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I am really extroverted and due to life issues I have learnt how to socialize (as in artificially learned)
i am also VERY ND
HOWEVER, what I notice a lot is how a lot of my friends (and a lot of you) think the problem is not being NT
when in reality its the fact that you are not extroverted enough.
You could be the most NT person ever, if you are unable to hold a conversation and make people feel comfortable
and morph yourself to their personality being NT is useless
I have friends that are 10x smarter and more NT than me but struggle with talking with people
due to the fact that they can't "break the fourth wall"
I saw this thread on botb : https://looksmax.org/threads/how-social-interaction-actually-works.1793207/
and while most of it is true it assumes you are talking to college students in a cafe in the US.
In reality if you try blunt non extroverted , calm topics with most people
unless they really like you the conversation WILL go to hell
because, GET THIS: The average person isn't smart and or talkative enough to have a flowy
conversation on boring topics.
Anyone that tells you otherwise DOES NOT go outside / lives in a movie
i am also VERY ND
HOWEVER, what I notice a lot is how a lot of my friends (and a lot of you) think the problem is not being NT
when in reality its the fact that you are not extroverted enough.
You could be the most NT person ever, if you are unable to hold a conversation and make people feel comfortable
and morph yourself to their personality being NT is useless
I have friends that are 10x smarter and more NT than me but struggle with talking with people
due to the fact that they can't "break the fourth wall"
I saw this thread on botb : https://looksmax.org/threads/how-social-interaction-actually-works.1793207/
and while most of it is true it assumes you are talking to college students in a cafe in the US.
In reality if you try blunt non extroverted , calm topics with most people
unless they really like you the conversation WILL go to hell
because, GET THIS: The average person isn't smart and or talkative enough to have a flowy
conversation on boring topics.
Anyone that tells you otherwise DOES NOT go outside / lives in a movie