced to really know. Man I just wish my opinions and existance was respected in groups and to get invited to shit and have looksmatch gf. To have little bit of privilege. Little bit of ioi. I love you bhai

martial arts make you seem ND if you talk about them but they’re very useful. physique is after face and in high school charisma and height are everything. in the us where i am football doesn’t boost you as much as lacrosse or baseball but it depends on your area. to get invited to shit just talk to your NT classmates and try to seem NT. make sure you find your people even if they’re losers so you can form a friend group, and then try to infiltrate the NT friend groups. happy to help bro
also rep me

 

[combatingNorwooding]

Thats not gonna happen if you're horrifically ugly

Yeah ofc someone won’t fit in if he’s “horrifically” ugly LOL. Most people aren’t horrifically ugly tho

LTNs and MTNs here think they will never succeed in life since they have average faces but they are socially awkward asf and are ND. No face for your personality boyo. Even a socially awkward chad will slay less than charisma maxxed, low inhib HTN

 

[SentinoNieSentinel]

martial arts make you seem ND if you talk about them but they’re very useful. physique is after face and in high school charisma and height are everything. in the us where i am football doesn’t boost you as much as lacrosse or baseball but it depends on your area. to get invited to shit just talk to your NT classmates and try to seem NT. make sure you find your people even if they’re losers so you can form a friend group, and then try to infiltrate the NT friend groups. happy to help bro
also rep me

What is rep? Like give likes? I follow you. I try to infiltrate NT s i got to like soccer games for those drinking NTs its like soccer on small fields. 80-95% of kids are or were trained, i never did maybe i got some talent or athleticism. It can help me socialize. But we rarely play, i will play first time on Sunday. I was most lonely before 6th grade and in 3rd of hs, bit of first and fourth. I did some martial arts but it didnt change that much

 

[popeyesniggle]

What is rep? Like give likes? I follow you. I try to infiltrate NT s i got to like soccer games for those drinking NTs its like soccer on small fields. 80-95% of kids are or were trained, i never did maybe i got some talent or athleticism. It can help me socialize. But we rarely play, i will play first time on Sunday. I was most lonely before 6th grade and in 3rd of hs, bit of first and fourth. I did some martial arts but it didnt change that much

just try to branch out as they say. literally js try to be more social and talk to more people. the more people talk to you the more people like you and therefore the more people will invite you to shit like parties.

 

[SentinoNieSentinel]

just try to branch out as they say. literally js try to be more social and talk to more people. the more people talk to you the more people like you and therefore the more people will invite you to shit like parties.

Yeah you mean like report button thanks bhai greetings from our tribe in mumbai we eatin rats 'n chips and shiii maaan